Me and my ex broke up and I am pregnant, he knows. We have been together for years. Engaged had wedding planned BEFORE pregnancy...Now..He is living hours away with his parents. He thinks I am dating someone now and he calls all the time...I do want him back...It seems he is coming around..He kept asking me how long have I been seeing him and having intercourse with him...I haven't been seeing the guy and never had sex with him..He doesn't seem to believe me. He is all bent out of shape..Do you think maybe he wants me back now??? Should I take him back? At first he said that we just "can't" work out but now I told him I just want to take things slow but today we talked and said that we just fight too much..It's hard because I think we are both just frustrated..What should I tell him?
2007-03-03 08:02:55 · 4 answers · asked by maryjane_catnip 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He knows that I am pregnant and I am concentrated on my baby..I do love him very much and would never get back with him JUST because of our child..I don't know if I should just not talk to him for awhile and really let him miss me..Because he gets EVERYTHING from me except physical contact..He calls me when he is happy..sad...depressed...excit... yada..I said that maybe we should take a break and not talk for a bit to clear our heads and he finally agreed. I just don't know if maybe I should just give up, any advice please!
2007-03-03 08:08:38 · update #1
Why do you want to be with someone that doesn't believe and trust you??? If it's his baby then just keep things amicable between the two of you for the baby's sake. Other than that move on and find someone better.
2007-03-03 08:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by babeebluez73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving relationships are built on respect and trust, It appears to me that your ex is very insecure, so I can only advise that you tell him that you need time to think things over, you have a child on the way so your first priority is to make sure that he or she Is brought up in a loving and secure environment. Good Luck.
2007-03-03 16:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by bobgee46 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart.
if you want him back, tell him that.
true feelings always touches someone's heart.
You need him back. Try to understand from his point of views as well and communicate without any harsh feelings.
2007-03-03 16:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by daisyleemie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well say if you dont beleive me you go to hell! or somthing and hang up right after you said that or dont answer the phone
2007-03-03 16:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋