My ex -boyfriend called me a few months ago and asked me to go see a movie with him. I had not seen him in ONE YEAR. We dated for a short while then HE ended it. I said yes, he picked me up and after the movie he drove me home. While we were driving home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me he said he wants "to see me every once in awhile". By the way, we never had sex while dating cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage, so don't say this was a bootycall. Then he went on a trip. When he came back I sadi hi to me twice on msn. I won't say hi to him anymore until he does. Also, during this year, even though HE ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn. Is he ignoring me, was this movoe date just for his own closure? WHY would he do this to me, why did he wanna hangout after one year then ignore me now? He's 26 while I'm 21.
2007-03-05 15:53:11 · 5 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are both single and you obviously are attracted to one another, he might just want to hang out with you from time to time. You shouldn't read so much into it. Enjoy him if you have the time and if you want to. Guys like to do the pursuing, and let's face it we girls like to play a little hard to get. Don't make yourself available to him at his convenience. Play a little hard to get, and a I guarantee you might peak his interest and he will want to see more of you. It's all about playing the dating game and seeing if he has the qualities that you might want in a lifetime partner. In other words, don't analyze so much, keep things light...keep him wanting more.
2007-03-05 16:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by MegMaher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds young. I would let it go. He sounds confused and maybe hoping you'll "come around" in the sex dept. There is no reason to be rude. If he says hi, then give him a friendly hi back. But move on....there are plenty of fish in the sea. Do you really want to waist time trying to figure him out when you could be with someone with some self confidence?
2007-03-06 00:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by Poptart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people do need to see that person for closure, but this seems a little weird. I wouldn't hang out with if I were you until you are sure of his intentions. Speak to him when he speaks, but don't think of it as anything more then words!
2007-03-05 23:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask this question like 10 more times, because I don;t think I understood it the first 15 times. Why do you care its been a year? Get over him, quit being so pathetic.
2007-03-05 23:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok
2007-03-05 23:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Daft Punker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋