I used to be religious (wife still is), so chose no sex before marriage. WHAT A STUPID MISTAKE! How can you commit your life to someone without truly knowing that person??? After all, your sexual relationship with your partner is the most crucial part of a successful relationship. Now I'm stuck. After 7 years we're still doing it maybe once every 3 weeks (never was any better). How sad! She handles problems by ignoring it, which I find hurtful. She doesn't think we have a problem and thinks I'm unreasonable. We have 2 kids, so for their sakes I really hope to sort this out without considering separation. But by now I'm filled with so much resentment that I'm not sure it can be fixed. I've always wanted to TRULY please a woman in a sexual way, but I doubt I'll ever in my life have that pleasure. I hate the church for teaching marriage before sex - how can you commit your entire life to someone without knowing them COMPLETELY??? I really hope there's some good advice for this one...
2007-03-01
06:20:34
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Tyler Durden
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Marriage & Divorce