Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

please tell me what you consider to be NORMAL porn viewing... how often? every opportunity, daily, weekly? Is it normal to look at distasteful stuff just for the humour of it? do you seriously expect your wife to be cool with it? is she? is your sex life normal? do you men really believe that there are women out there who can/will tolerate what i consider to be deceitful? i believe my husband has an addiction, but he keeps telling me he is the same as any other man world over with a healthy sex drive, and that it has nothing to with me... he reassures me, but i still cant accept it! help me to understand what is normal activity and what is crossing the line.... i am not that much of a prude that i dont understand the needs of men. i know that you are visual creatures and that sometimes you just need a W##K! dont we all! but when does it become a betrayal?
HELP?

2007-02-28 12:13:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, this is gonna take up some space. First the history:

Back in my junior year of high school, this freshman chick i'll call D let it be known that she liked me. But i did'nt liker her until the last month of that school year. I wanted toask her out during the summer, but she already found another guy so I let it go.I never had a gf at the time.

Senior year, I still liked her, but she was still gf with the same guy. So i let it go. Middle of the school year this cute redhead asked for my number and my attention was drawn to her until around februrary(sp?). Then I got my first gf. She was a friend of D, I'll call her H. At the time I did'nt know D still liked me. She was already interested in another guy after breakin up with the first guy so i did'nt think she'd get mad but she did. SO me and H are dating until february of this year. By this time me and D are friends again. Now me and H decide we hav to see other ppl.
Now my question:
Is it okay to ask D out? more details to come.

2007-02-28 12:13:36 · 1 answers · asked by Danny S 5 in Singles & Dating

I like her, but shes my friend. I don't want to ruin our friendship.

2007-02-28 12:13:01 · 4 answers · asked by jaredms05 2 in Friends

at the butt. no offense , but GRoOOOOOSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSs

2007-02-28 12:12:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Isn't that descrimination? I thought women wanted equal rights so what's the problem here? I see double standard. And we call this a free country?

2007-02-28 12:12:26 · 8 answers · asked by Believe me 3 in Singles & Dating

talk to her or look her in the eyes....do you think he realizes he made a mistake or is afraid if he talks to her again he might want to go back? The girl has moved on twice since the break up he has not gone on a one on one date only group dates....what do you think is going on with him?

2007-02-28 12:11:59 · 10 answers · asked by sporty_kitten 2 in Singles & Dating

You know what I'm talking about. 1=terrible, 10=fantastic. Okay, here's mine: It was a 2. Completely awkward, and he couldn't finish because I made him wear a condom. Glad to say he's now my husband and it's much better now. :)

2007-02-28 12:10:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a men has an child and becuase him and the mom dont get along ,is it fair that he stops all contact with the child.even though he is in jail that is when he needs to stay in contact with his child.not pick and choose whichchild to love.i think that he is in the pocketbook and wig statas.{itch} am i wrong to think that?

2007-02-28 12:10:18 · 6 answers · asked by baby mom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A broad with a bangin body and a butter face or a broad with a pretty face and a banged up body?

2007-02-28 12:09:35 · 6 answers · asked by Prostidude 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 12:09:31 · 13 answers · asked by ishootiscore04 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, so there's this guy... and well, he's my best friend's ex. And i've had really strong feelings for him for... oh god, like four or five months, possibly longer. well, he broke up with my friend because the long distance thing was too much. (she moved back to germany) anyway, during the summer he and i used to hang out all the time, and then the day he broke up with her.. he was just gone. we didn't talk to each other for about four months or so.. and then, about a month ago, we start talking again. he says he wants to hang out with me again... so we go to the movies and stuff, and then on Valintine's day we go over his house and he asks me out. i said yes. a few days later, we were sitting in his car, adn i said i love you.... he said he didn't feel the same way about me... yet. we "dated" for a total of five days. on the 19th he texts me and says that he can't do this, and that he's not over her yet. she's been gone 8 months now, and i just don't know what to do anymore.

2007-02-28 12:09:20 · 4 answers · asked by Banana 2 in Singles & Dating

Girlz- Would you rather have a "bad boy" that is exciting and unpredictable or a good guy that is always dependable and maybe a little clingy?

Guyz- What do you look for in a girl both in personality and physical appearance? Remember, it's not ALL about sex. LOL

2007-02-28 12:08:55 · 21 answers · asked by Kari 4 in Singles & Dating

HOW DO i GET HiM TO RECONiZE ME?

2007-02-28 12:08:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in 7th grade and... my boyfriend and i have been going out for a month and a half and we like eachother a lot. he is bestfriends with 2 of my bestfriends and they tell me he wants to makeout with me and that I should. He even tells me. Only, I WANT to but I just don't know how or what to do. I know it's pathetic asking people I don't even know about this, but it might happen tomorrow if he goes for it.. We give eachother pecks on the lips and cuddle a lot but I just don't want to do anything wrong. I'm not sure if I'm ready but I do WANT to.. I just don't know how. And also my school judges you for being 'prude' or not mostly by if you makeout with your other. So I don't want to be prude. Oh and by the way my friends who tell me to makeout with him haven't even had their first kisses yet, so they have no idea what I'm going through. please help!!!!!

2007-02-28 12:08:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

help

2007-02-28 12:08:02 · 12 answers · asked by Nina W 1 in Singles & Dating

It has to be close to Surry NC need info soon thanks.

2007-02-28 12:06:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in the same neighborhood as my ex and his family, and whenever I am riding my bike or walking the dog, and his parents just so happen to drive by, they always slow down and glare at me... I dont know WHAT I did, but they probably know that my ex and I don't get along anymore. They should know, its their son's fault, cuz he is really rude to most girls out there which is why I broke up with him. I can't do anything without them finding me some how in the neighborhood and then they start yelling at me just cuz my dog starts barking a little bit at them. It not like my dog will attack, she barely barks like 3 times and then we talk away. ITS CRAZY!
Oh yeah, and in order for me to get out of the neighborhood, I have to pass their house, there's no other way, so I run into the, somehow unless they're not outside, but most of the time they are.

2007-02-28 12:06:03 · 2 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently moved for work. Driving isn't an option, so I must take public transit. It seems unlikely, but I have met the most wonderful guy. I've got a major crush on the driver.
I'm not the only woman to notice him. Several others on my route flirt with him. He's very nice to everybody, but he's not a huge flirt from what I've noticed. He's just quietly sweet & nice, & the ladies love it. I do. He's also ATTRACTIVE. He's mid-30s, blonde, blue-eyed.
I'm shy myself. I smile & make eye contact, say hello & goodbye, but it doesn't get much better than that. The only time I know for sure I caught his attention was one morning when I was running late and he had to wait on me to run over. This sounds so silly, but I just FEEL it. I cannot get the man out of my head. I only know where he works out of happenstance, and last week I found out his first name. He might be married for all I know. In 2 days, due to things out of either of our control, we will be on different routes. What do I do?

2007-02-28 12:05:51 · 2 answers · asked by YoungShyCareerGirl 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 12:05:48 · 2 answers · asked by sugar and spice 1 in Singles & Dating

i need answers now!!!

2007-02-28 12:04:59 · 21 answers · asked by mart_siao 1 in Weddings

wife says men have it made.we just go to work ,come home and our day is done.she says we have no idea what it is like to be a women ,it is so much harder. i disagree i think we men have it harder .

2007-02-28 12:04:52 · 13 answers · asked by Bob K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, me and this guy have known each other pretty much since we were born, and I really, really love him and he's told me that he really loves me too. Actually, he says it pretty much all the time. And he's told me that he will love me even if we meet other people. Me and him are going to Branson for a school function along with other kids this Saturday. there is this one girl who's a senior whom he likes who's also going to be with us. And he told one of my friends that if he gets a chance he will ask her out on saturday. and I'm going to be with him the whole day. I don't know what to do! I know I shouldn't make a big deal out of it, I just don't want him to try and hide it from me like he did at the beginning of our freshman year. I guess he's afraid I'll get mad. I won't, but i will get mad if he tries to hide it from me. If anyone has anything to say please say it, if I made any sense to anyone!

2007-02-28 12:04:27 · 9 answers · asked by Amber J 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to know what to do besides the obvious break-up. I am going to, i just don't know how to handle this. The only "clear" thinking i'm having right now involves a pair of pliers,a machate, and an IV.

2007-02-28 12:04:16 · 5 answers · asked by upidstay 1 in Singles & Dating

What is appropriate guest attire for a wedding on a golf course/Country club, at 5pm. I don't know if it's "formal". I am the father of the groom's girlfriend, and he will be in a black tuxedo. I purchased a long, black, strapless dress and I dont want to be too over-dressed! Please help!

2007-02-28 12:04:14 · 9 answers · asked by Girly 2 in Weddings

I was married and got divorced. I met my boyfriend, we were living together, and we had a kid. He committed suicide. Am i considered single?

2007-02-28 12:03:50 · 19 answers · asked by srena 5 in Marriage & Divorce

John Rich from Big and Rich

2007-02-28 12:03:16 · 3 answers · asked by Real Boy 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, me and this guy have known each other pretty much since we were born, and I really, really love him and he's told me that he really loves me too. Actually, he says it pretty much all the time. And he's told me that he will love me even if we meet other people. Me and him are going to Branson for a school function along with other kids this Saturday. there is this one girl who's a senior whom he likes who's also going to be with us. And he told one of my friends that if he gets a chance he will ask her out on saturday. and I'm going to be with him the whole day. I don't know what to do! I know I shouldn't make a big deal out of it, I just don't want him to try and hide it from me like he did at the beginning of our freshman year. I guess he's afraid I'll get mad. I won't, but i will get mad if he tries to hide it from me. If anyone has anything to say please say it, if I made any sense to anyone!

2007-02-28 12:03:10 · 14 answers · asked by Amber J 1 in Singles & Dating

i need answers right now!!!

2007-02-28 12:02:58 · 6 answers · asked by mart_siao 1 in Weddings

geez i am the silent and shy type , and some people want me to ask out the girl who i like (it looks like she likes me too) i mean girls do u ask boys out and how

2007-02-28 12:02:31 · 3 answers · asked by Sammyo 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23 yr old female dealing with an experienced 30 yr old. for 7months..oh and I'm a virgin also..yes ppl find it hard to believe (I look cute). I wanna tell him but I'm scared he would be put off by it and stop talking to me. Just never did the deed due to first love being locked up and no one seemed worth it...I dont wanna lose this guy...so I thought about faking it and just saying it's been awhile or a friend told me to have sex with one of my best friends who's a guy of course I have thought of everything but just don't know what to do!....Only serious advise please!

2007-02-28 12:02:07 · 16 answers · asked by Superfly21 4 in Singles & Dating