I know its long but i really need your help so please bare with me here
Ok so i met this amazing guy and we went on our first date together we had a really good time we kissed and did a little more than that not much more but a little more and he told me he loved me and would never hurt or break up with me, things were great we just spent the whole night talking and kissing in the park, he was so sweet and caring and i really liked him, as we parted that night/morning things were great but then a couple of days later i got a message from a mutual 'friend' that i met through my friends once before and she goes to his school well anyways she told me that he had another girlfriend at tafe, i was devestated i wanted to hear it from him but i couldnt face calling him so i texted him and got no reply for two days then i got another message from our mutal 'friend' that she had a message from him for me that its over i was so depressed (even suicidal) i figured he just used me and was only out for one thing but now a week and a half later i get a message from him.
saying that he never broke it off with me and he has no other girlfriend, i dont know what to believe, he cant give me a reason why she would make that up so i dont know if i an believe him, he said he couldnt get back to me sooner because he had no credit but i just dont see why someone could be so cruel making that up for no reason, i dont know what to believe, i dont know what to do.I really really like this guy but i cant be hurt again i wont survive it but i dont wanna give something great up over a missunderstanding, please what should i do.Should i throw it away and wonder what could have been but also potentially save myself from a liar whos using me or should i trust him and forgive and forget.I dont know what to do, please help!
2007-03-05 15:49:35 · 6 answers · asked by lily paige 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1 of 2 things could have happened..
1. he told you all that fancy love stuff to get farther with you than you say you went. They do that all the time. They never mean a word of it. they don't know what love it, but they know what their body is telling them they need and it isn't love.
So that means he may have a girl and he may get what he needs from her and wanted more or she isn't putting out either.
Or
the person who told you he had a girl and is mistaken.. Maybe he was hanging out with her but they are just friends.
I say get with your friend and confirm it some how. Get the other girls number and call her. She needs to know if he is messin around on her anyway. If they aren't together then great...
guys do this...... if you give into them and give them what they want because they are telling you all those mushy things then they will not respect you any more.. You're then a ho....
they will either come back to you for more and use you or never go out with you again. But in the end they will not want you.
If you don't give into them they will probably not go out with you much anymore unless they want to keep tryin.
There are some guys out there that will stay with you if you tell them no that you want to wait. Hope you want to wait...
2007-03-05 16:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it very hard to believe that he didn't lie to you. I'm sorry to say but I feel this guy is a player and tried to use you for sex. If a guy really cared that much after the first night he would have contacted you the next day and the next. Its time for you to move on, you don't deserve this kind of stuff in your life.
2007-03-05 15:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say he couldn't call you back because he had no credit, does he not have a home phone? some guys play games. he goes to a different school so ask around. you can still be around him just don't go to far with him again. see what he does, remember always!! know guy is ever worth hurting yourself over.specially one you don't know if you can trust.
2007-03-05 16:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is not a player but a shamless liar !...he is using u ..:) sorry but this is the truth and truth hurts...and dont say i love him..and etc etc..would u like to love a liar?!..and if u give up your pride and forget and forgive..it will never finish and u will always realize that u have to forgive and forget.....!
2007-03-05 16:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Visit him at his house. You could go in the daytime and take a friend with you under some excuse. She if there are girls pictures in the house that aren't family members.
2007-03-05 15:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he was just looking for what he could get, and he got
caught, if he had nothing to hide he would it got in touch with
you sooner then he did. he had to make up a lie that he thougtht
you would believe. time to move on,
2007-03-05 16:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋