I am 17 years old and I work at a fast food resterant. My girlfriend keeps pressuring me to get a real career. I keep telling her that I want to wait until after I get a college degree. She wants to know how I am supposed to support our family, then. Family? Is she pregnant? We've never done the dirty deed, so does that mean she's cheating on me?
2007-03-01 06:55:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she might be one of those people who thinks that animals are people... and she is thinking about adopting a cat... getting a cat is the first step towards a real relationship.. on wait getting a cat is code for getting to first base...
she wants to get to first base with you!!!
booma boom
p.s. booma boom is not responsible for any slaps to the face which may be caused by trying to french your girlfriend..
2007-03-01 13:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by neff8684 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is speaking in general terms. Maybe she sees herself being with you for a long time this includes having a family. Maybe she doesn't think you are really going to go to college either. Maybe she just wants to know whether or not you will attempt to take care of her and the family in the future but as for the pregnancy question..yeah its best to ask her and if you don't feel comfortable asking, wait a while, it isn't but so long a pregnant girl can hide that she is pregnant.
2007-03-01 07:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She means your future family. If you were to stay together. She is obviously thinking far ahead, and thinking you may not be adequate for her future plans. All of which seems like bull to me since you are only 17 and at least you have a job. Tell her to chill and take you for who and what you are, or to go find a business man to support her imaginary family.
2007-03-01 07:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by storm_in_teacup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders: you are in high school, you have a part-time job (it doesn't matter that its in the fast-food business!) and you haven't done the deed! it's entirely up to you when you have a "real" career. you want to wait after college. that's your decision. it sounds like to me that either she's cheating and pregnant, cheating or hoping that you guys get married. i'd say get rid of her. you know what you want out of life!
2007-03-01 07:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didnt do it then she cant be pregnant. And she wuldnt tell u that she was becuase then it would be obvious she was cheating on you. No, I think she means in future, if you stay together and have a family. Looks like she's planning for the long term:)
2007-03-01 06:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all UR 17!!! how the hell are u soppose to have a decent career, ur soppose to go to college first then get a good career, she's stupid. anyways just ask her if she's pregnant. atleast u dont have to worry about the child being urs since u guys never did it yet..
2007-03-01 07:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she isn't pregnant us women sometimes say that but we focus on the future or a family could be you and her. If she was pregnant she wouldnt hint it to u.
2007-03-01 07:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by LaeLae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she IS pregnant, and you have not had sex, YEAH she's cheating, DUH!
i think she means if you dont get a career, in the future, you will not be able to support her
2007-03-01 06:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg youre worse than me with over re-acting! haha calm down, she isnt cheating on you.
take care she just prob sees a future with you.
take it as a compliment, she wants to keep you around.
2007-03-01 08:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, she not prego. Shes a leech and she wants you to work while she sits her ars at home and you support her. HELLOOOO????
2007-03-01 06:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by kyle0027 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋