Family & Relationships - 3 March 2007

I'm friends with this guy I turned down already (two years ago). I talk to him a lot and he's really funny and everything but he's really weird and geeky. Also, he can be kinda mean to me sometimes. Most of my friends don't like him. The other day I was talking to him and I mentioned going to the mall with our other friend, Susan. So, he planned it all and it turned out Susan's boyfriend was going too. On the way to the mall he mantioned how he thought these other two girls are hot. Then at the mall he kept trying to put his arm around me and acted a little like it was a date. I don't know if I like him or not. I think I might, but I don't want to go out with him because it would be weird and I worry about what other people would think. Dating him could wreck my chances at getting another boyfriend. What should I do? Should I talk to him about the mall incident? Should I ask him out? Advice please!

2007-03-03 08:13:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is so hard to explain and I hope that I don justice to what I really need to say. I have recently found out that my boyfriend of four years doesn't want me to go back to school or work. I was in school until I had a complicated pregnancy with our second child he said that he was paying on my school loans and he hasn't. I just got a letter in the mail stating that. When I asked he said that at least this was a way that it insured me never returning to school. He said that I better get used to the idea that the only thing that I would amount to was somebody's mother. He won't renew the tags on my car so I can't drive to get a job and even if I was allowed to work he won't pay for child care. I can't leave him cause I have no where to go but I really want to be someone and do something. I do love him and he has reasons for what he does. I don't think that he realizes how much that I hate myself and I feel as if I got out of the house I would feel better about me. Help!

2007-03-03 08:13:05 · 12 answers · asked by tragedys_eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-03 08:12:43 · 3 answers · asked by chris k 1 in Singles & Dating

I know for absolutely 100% that my mum is having an affair! She doesn't know that I know, and I really don't know what to do! Should I tell my dad or just confront her. I can't even talk to her because it makes me sick. I know it's probably not a huge deal, but she if she isn't happy then why doesn't she just leave??? AHH!

2007-03-03 08:11:39 · 41 answers · asked by :) 5 in Family

ok look this girl thinks she is my BEST friend she always hangs around me and my friends and she is anoying. what should I say to her??

2007-03-03 08:11:35 · 4 answers · asked by glowgirl28 2 in Friends

where can i find a group of these precious girls?

2007-03-03 08:08:57 · 22 answers · asked by f.u.c.k is u starin @ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 08:08:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can i make everything about him

2007-03-03 08:08:15 · 2 answers · asked by ladypooh161 1 in Singles & Dating

She & I were together when I purchased the cell phones with a family plan. I don't mind paying for it but I do expect them to answer when I do call. I don't call maybe 4 Xs a month if that. But honestly, it breaks my heart when this daughter is rude and insensitive I just cry because I don't know how to respond. Should I cancel her phone & put a change of address on her mail? Its getting too hard to bare, especially when other family members tell me my kids are selfish & are leaches. Sound advice would be appreciated. Thanks...

2007-03-03 08:07:55 · 9 answers · asked by Fey 1 in Family

What shall I do to avoid a good friend. who calls me and text me almost daily but due to busy life she was not doing it much and I found it very irritating so I started avoiding her to give her n myself some space. Today I didnt receive her call and didnt reply to her text. For sure she is gonna ask me y didnt talk to her. I have the excuse for it but I cant always have the same excuses to give to her. please give me good answers.

I know she is a good friend. I dont want to hurt her feelings I just want to give myself sometime alone. If I tell her this she would think that I dnt want to talk to her and I know I wont be able to explain to her anything in detail.
And the whole thing will take a bad shape. I dont want to lose her friendship but I just want to have some space. please tell me something to do, how shall I avoid her without offending her in anyway. Thanks to every1 who will answer me.

2007-03-03 08:07:40 · 11 answers · asked by lets_smile07 1 in Friends

2007-03-03 08:07:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend thinks its time that we make love, not that i dont want to its just that i'm not good at handle pain, and i'm scared that when he get what he wants he might treat me different or want it every other day?.so many time we tryed it and i stoped him i dont want my relationship to end just b/c i'm not ready yet? what should i do? i really want to but when it comes down to everything off and him entering i get scared and start to breath very heavy, its hard for me to relax i think soo much i try to stop myself but cant?how do i handle this sitution? pleaz help

2007-03-03 08:07:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you do when your twelve years old and has breast like a 37 yearold? And you hate it because people keep asking you if their fake when the little girl is only 12. It's not me ew it's my friend.

2007-03-03 08:07:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-03 08:06:34 · 2 answers · asked by stoneman 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 08:05:53 · 11 answers · asked by sugar and spice 1 in Singles & Dating

i have ONE class with her and i want to talk to her and maby go out with her after a while. and we dont sit by eachother i see her in the halls rarely and i jsut dont have any idea of wat to say..
i relly need advice on how to do this... please?

2007-03-03 08:05:25 · 17 answers · asked by Josh 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 08:04:45 · 3 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 08:04:45 · 11 answers · asked by sxy latina XXX 1 in Singles & Dating

Everytime when she's with her boyfriend,and he runs into one of his friends,or if they comes over the house when she's there,they never specks to her.I told her to leave him they only been dating for about six months,but she says she loves him.I think he's been messing with these hookers what do you think?

2007-03-03 08:04:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to find a way to release stress, without hurting others. Or whatever is around me. Everytime i get ticked off, i end up throwing stuff, and usually breaking it. I live about 10 minutes out of town, and there is no way i can go to stores, or a gym or anything. I cant scream, cuz i live with my g-ma, g-pa, mom, and uncle, and i will get in trouble if i do...so how do you guys release stress? and evertime i try to release it, i end up just crying!! then getting a major headache after words. PLZ HELP!!!!

2007-03-03 08:04:04 · 18 answers · asked by Nichole 2 in Friends

Me and my ex broke up and I am pregnant, he knows. We have been together for years. Engaged had wedding planned BEFORE pregnancy...Now..He is living hours away with his parents. He thinks I am dating someone now and he calls all the time...I do want him back...It seems he is coming around..He kept asking me how long have I been seeing him and having intercourse with him...I haven't been seeing the guy and never had sex with him..He doesn't seem to believe me. He is all bent out of shape..Do you think maybe he wants me back now??? Should I take him back? At first he said that we just "can't" work out but now I told him I just want to take things slow but today we talked and said that we just fight too much..It's hard because I think we are both just frustrated..What should I tell him?

2007-03-03 08:04:01 · 1 answers · asked by maryjane_catnip 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago. I know this may sound silly but I tend to have a "sixth sense" and usually am dead on accurate when determining how people actually feel. Anyway, she broke up with me due to "no butterflies or spark." This came out of left field, which is why this is weird. However, she has been through a lot. Two brain surgeries and a real jerk of an ex boyfriend (before me), who she claimed she was in love with. When we broke up with me I asked her if she was afraid. Without hesitation she said yes. We didnt discuss this further, even though i should have. What could she be afraid of? Is she afraid to hurt me? Or could it be she was afraid to get involved? Or was she afraid to fall back in love? Do these sound like reasons to break up with a person? Maybe she is pushing me away because she thinks she will get hurt again? Any real advice would be much appreciated. thanks. Btw.. her and I still talk and are still friends.

2007-03-03 08:03:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i havew been talking to someone on the internet for a few weeks and he is already saying he loves me.we have not even met yet.he tells me he misses me and alot of other things .is this normal or should tell him to leave me alone

2007-03-03 08:03:23 · 7 answers · asked by dede2772 4 in Singles & Dating

to baby sit - with only two bottles of red wine and Yahoo instant messenger

anybody any ideas or suggestions

2007-03-03 08:03:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was "snooping" in my sisters myspace, whom is 13, and she wrote an email to a friend that moved away. They was talking about how they changed. My sister said nothing much changed except that she is bisexual and she dated this girl. This girl has been coming to her house. God knows what goes on when my mother goes to sleep. How do i confront her about this without ruining her trust... I DID SNOOP...

2007-03-03 08:03:13 · 14 answers · asked by Meshelle H 1 in Family

Me and my ex broke up and I am pregnant, he knows. We have been together for years. Engaged had wedding planned BEFORE pregnancy...Now..He is living hours away with his parents. He thinks I am dating someone now and he calls all the time...I do want him back...It seems he is coming around..He kept asking me how long have I been seeing him and having intercourse with him...I haven't been seeing the guy and never had sex with him..He doesn't seem to believe me. He is all bent out of shape..Do you think maybe he wants me back now??? Should I take him back? At first he said that we just "can't" work out but now I told him I just want to take things slow but today we talked and said that we just fight too much..It's hard because I think we are both just frustrated..What should I tell him?

2007-03-03 08:02:55 · 4 answers · asked by maryjane_catnip 1 in Singles & Dating

We have a daughter together, but I don't think that I love her.

2007-03-03 08:02:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok i went to the skating ring the other day and i met this guy who could really skate well, at the time i talked to him the dj had asked everyone to get off the floor and allow couples only, but i didnt want to get off so i asked that guy to skate with me; he did however, he asked if he could have my number and i said why not i could see myself being his friend, but i really didnt expect him to call but he did now.. he is always calling me wanting to get together and go to the movies.. and he'll get mad if i dont call him.. (Krazy i know) but the real problem is i kind of told him that i was seeing someone but it may have sounded as though we werent serious.. so now i dont know how to break this off before it gets to out of hand.. ( Fyi- i dont call him, he calls me)

2007-03-03 08:02:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really really like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me, but me and him have already went out but i ended up braking up with him because i thought he started believe wat other people would say that wasnt true. and he asked me out not to long ago but i never answered because i hated that he got someone to ask for him i mean i understand if he is shy and all but it cant be that hard or could it?anyways but their is this other guy that everyone is saying that likes me but me and him are just friends for right now but i dont want him to ask me out and me say no because i only like him as a good friend and because i would only see him at church and thats it.
wat do i do? im so confused and lost at the same time!!!!!!!!

2007-03-03 08:02:07 · 2 answers · asked by elaina 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi im 18 and my childs father is 27 we have a very good relationship despite our age difference. What would you do if you fell in love with someone 9 years older than you?

2007-03-03 08:02:07 · 8 answers · asked by Brianna M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships