I want to know what to do besides the obvious break-up. I am going to, i just don't know how to handle this. The only "clear" thinking i'm having right now involves a pair of pliers,a machate, and an IV.
2007-02-28 12:04:16 · 5 answers · asked by upidstay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Walk away with your dignity. It might not feel good now, but you'll be happier with yourself later on in life.
A bad relationship will end and you walk away the winner.
2007-02-28 12:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I recommend leaving him first of all. Just stop calling him. And if he calls you or shows up unexpectedly, tell him you've been too busy for him. Tell him you don't seem to have time for him anymore.
If it was me, I would put on my best pair of jeans, my best shirt, and leave my hair down, and smell of something amazing... like watermelon or Lovespell from Victoria's Secret. I would invite him over and tell him that we needed to talk. I would tell him that I've been thinking a lot lately and I would explain that I am tired of being hurt, cheated on, lied to, and used. I would tell him that I deserve better than him and I am not going to put up with him any longer. I would then just ask him to give me his input and as soon as he starts to answer I would say, "Ooh, I've heard enough, please leave." Once he gets up, I would stand up and say, "I just hope you remember what you threw away once you started cheating on me..." then I would flip my hair and happily escort him out the door.
2007-02-28 12:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by sec0nd.2none 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say it like this, " Look, I know you have been cheating on me, and it hurts me alot. And if you knew i was gonna get hurt, then you WANTED me to get hurt. Its over. " Get up and walk away. Thats how i would handle it.
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2007-02-28 12:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by GorgeousGal10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not worth it, thank goodness you found out now instead of wasting years with a lying cheating loser.dont lower yourself to his standards just throw him out and never speak to him again or leave and dont call him its your choice.you deserve better.good luck sweetheart.
2007-02-28 12:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not ur fault dat ur boyfriend cheated,so stop acting like its ur fault.i no it hurts but think of it like its his loss dat he didnt no wat he had.dnt let him no dat ur broken up about it.if he knows dat ur weak he'l use dat 2 stay wit u.give him wat he desrves.if u hav a guts,giv him a taste of his own medicine,cheat on him,i no it pretty low but dat way u can get back on da horse n teach him a lesson.think bout it.
2007-02-28 12:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by minoo p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋