What shall I do to avoid a good friend. who calls me and text me almost daily but due to busy life she was not doing it much and I found it very irritating so I started avoiding her to give her n myself some space. Today I didnt receive her call and didnt reply to her text. For sure she is gonna ask me y didnt talk to her. I have the excuse for it but I cant always have the same excuses to give to her. please give me good answers.
I know she is a good friend. I dont want to hurt her feelings I just want to give myself sometime alone. If I tell her this she would think that I dnt want to talk to her and I know I wont be able to explain to her anything in detail.
And the whole thing will take a bad shape. I dont want to lose her friendship but I just want to have some space. please tell me something to do, how shall I avoid her without offending her in anyway. Thanks to every1 who will answer me.
2007-03-03 08:07:40 · 11 answers · asked by lets_smile07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she really is a good friend, she'll understand when you ask her for some space. Tell her that she's coming on too strong. Tell her that it's like when you get too much of something good, and then you need a break from it. Like Ice cream!
2007-03-03 08:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by Swini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her it straight that you need some you time like everyone does and you cant reply all the time but still want to stay friends. personally if i didnt get a reply all the time i would wonder what i had done so just tell her what the friendship means to you and you need you time.
good luck
2007-03-03 08:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way would be to go out with her to somewhere quiet and have a drink or coffee or anything and take your time and explain it to her fully how you feel. Tell her what you said here.
BUT do not repeat not! tell her you came on here to ask!
2007-03-03 08:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by R.E.M.E. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, if she is a good friend she will understand that you need some space.
2007-03-03 08:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by Misc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's a little one sided now, and she's not your best friend, at least in your eyes.
Explain it to her, or if your chicken wait till you get some answers and email her this page.
2007-03-03 08:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mystee_Rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the best option for you is to tell her =)
2007-03-03 08:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say you are very busy right now and don't have time or else that you have a faulty phone
2007-03-03 08:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by jinx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think us should talk to her first...but i think its too hard...tell her ur busy so u cant call her or reply her...but y ur going to avoid ur best friend??i dont think its right....
2007-03-03 08:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by shekatot09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you really feel. if shes a real friend she'll understand
2007-03-03 08:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say you have another best friend and have only got time on a wednesday for her.
2007-03-03 09:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by pilgrim_conrad_3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋