We go to college together and we started talking online. Then later he asked if i wanted to text him and i gave him my number and we started texting alot. Now, we have been talking for a couple weeks and everything seems okay. However, he said he was going to sit next to me in class when he texted me but he didnt. So I think he is kind of shy and i wanna make it easier for us to talk in person. How can I make the first move?
2007-03-05 15:54:29 · 5 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe start by texting him to ask him if you can sit next to him during class and just make light conversation for a while, maybe by doing that for a long period of days you can become really good friends in person more so than in texting. If you can text and have a good conversation I'm sure you can in person too!
2007-03-05 16:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you just sit next to him and talk to him before or after class. Maybe see if he wants to meet you for lunch, dinner, or coffee, something fairly casual. Maybe he wants a study partner for the next test. Just go and talk to the guy. It doesn't really matter what you say, as long as you show interest.
2007-03-06 00:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by msi_cord 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it was *his* idea to sit next to you, then you should just go sit with him next class. If he's shy, I know he'd appreciate it. And don't force a conversation or anything, that always makes it awkward. Good luck!!
2007-03-06 00:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by XXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendship... goes to... love...and that goes to marriage....
the first thing.. is be a friend... keep it like good attention on him... i don't mean bother him every minute... just ... show that u care.. and make him care bout u.. someday.. if the love really correspond.. then.. it may work.. and also... make him express what he feels.. so do u....
2007-03-05 23:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by jjgv2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh hmm talk to him outside of school....duh during weekends etc.
2007-03-05 23:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by A_2__the__E__Adrenaline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋