FOR EXAMPLE THIS IS WHAT I NAG ABOUT
*missing him
*wanting to see him
*when he is 10 mins away from my house and wont visit me
*rather go smoking a blunt than be with me
*seeing him like 2-3 times a wk
*talking to him on the phone for less than 5 mins
*phone conversations, "hey wut u doing" nothing "well ill call u back later" ok "love you bye" OR "ok love you good night call you tomorrow bye"
*about not wanting to go to the movies
*rather go play ball than spend some time with me
*his famous"well what are we gonna do, what can we do?... just not anything u want cause u know i like to chill not really like going places"
AM i wrong for nagging been with him for 3 yrs and dont know how i pushed him away or what made him lose interest i dont want to nag anymore but if i dont he doesnt do it either.. sometimes if i dont call him he wont call me..hell probably text me.. if i dont talk about spendint time with him he wont WHAT TO DO
FYI: im 20[almost 21] hes 21[almost 22]
2007-03-01 06:25:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i want to save us but dont know if theres much to save
i mean i love him with all my heart and would love to be with him always but i dont know if he shares the same thoughts ..
i just want to have some fun both of us are young but all we do is go to his house the only time i honestly enjoy being with him is when i occationally sleep over thats what has kept me there hes so sweet when we are in bed not so much the sex more like the cuddleling and he tends to wake up every so often and kiss me on my forehead or just tell me my beautifull baby i love you so much..
hes in a crew and has things to do he cant always be with me do you think he jsut wants to be this macho guy infront of his friends because when we are alone hes just so nice... but when his friends are there hes nice but fronts alot ...
i miss him
2007-03-01 06:32:10 · update #1
I say STOP nagging or you will loose him FOREVER, don't push him away bceause when you guys do break up your going to think to yourself " i can't believe i complained about that, i just want him back" they wont seem AS important, just have a talk with him if that will make you feel better. Try adding some new hobbies or friends to you social life....
GOOD LUCK
2007-03-01 06:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by P!NK 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nagging will spoil any relationship. I'm sure you really love him, but it causes him to think it's impossible to please you. I know you just want to spend some time with him, but he thinks you don't want him to do anything else but spend all of his time with you. What makes nagging the worst is if you constantly ask him to do things with you, and then you change your mind and decide that you don't enjoy doing what you asked him to do. It leaves the guy totally confused. It's best to let him go and do his own thing for a while. Then, he will come back and do things with you after he gets tired of being alone. I know that's hard to do. It takes discipline, but your relationship should improve. Sadly, some people just get tired of being in a relationship. I hope that isn't what's happening to you. This seems to happen to men more than women. Women always seem to enjoy doing a lot things, and guys become less interested as they become older. My parents got divorced about a year ago. I think my father simply lost interest in the marriage. In most cases, you just have to be satisfied that you do have someone you can love and do things with every now and then.
2007-03-02 10:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but this guy sounds like a jerk. You're banging your head against a wall trying to get him to love you--you probably haven't learned this yet, but you can't make someone love you or want to spend time with you, no matter how wonderful you are or how much you love him. He won't break up with you becasue you're there when he feels like having you there, and he has to make no effort whatsoever to keep you. Why are you selling yourself so short? Stop wasting your time on him and find someone who will treat oyu the way you wish to be treated...
At 21, he's too old to play those silly games where he can't treat you nice because his friends are around. If he was a real man, he'd stand up to his friends hassling him and stand up for you. I'm sorry, he's not a worthwhile man.
2007-03-01 06:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whining and nagging are one and the same; and nagging, besides being the most under-reported crime in America, is a sure-fire way to make a guy want to head for the hills. Get over yourself, and grow up.
The one who cares least controls the relationship.
2007-03-01 07:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by White-Whitey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE is a maximum impressive chemistry happens in coronary heart. What it is easy to understand is LOVE is often OPEN ENDED. It does not anticipate in return something from the guy enjoyed. it particularly is a known feeling of potential flow, wishing the different individual glory, sturdy well being, prosperity and improve. So LOVE in no way spoils all of us alongside with your self.
2016-12-18 03:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by lacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a difference between nagging about nothing important which is the biggest pain in the azz OR nagging about things that really matter. sounds like your guy needs to stop wasting your time and you need to move on.
2007-03-01 06:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by Btieti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nagging can kill relationships, but I don't think you were nagging. It sounds to me like you're only trying to preserve the most important parts of your relationship, and they are things that every woman's entitled to from her boyfriend.
If you're bending over backwards for a guy who'd rather smoke a blunt than take you out, take my advise and dump him. There's plenty of better guys our there, and many of them could use a girlfriend like you.
Good luck!
2007-03-01 06:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Partners typically nag when their partner has stopped listening. Nagging drives others away, especially BF's! Stop nagging... go about your business, make decisions without him and see what happens.
2007-03-01 06:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by Wisdom??? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know Hun sorry, i do know that it will push some guys away. Be decisive with what you nag about make sure it is worth it.
2007-03-01 06:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nagging is a fast way to lose anyone! Stop before it's to late
2007-03-01 06:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by dettie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋