I am in 11th grade and have been asked out by five girls since eighth grade. It is not that there is anything wrong with them, but i am a little self concious(sp?) about my weight. Also i have hyperhydrosis, which is severe sweating from the hands, underarms,etc. I would not have said not to two of them if i did not have these problems. But alot of people think i am a jerk, and some think i am gay. i'm not.
2007-03-05 15:49:55 · 8 answers · asked by champianary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you do some dieting and exercise to get a little more fit and see a doctor about your hyperhydrosis, maybe you'll be a little more confident. Doctors can prescribe antiperspirants for things like that.
2007-03-05 15:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, no, it doesn't make you a jerk, provided you turn them down in a gentle, considerate way.
Second of all- that's no reason to be turning girls down! We ALL have our little flaws. If they asked you out, they obviously don't think you're too overweight. And hey, I'll let you in on a little secret- I sweat like crazy too. But you have to get beyond that stuff or no one would ever go out with anyone.
PS, there's this product called certain dry, and it's amazing. You put it on at night and your armpits will be totally dry all the time. It takes about a week to start working though. Trust me, nothing else worked for me, and you can get it at any drugstore.
2007-03-05 23:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by M L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a jerk....just selfconcious. Obviously the sweating & weight problem hasn't been an issue with these girls, so how bad could it be? Life & love is a risk.....go for it, any girl worth your time will understand and not care. It beats sitting alone and passing up opportunities to be happy.
2007-03-05 23:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should put your worrys aside and ask out one of the girls you like. next time you have a doctors visit talk to him about your problem and tell him how it is effecting your relationships with the opposite sex. see if there are any new treatment options. wear cottons, or clothing that breaths with your skin. being nervous will make you sweat more. i thing getting a little more confident will help you. My son wears mesh athletic jersey type clothes and i don't think that material would show sweat as much as cotton does. go see your doctor.
2007-03-05 23:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop focusing in on your problems, if they like you then give it a try. and it doesnt matter what other people think about you as far as being gay and a jerk. you are going to have to say yes some time and if they really like you then they will accept all of your problems but you have to accept theirs (i kno its hard to believe, but not all of us are perfect!! j/k)
2007-03-05 23:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by pointegurlie7706 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have girls asking you out, but you are too self conscious to say yes? You need to go out with these girls, don't "sweat it."
2007-03-05 23:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..only by 5 girls, loser...But hell yea it makes you a jerk, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a jerk, jerk's are naturally more attractive than wussies are to females. but dude.. ONLY 5...........that's like less than 1 every 6 months..that's horrid bro.
2007-03-05 23:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by A_2__the__E__Adrenaline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who gives a crap and say yes to them. if they dont like it then screw them
2007-03-05 23:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by Gonzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋