I suspect my wife is using fake vampire blood to simulate her period to get out of intercourse...can she?

Question

My wife has always been one to have her period for a timeframe which is longer than normal. Her periods (according to her) last upwards of two weeks...

I've always suspected that this is NOT normal and have asked her to try regulating (with birth control)...she has tried, but still has it for weeks at a time.

During this time, I do not engage in any sort of relations with her (as I couldn't bare the site)...which is a tremendous burden on me personally.

Well, my wife just came back from a trip to NY. I needed some asprin and looked in her travel bag where I found vials of fake vampire blood. I found this really weird...

So, after not seeing her for two weeks, I tried to engage in relations with her, to which she said 'no, I have my period'.

I got REALLY suspect at this point, and when she went to sleep I looked in the trash in the bathroom to find one of her pads...which was covered in something that looked like this fake blood...

how do I possibly confront her?

Answer 1

if she is this twisted and you are also oh well


if you arnt leave before she comes after your blood

Answer 2

Truth of the matter is there is only 1 way to confront her and that's to just do it. Is there a reason why she'd be doing something like this? Are you pushy for nightly intercourse or do you make her feel bad when she says no if the excuse is other than her cycle? Keep in mind she's going to think it's crazy that your checking her feminine products that are in the trash. Here's what I'd say. Mark the caladar as to when she starts and stops to see if there's at least 28 days from the first day of each cycle. Also, just for the record, birth control pills do work for regulation of cycle, and if she incurred problems, that would rare and only be because they weren't strong enough. They work on hormone levels in the body, which has EVERYTHING to do with our periods. Length of them though, does vary person to person, so try to give her the benefit of the doubt, maybe she's not as "revved up" sexually as you, and doesn't want to hurt your feelings but on the other hand really.....why does she need fake blood, that's quite a length to go to instead of just being honest.
I wish you luck!

Answer 3

Ok, so this is a little weird (maybe it was the word 'vampire' that blew me off a little bit lol), but I will take it as a genuine question. (I hope you're not sitting back and laughing at our answers to this question ha)

What you should do, is talk to her about it and let her know what you found in her bag and just tell her what you feel. If this situation is putting a strain on you, then you should definitely tell her how you feel, instead of just bottling things inside.

If she's using that 'fake' blood as you say it, there must be a reason as to why she's doing it, maybe something is bothering her as well.. like I said, talk to her about it, you'll get far with a simple conversation.

If she's doing this simply to get out of sex, it might be because she might be a little unsatisfied with what she's receiving, or just be getting some from another man (hope that's not the case) If she can't please you with sex while 'on her period' then ask her to please you in a different way, if she wants to make the marriage work, she'll find a way to keep you happy (and vice versa).

What she's doing is coming off as a little childish. Get to the bottom of things before they escalate in to something you can't recover from. If counseling does it then I suggest you start!

Hope that helped a little.

Answer 4

The question you need to be asking is why would she go to these lengths to avoid having intercourse with you. There must be an underlying relationship problem and there is definitely a communication problem. Sit down with her and give her the opportunity to talk about anything bothering her. Don't argue, just listen. You may find that there are deep problems that the two of you can work out. Marriage counseling would also be a good idea for the two of you. You say the lack of sex is a burden on you, how do you think the relationship must be for her too?

Answer 5

Just do wot I say. I dont think u r the kind who can talk 2 ur wife. Now that u suspect that she's not having her periods, have a go at it...if ur 'member' has blood on it ( n u dont faint on seeing it! ),it means she isn't lying. If there is no blood, for god's sake, TALK 2 HER....there's something serious going on here n u need 2 know. Thanx for giving an original idea( fake blood) 2 some of us here,quite ingenuous!

And one more thing, if she is true about the birth control pills, she needs 2 see an OBGYN soon.

Answer 6

tell her you were snooping in her bag and found these vials of what looks like fake blood. BTW, if the birth control pill did not work, she needs to see another doctor. The pill almost always works for this and if not, she may have a problem. You could also tell her that you are concerned for her health as this is sometimes a sign of uterine cancer or other problems and she should go to a doctor

Answer 7

wow...that is very strange.

By me being a girl i would go CRAZY if i had my period for more than a week. sooooo i think you should either...

go online and do some investigation about longlasting or irregular periods, then pick out a very bad symptom and go to her and be like... hun, i'm VERY concerned about this i read in the news ( or you can say i was flipping through the channels) and i heard that long lasting periods does--------. I really think you should go to the doctor, there is not reason why any sane person would want it that long anyway.

orrr you can go to her up front and be like " what's with the fake blood."...i know that's the hardest.

or. sadly i know this is not the answer you want, but maybe she cheated on you ( maybe in NY???) i dont know it just sounds weird that she makes up not having her period.

best of luck,
rach.

Answer 8

I have never heard anything like this before... maybe counselling for the two of you would be a good idea.. If you confront her she will just deny it (although it would be interesting to hear what her excuse is for having vials of fake blood).. If she has an aversion to sex, there may be a reason that you do not know yet (past abuse or something??)... yep.. counselling

Answer 9

[1] have some tested by a lab or the red cross to make sure it is real or fake.

[2] if it is real sleep with garlic around your neck until you find a new place to live.

[3] if it is fake - dude she cannot stand sex or you or just sex with you. periods don't last 3 weeks out of every 4. she needs help far beyond what anyone can offer you here on a web site. she needs a psychiatrist. seriously.

Answer 10

go in her bag and take all the vials of fake blood and throw them away. she will notice they're gone and probably start acting a bit weird because she'll be afraid that u r on to her. then she will end up telling on herself (either by her actions or she'll admit it to u).

Answer 11

omg... thats a first...lol.... oh yeah for some reason she doesnt want to have sex.... ill just confront her with the fake blood and ask her point blank... maybe u should call her bluff and say u dont care u want it now anyways.lol... if shes going out of her way shes hiding something.... shes not a trustworthy person...