I'm in a dilemma. Basically in freshmen and part of sophmore year I was really fat so u can obviously understand, I got no girls lol. Then I basically slimmed down ALOT and I had a girl 4 a little while but it wasnt really anything or very long at all. So I've been gf-less 4 a long while. I have a girl best friend that I've been friends with since 4th grade. We're so close that I dont see her any different than my guy friends. We've fooled around b4 but then stopped. She told me she's bi and in a relationship with a girl. My friends tell me that I should just go out with her but I cant and I promised her I wouldnt tell any1 about her secret. I'm not physically attracted 2 her and she's not attracted 2 me. In the past year, I havent met 1 girl (in my league) that I'm attracted 2 or even showed an interest towards me. I'm just confused as 2 what I should do. HS relationships mean nothing 2 me other than having ur 1st time (or multiple) and maybe 1st love. Y do people see it as more?
2007-03-05 15:54:53 · 6 answers · asked by John 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For starters, if you don't feel attracted to your girl best friend than you definetly shouldn't go out with her, but it's okay not to love someone in highschool. You can always find someone later in life no need to rush into anything. Just focus on being friends with girls that you like and maybe it can blossom into something more later!
2007-03-05 16:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I mean in general its more about the conections that you make with people, if you like someone in your life you should try to keep them there. And if both of you really feel the same about eachother I don't see why you would fool around just for the pleasure of it...But, then again I'm a guy, and there's just somethings that I don't quite understand about women and sex, and I've been going out with my girlfriend for 4 years...but yes have safe sex with girls who are looking for the same...it can be hard to find them.
2007-03-05 16:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by mcgeemcmickle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dude this is what i have for you just go out with her like she said and at the same time try to look for another girl DO NOT expect a real realationship you in college so go out and **** anybody that comes towards you. PS don't forget to take you condoms with you any where you go b/c you never know what will happen
2007-03-05 16:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by pimpology 101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are people that define who they are by who they hang out with or date. This is obviously not your problem. Relax you are a normal person. Things will happen when they are supposed to so don't rush it just enjoy life. Live, laugh and have fun. You only get one life so make the best of it and stop worring what others are doing.
2007-03-05 16:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Connie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW JUST BE FRIENDS WITH HER AND GO OUT AND TRY TO MEET NEW GIRLS AND JUST HANG OUT WITH HER GOOD LUCK
2007-03-05 16:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by IT WASNT ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys can be **** buddies :).
2007-03-05 15:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by emagicservices 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋