okay, me and this guy have known each other pretty much since we were born, and I really, really love him and he's told me that he really loves me too. Actually, he says it pretty much all the time. And he's told me that he will love me even if we meet other people. Me and him are going to Branson for a school function along with other kids this Saturday. there is this one girl who's a senior whom he likes who's also going to be with us. And he told one of my friends that if he gets a chance he will ask her out on saturday. and I'm going to be with him the whole day. I don't know what to do! I know I shouldn't make a big deal out of it, I just don't want him to try and hide it from me like he did at the beginning of our freshman year. I guess he's afraid I'll get mad. I won't, but i will get mad if he tries to hide it from me. If anyone has anything to say please say it, if I made any sense to anyone!
2007-02-28 12:03:10 · 14 answers · asked by Amber J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should tell him what u have just typed in your question.U need to reassure him of your feelings and how far they go.He might be under the impression u have more feelings then u let on .If he does that would make it difficult for him to say anything to you cuz he doesn't want to hurt you.I would tell him this it will make him feel better n he might even open up more about how he feels about this other girl.
2007-02-28 12:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there was this guy that I like, well loved much the same way as you and this guy. He had said that he loved me too. And he had gone out with this other girl and didn't tell me about it until I found out from another friend. So I tried to get even and ended up in an abusive relationship that I had a hard time getting out of. It was during this relationship that I finaly figured out that the way my guy and I loved eachother was a brother and sister kind of way. And I just finally let it go. And now his girlfriend soon to be fiance is my maid of honor and he is my fiance's best man. So maybe it's better to realize that you aren't together as a couple and he's afraid that you feel that you guys should be, but he loves you like a sister.
2007-02-28 12:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by sexsports_fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about him this much you should talk to him about it before hand. Be sure to tell him that being dishonest is hurtful. But above all, be honest with yourself. If your love for this guy goes beyond friendship, you're going to need to admit that to yourself. You don't want to look back on this years down the road and kick yourself for not acting on it when you had the chance.
2007-02-28 12:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by Random Thought 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are always saying that you love one another, then tell him that when you first see him, don't be overbearing, but make sure he's htinking of you the whole day!! He seems like he likes you so just talk to him
2007-02-28 12:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Heather♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him your cool with it and you know. Your hiding the fact that you know from him. So whats the problem?
And if you really want to prove you don't mind. Flirt with this other chick.
And why aren't you 2 getting to it?
2007-02-28 12:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well amber here is the solution just tell him you want to go half on a baby and watch his response good luck and have a nice day.
2007-02-28 12:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by monte the man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you two just go out? is there something thats not letting you be together? if you love eachother so much i see no reason for you to want to be with other people.
2007-02-28 12:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by lolomgwtf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you also told him you would love him if he met someone else? It sounds to me like you are jealous if he dates someone else?
If he is not dating you he really doesn't owe you an explaination. you need to find someone to go with and let him go with her.
2007-02-28 12:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if it's meant to be, it will be.
Not quite sure why he wants to see other girls, but my bf did it too and came right back.
2007-02-28 12:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love some one, let them go. If they love you back, they will return.
2007-02-28 12:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by meemadee2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋