Family & Relationships - 1 March 2007

To have a boyfriend that is 20 w/ a baby mama

2007-03-01 01:28:43 · 6 answers · asked by MonieJ 2 in Singles & Dating

I’ve see this question asked before, but I think it needed to be asked by a man. Why is this question only for women who are physically fit or not overweight? See my answer to the question “Guys, what do you like in a girl?” asked by GagaGirl.

When you are in public, what is the first thing that attracts you to a man out of all the men around you? Is it his physical fitness or lack thereof? Is it how he’s dressed? Is it how he acts around you? Is it how he smells? And/or do you try to look past their exterior, deeper into men, and look for something that’s not readily apparent? Or do you only judge a man by his exterior? How important is his interior qualities versus his exterior qualities to you (Which is more important to you?)

2007-03-01 01:28:30 · 9 answers · asked by kmarshal73 2 in Singles & Dating

I still love my ex, and he really doesn't like me anymore. He says I am annoying and that he has moved on. He is making this more of an interesting experience for me, cuz I get to chase after him, and I gave it a break for a few months, then went back to him and tried being friends again. Well now, I am worried about becoming obsessed, and its really scaring me, and I wish I could just turn around and accept the fact that we were never meant to be and that we're over now, but its just too hard. What should I do?

2007-03-01 01:28:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been wit my guy for 7 years (met in 9th grade) whats the best age to be married in

2007-03-01 01:27:39 · 31 answers · asked by love66677020 1 in Weddings

Belgium?

2007-03-01 01:27:25 · 10 answers · asked by Trousers 1 in Singles & Dating

i really lilehis guy and hes a good christian and everythiing hes exactly the kind of guy i want even down to the blond hair and blue eyes part. ive heard rumor that he likes me as much as i like him, but ive also heard rumor that he knos i like him. so im not sure if his best friend was serious or if he wuz messin with me. . . i can see him starrin at me ALL the time and my friends all thinks he likes me because of how he acts when im around . . . but we dont talk at all! maybe a hi hello in the hall way or a 'wuts the answer to #7,' kinda thing but were not really friends . . .

should i go and be bold and see if he does or not?

I dont want him to think of me as some creepy stalker or any thing like that so how do i know before?

but wut should i do? how do i kno if he likes me or not or if hes just shy? plz help!

2007-03-01 01:27:10 · 6 answers · asked by mAnDiE 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and his mother were evicted about three weeks ago from their apartment. I'm 18 and they have been living with me since then. I feel almost intruded and feel like they are making no effort to find a place of their own. I bring it up to my boyfriend and he gets defensive and causes an argument, so I've ceased bringing it up. For the past month I've also began to drift away from the relationship, and with him living with me, it's been even more of a nuscence becuase He's always there and I think that if this is what it will be like in the future, I'm not sure if I want this. Maybe it's a good thing to help decide my future?
What's the best way to approach my situation and decide what to do with my future? (He's my first boyfriend as well, so it's even more difficult for me to decide what I want because I have no comparison... HELP)

2007-03-01 01:26:47 · 11 answers · asked by Akia_Tora 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been trying to find a job on and off for the last couple of years without much success as well as trying to hustle by walking dogs, cleaning apartments, etc. My family who has been worried that they would have to give my mom and I some money are now doing that and are angry as a result. When I tried to tell them that the job market is tight and I have been trying to find a job, they treat me as a liar. The last time that I was unemployed, they pressured me into finding a job, which I did , and was so angry at them that I took it out on employees at the job and was subsequently fired. I now have an injury to my leg in which I can't put it down completely and I wonder should I try to go on job interviews and I've no health insurance. I am in my mid 30's and I am tired of being treated like a baby or having to account for every job move to the family? I am feeling more suicidal by the day and I don't want to go to another job and going off and getting fired again. Help!!!!!

2007-03-01 01:26:24 · 4 answers · asked by rrichards2k3 3 in Family

I had a guy friend that was not a boyfriend or anything. But, I thought we were friends. We come from two very different backgrounds with our own ideas. Because of mixed signals and not good communication we had a falling out. He said he cared and I do too but I did not tell him that. At this time we don't want to be around each other or have anything to do with each other.

2007-03-01 01:25:58 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

my dad has always been a bas***d i was beaten by him alot growing up he has a terminal illness and this has always been his excuse last year he said he was depressed and started taken heroin he got clean and i for gave for the sake of my mum this was befor xmas 2005 he the done it agian a few weeks after my wedding in april he stole the money that was ment to be for a presant for me and spent it on heroin i never forgave him and havent spoke to him since i have my own family to think about including my 2 sons but my mum is giving me hassle about forgiving him what do you think??

2007-03-01 01:25:32 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I need an engagement ring.... Dose anyone know of a sight or something?

2007-03-01 01:25:27 · 17 answers · asked by goddessbelldandie 1 in Weddings

I noticed that when my girlfriend let me cuddle with her when she has her regular clothes on. She doesn't let me cuddle with her when we were at a bath and she has her bathing suit on and I had my swim trunks on. why is that? I love her dearly

2007-03-01 01:25:20 · 1 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Friends

2007-03-01 01:25:13 · 2 answers · asked by famo 1 in Singles & Dating

Crazy question???How to tell someone their technique is not right???
How do you tell your other half that the way they are giving you ora l is not doing anything for you??Now keep in mind they "love" to pleasure you..but it is just and hasnt been working for me.Its his technique well how he does it..I mean i have and do very MUCH enjoy ora l.But he is very upset and takes it personal if i dont "get off" by him doing that,I've tried to talk to him and explain to slow down or relax or just do what comes naturally,so i am all with working with him.He says i'm holding back and telling him to stop hurts his feelings then he will actually not even want to follow up with sex which is what i want. Its a new relationship so i tell him we just have to get used to eachother..Any suggestions???

2007-03-01 01:25:03 · 6 answers · asked by ccrazeegyrl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i would specifically like to ask this question to Indian guys out there. but anyway, everybody could still answer it though...

which one do you like in a girl specifically?
- long or short hair?
- straight or curly?
- tan or fair?
- tall or small?
- chubby or sexy?
- sexy or sporty?
- intelligent or kind?

i really appreciate your answer guys!

2007-03-01 01:23:15 · 5 answers · asked by pink2litle 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother and sister are throwing my fiance and I an engagement party in two weeks. We know that we are having lots of food and drinks at my mom's house. But we were wondering what else is done at an engagement party? Are their games? I've never been to one so I don't know. I think food and drinks are fine, right?

2007-03-01 01:22:31 · 15 answers · asked by Mimi 7 in Weddings

I live in India. I need to know all formalities regarding a court marriage. What is the entire procedure

2007-03-01 01:22:05 · 2 answers · asked by mukeshmk27 1 in Weddings

we both want to get married however we have no money and keep using that as our reason not to, so any helpful creative ways to get engaged and married that is inexpensive yet personal would be great, thanks

2007-03-01 01:21:46 · 11 answers · asked by SimplyHappy 4 in Weddings

Crazy question???How do you tell your other half that the way they are giving you "or*l" is not doing anything for you??Now keep in mind they "love" to pleasure you..but it is just and hasnt been working for me.Its his technique well how he does it..I mean i have and do very MUCH enjoy or*l.But he is very upset and takes it personal if i dont "get off" by him doing that,I've tried to talk to him and explain to slow down or relax or just do what comes naturally,so i am all with working with him.He says i'm holding back and telling him to stop hurts his feelings then he will actually not even want to follow up with sex which is what i want. Its a new relationship so i tell him we just have to get used to eachother..Any suggestions???

2007-03-01 01:21:44 · 5 answers · asked by ccrazeegyrl 3 in Singles & Dating

there is a gal in my gym...we look at ech other while working out....sometime she look at me thru mirrors....this is going on since 7 months....i want to talk to her...but my english is not that much good....i know that she likes me and if i somehow start talking to her, things will start....

is bad english a turn off????

wat shud i do???/

there is another gal who stays in my area...we both stare at each other.....sometimes she turns arround 180 degrees to see me.....
the only problem is my english.....i can read...write....but m week in spoken english.....plzzz suggest....

i just can say that my english is not bad but comparatively, wid other guys of same age(24),its not good too....

is bad english a turn off???

2007-03-01 01:21:02 · 15 answers · asked by understanding_bf 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my girl friend never know what to do exactly so i was just wondering where u go with your girlfriend and what u do and what not? thanks

2007-03-01 01:20:59 · 4 answers · asked by lilhoward1337 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone. Today is my moms 60th bday. I have no clue what to get her. She has MS and has limitied mobility. She has plenty of jewlery and flowers just die too soon. Any suggestions welcomed. I had thought about getting her a new cell phone, but she just figured out the last one I got her...lol. Happy Bday mommy!!

And yes, I have watied till the last minute, AGAIN..lol

2007-03-01 01:20:59 · 5 answers · asked by kutskova29 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Am I just imagining it or can there really be a connection.

2007-03-01 01:20:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is a good way to tell a girl you that you love her? I am head over heels to my girl. I want to tell her I love you but what I don't know how she feels about me. I guess I am going to wait until she says "I love you" to me then I will say it to her. Is that a good suggestion? How did you tell your intimate partner that you love that person from the beginning and how did that partner take it?

2007-03-01 01:19:22 · 5 answers · asked by Martin 1 in Weddings

What is a good way to tell a girl you that you love her? I am head over heels to my girl. I want to tell her I love you but what I don't know how she feels about me. I guess I am going to wait until she says "I love you" to me then I will say it to her. Is that a good suggestion? How did you tell your intimate partner that you love that person from the beginning and how did that partner take it?

2007-03-01 01:18:49 · 3 answers · asked by Martin 1 in Friends

Having been seeing a guy for 4 months now and everything was going ok, and I think the world of him and then he suddenly changed and said he felt as if the relationship was smothering him, and that hes now too busy to see me as he has stuff to get on with outside of work, house etc. He has told me that he loves me and everything was fine. Hes had a few bad experiences with women before, and accuses me of cheating on him practically everyday, but there has been no one since I met him. he would be happy to see me once every fortnight but I want more, help and advise on what I should do .......please !

2007-03-01 01:16:29 · 20 answers · asked by Broken hearted 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife has always been one to have her period for a timeframe which is longer than normal. Her periods (according to her) last upwards of two weeks...

I've always suspected that this is NOT normal and have asked her to try regulating (with birth control)...she has tried, but still has it for weeks at a time.

During this time, I do not engage in any sort of relations with her (as I couldn't bare the site)...which is a tremendous burden on me personally.

Well, my wife just came back from a trip to NY. I needed some asprin and looked in her travel bag where I found vials of fake vampire blood. I found this really weird...

So, after not seeing her for two weeks, I tried to engage in relations with her, to which she said 'no, I have my period'.

I got REALLY suspect at this point, and when she went to sleep I looked in the trash in the bathroom to find one of her pads...which was covered in something that looked like this fake blood...

how do I possibly confront her?

2007-03-01 01:16:18 · 25 answers · asked by Ted Arcidi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I cannot get over this guy, I fell madly for him in the summer, and even tho now I realise that we can never be and he has made it clear he wants nothing to do with me, I cannot get over him, I still think about him all the time, my heart still throbs when I hear his name, I've tried to date other men and that has just made me want him more, I've avoided where he goes out and cut off contact from his friends, but yet still, I'm here ... thinking about him ... advice?

2007-03-01 01:15:59 · 9 answers · asked by Sunray 1 in Singles & Dating

C'mon, let's hear the details.

2007-03-01 01:15:08 · 3 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I sit here/there day by day and wondering how people change to something they truely aren't. i think how much people can be hipocrits. Its not me.
People lie alot and say dumb things, go around and say rumors about their other friends, and its all untrue.
I felt since Monday how much my boyfriend was being a hipo-crit to me when i talked to him. i called him and he just kinda freaked out on me only cuz i had called like 3 times after losing the call. He was like " STOP calling me like 90 times in a row if your stupid cell phone keeps losing the call, it gets annoying!" The he said sorry. But gosh! Im not his girlfriend for him to yell at me and give me an attitude, he can at least be nice and shut his mouth. I just figured since i lost the call i would go outside, call him, since he may have wanted me to call him back. But instead he had to be a total and complete a** about it.
How low can people really get?
*this isn't all about my boyfriend people!

2007-03-01 01:15:07 · 3 answers · asked by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 in Singles & Dating