Family & Relationships - 1 March 2007

okay so ive been with my boyfriend for about two years, and he's in the navy so it makes it verrrry hard for both of us to see eachother, so he's coming down here for the first time in three months. However, me and my boyfriend vincent have trussst isues with eachother anddd he's cheated on me, and ive cheated on him..... but that was the paast and we've grown upp and realized that we both loove eachother verry much. and the only reason why im with him is because i am emotionally attached to him.... But, when me and vincent got into an argument lasst summer i broke off our realtionship to pursue someone else...because i knew i was better off....so alfred and i had our summer fling until i hooked up wtih someone else & we stopped talking.... over the months me and vincent started talking again and until this day me and vincent STILL argue and my feelings are fading... NOW me and alfred are TALKING again/.. i dont kno wat to do.. because i told ALFRED THAT I WASNT WITH VINCENT!!!

2007-03-01 06:58:32 · 4 answers · asked by Gorrrjuss 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 06:58:26 · 3 answers · asked by igiveup 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i love her so much but i dont know what to get for a 2 month i never got anything for something like this

2007-03-01 06:58:10 · 2 answers · asked by diamonddude1234 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 06:57:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

with two girls, at different times. One was sexual the other was kissing and etc... it took me three years to get over it. i kind of expected it though because i was his first and he was so young. Now we were planning on having a ceremony because we never had one and i find out he cheated again with one woman but 3 times. He did brake it off with her but he kept communication "as friends" because she was threating to tell me. He says the reason he cheated is because he thought i was cheating because i would tell him lies like someone could be in your bed when you are not here and i made up a story how i did cheat. It was not true, the reason i did it, is because i found him on myspace talking to girls and telling them sexual things he shouldn't have been saying. Well, he says he wants to be with me but i have filed for a divorce. we still live together, but i can't get over the fact that it's been five times total and that he cared about her. His attitude is starting to change,

2007-03-01 06:57:45 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-01 06:57:30 · 3 answers · asked by marsha_mallard 1 in Weddings

i knew greg for about 2 years we started going out a month and a half ago i know he is my true love and i know that i want to spend the rest of my life with him. We are both 18 and we talk about getting married and having kids but i think i might be pregnant and i am so scared that i might lose him what should i do

2007-03-01 06:57:17 · 4 answers · asked by Sheri M 3 in Friends

I understand i have made a stupid mistake, but i do still love him and we have a family together. I dont know the reason i had the affair...maybe i wanted to revenge for his affair he had years ago, but i wasnt planning to...maybe it was just attention i was seeking... I really want to start over with him. At first, he told me he would try to forgive me but not forget, but he has been hitting me whenever he's angry. He had never laid a hand on me before this. I really dont know what to do. I thought he would stop soon, but it doesnt seen like it and i really cant take it anymore. I want to make up my mistake, but is this the way to make it up??? Can anyone give me any advise, i have no one to turn to...Thank you!!!

2007-03-01 06:57:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Something creative preferred

2007-03-01 06:56:23 · 5 answers · asked by Sky Watcher 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 2 years. He is the oldest, his parent favor his yougest brother. My husband works WITH his dad.. his brother does not do anything except take money and more money from the bussines and i am tiered of it.. my husbands do not like it but he tells me he can't do anything about it. also if his parent say or do anything that i do not like its ok but if i say something to them, its not ok.. what should i do 2 make him see that they r in the wrong

2007-03-01 06:55:43 · 11 answers · asked by missT 2 in Family

If she casually disrespected you in front of your buddies?
Not necessarily say something to your face, more like goading or giving you a silent insult where everybody notices it.

A little detail, you and that girl are not dating.
She's just some stranger who dislike your gut.

2007-03-01 06:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by hehehe 1 in Friends

2007-03-01 06:55:23 · 7 answers · asked by Manolo L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 17 years old and I work at a fast food resterant. My girlfriend keeps pressuring me to get a real career. I keep telling her that I want to wait until after I get a college degree. She wants to know how I am supposed to support our family, then. Family? Is she pregnant? We've never done the dirty deed, so does that mean she's cheating on me?

2007-03-01 06:55:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am female and married and I know my husband would not appreciate it if my male friends spoke to me about sexual subjects or anything private of that matter. I know I wouldn't be too thrilled either if the tables were turned.

Am I right in asking my male friends to think twice about their language or topics when it comes to sexual matters?

One male friend of mine insists on not respecting this requiest and I've told him to either respect this request or I will just simply end the relationship. He states I'm too sensitive and need to lighten up. My husband and my marriage is my #1 priority and his feelings are what matter most to me. I want to honour that and respect him.

Your thoughts? Thank you.

2007-03-01 06:55:01 · 7 answers · asked by Nicki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hanging out with preppy people....

2007-03-01 06:55:00 · 4 answers · asked by Lilly A 1 in Friends

If a guy had a vasectomy before meeting his girlfriend...when is the right time to tell her about it? 3 months? 6months? 1 year? just before marriage? after marriage? just wondering ??

Also, the same question but for a woman to tell her boyfriend about her tubes being tied.

2007-03-01 06:54:56 · 8 answers · asked by JJ C 2 in Singles & Dating

I guess I should have given more details. He said he doesn't know how long the break will last, 2 days or 2 months. This was this morning and he has called since then. We have been seeing each other for only 3 months but have been together almost every night during that time. He says he truly cares about me that he missed me. Talk about confusion!

2007-03-01 06:54:25 · 5 answers · asked by Red 2 in Marriage & Divorce

can you love 2 peole at the same time.

2007-03-01 06:54:24 · 28 answers · asked by becky.elmes@btinternet.com 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 06:53:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been working with my boss for 1 and half years. Over the years we have really gotten close. We have so far kept things professional for the most part. We do spend alot of time talking getting each others opinion. He is married but has made it clear he is not happy with her. I don't know what to do cause at times i start obessing over him. I know it will never be everything i want it but i can not stop obessing over him. Should i let him know how i feel???

2007-03-01 06:52:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but more important "the motion of the ocean"

2007-03-01 06:51:45 · 24 answers · asked by Pat 2 in Singles & Dating

when a person sees some one attractive ..
is he/she the same way in bed
i didnt have sex myself [ underage you see :)]
but .. if you have sex with an attractive person or un attractive person . is sex the same ...
i mean in bed .. basically there are 3 factors for women .. and 2 factors for men and most people close their eyes
so .. hopefully some 1 understood what i m saying .. if you didnt well then i m sorry

2007-03-01 06:51:22 · 13 answers · asked by => the guy <== 3 in Singles & Dating

Recently my partner has been pushing me to sleep with her. I keep telling her I am saving myself for marriage but she just gets upset. We have been married for 8 months, should we break up? I dont know what to do, I love my wife, but I cant stand her not respecting my decisions!!

2007-03-01 06:50:46 · 29 answers · asked by neff8684 5 in Singles & Dating

I have known a girl for about 5 months now and recently the more time I spend with her the more I realize I am falling for her; she is everything I have always wanted in a girl. We hang out on a regular basis and she too believes we are similar people, with similar interests and we got along on every level. Here in lies the problem; she is my friend, my close friend and for the first time in my life I am honestly scared as I don’t know how to react. I would rather not ruin our friendship by thinking about her this way, but I can’t help it. On Valentine’s Day I went on a date with another girl, which was going really well, until the night ended, we kissed, and during the kiss I mumbled the wrong name, I said my friend’s name twice. Since then I can’t get my friend off of my mind. I want to tell her that I like her, but I don’t know how. If she does not feel the same way, then I am fine with it, but at least I know where we stand. .Any advice would help. Thanks.

2007-03-01 06:50:33 · 2 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Friends

2007-03-01 06:50:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wonder what its like to have a lot of money, and to be able to do things at the drop of a hat. I have a baby and the thoughts of going back to work is so horrible. I want to stay at home and if I could I would. Do you think rich people realize how much easier it makes their lives, and their decisions?

2007-03-01 06:50:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay so at my school we've got the Emo/Goth/Prep group's. I'm not Emo or Prep I hang out with a gruop of kids that aren't Emo/Prep either. Although I talk to kids that are both emo and prep. So I thought I'd ask what category do I fall into?

2007-03-01 06:50:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She is doing this for her 40th Birthday, and as I took a Golf Trip last year with my best friend for my 40th. Her departure date just happens to be on our Anniversary, and i am feeling sad about this. any advise?

2007-03-01 06:49:51 · 15 answers · asked by DJ Easy Bing 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-01 06:49:18 · 24 answers · asked by Katie S. 1 in Family

Make up your mind!! I tell you im backing up and you want to know why.. Maybe its the mixed signals.. How is a girl to know what to do when there are not clear answers!!

2007-03-01 06:48:56 · 13 answers · asked by Sweet96 3 in Singles & Dating