talk to her or look her in the eyes....do you think he realizes he made a mistake or is afraid if he talks to her again he might want to go back? The girl has moved on twice since the break up he has not gone on a one on one date only group dates....what do you think is going on with him?
2007-02-28 12:11:59 · 10 answers · asked by sporty_kitten 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he is gay n is afraid to come out of the closet with any of his friends.It would be nice for him if he had a friend come to him n give him the opportunity to come out .That takes a lot of courage and could help him as well.U could always try n be that friend if u care at all.It's worth a shot n if it's not that then maybe he has a life threatening disease.I don't know only u can find out n that is by asking him straight out why he left u n still not with anyone else.Good luck n hope that helps.
2007-02-28 12:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy sounds immature, and lacking self-esteem. What did the girl do to deserve this treatment? He made a mistake, and he is probably regretting it. Sometimes guys need time to grow up, and being in a committed relationship, can cause some of them to feel like they are weighed down. So they would rather be alone, then be happy with someone like this girl. I don't get it, but I have seen it when I was younger. Also, maybe his parents did not approve of him dating. So he broke up with the girl for them, and right now he is unhappy. He goes on group dates, so that he is not alone, yet not seeing just one person. Best thing is just to let time pass by, and eventually talk to the guy about this. When things calm down.
2007-02-28 12:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by woman of steel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He messed up, be it he cheated or just didn't want to be with her anymore, but he realized that she was the best thing that has happened to him, or whatever he did he doesn't want her to know. Group dates are as good and sometimes better than one on one dates, it is up to how the person feels about it. I think that relationship is over, and good for her for moving on.
2007-02-28 12:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to hurt your feeling more with the truth.
He already feels bad about it. He also doesn't want to stir things up with the drama and wants to avoid a reason to get on the topic.
Easy escape.
Not the best plan though.
That or hes a closet homo now. That happens a lot these days.
2007-02-28 12:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He saw that he made the biggest mistake of his life and cant bare to watch her move on, and he cant see himself with anyone else. But he cant ask her out again cuz he sees that shes happy and doest want to spoil that. He cant face his dumbass mistake
2007-02-28 12:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.just like the movie he was black mailed it may happen
2.he is going depressed for a long time
3.he need to find a girl
2007-02-28 12:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by redkids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is regretting break up and feels guilty for doing so, so he tries to avoid seeing his ex as much as possible.
Then again maybe he is hiding something.
Honestly best answer to give is, find out from him.
2007-02-28 12:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by Sorta Undead 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds to me as if he was cheating on you or lost interest in you guys do that & I am a guy SINGAL to
2007-02-28 12:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by larry C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants his cake and eat it too,move on to someone ready to yours and that will treat you right
2007-02-28 12:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes gay
2007-02-28 12:16:00 · answer #10 · answered by elibelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋