Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

i like him and every one thinks he likes me but i dont want to make the first move what to do (im to shy)

2007-02-28 12:34:26 · 13 answers · asked by xoxbabexoxox 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I asked this earlier and it was recommended that I try and get some men (adults rather then 14 yo) to answer. I started seeing this man (we are both 33) and he kisses terribly...very uncomfortable. Sloppy, wet, the tongue getting shoved down my throat, I am not exagerating. But he is the nicest man w/lots of good qualities, so I keep seeing him. Then we slept together......sweet mother of God, it was by far the worst sex I have ever had in my life. No foreplay, fast, rushed....Is there anyway to fix this? What do I say or do so I don't hurt his feelings or make him feel bad? This is one of the nicest guys I have ever met and I like him ALOT and I realize there is more to life then sex but seriously, I can't go on like this. Also, we have known each other for 5 years (both married to other people) and are now single....his ex became a lesbian so I would imagine there are some issues but I want to give the whole background....thank you.

2007-02-28 12:34:20 · 13 answers · asked by Clarissa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in the same neighborhood as my ex and his family, and whenever I am riding my bike or walking the dog, and his parents just so happen to drive by, they always slow down and glare at me... I dont know WHAT I did, but they probably know that my ex and I don't get along anymore. They should know, its their son's fault, cuz he is really rude to most girls out there which is why I broke up with him. I can't do anything without them finding me some how in the neighborhood and then they start yelling at me just cuz my dog starts barking a little bit at them. It not like my dog will attack, she barely barks like 3 times and then we talk away. ITS CRAZY!
Oh yeah, and in order for me to get out of the neighborhood, I have to pass their house, there's no other way, so I run into the, somehow unless they're not outside, but most of the time they are.

2007-02-28 12:34:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do I ask when I am leaving? And what do I if she says no? How do I play it off etc.

2007-02-28 12:34:04 · 6 answers · asked by Keshawn 1 in Singles & Dating

well i've fallen for someone after 2 years, but this time he doesn't feel the same (he told me that 4 months ago) but over the months we've gotten to know each other better. and he's giving me a bunch of mixed signals. Like at the end of the day he passes by my bus everyday and he knows Im staring at him and today he looked, walked, then looked back. I've caught him staring at me a few times. Our lockers are 10 ft. apart and when I arrive at my locker he looks at me as if he wants me to look at him. He even talked to on IM (I started the convo) but he talked to me after he told our mutual friend 3 months ago to stop messaging him. Does he maybe like me...??

2007-02-28 12:32:42 · 4 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Singles & Dating

I have recently became aware that I am unable to stay stable enough for someone to love me and trust me. From 4-12 I was molested, at 14 I was forcefully raped by a stranger, in addition to being raised by a psycho abusive alcoholic father and a mother who knew I was being abused and didn't stop it, but admitted when I asked her 26 years later. Know I realize I can not handle love for real. I have this man who loves me, but I keep having these wild outburst after we've had a great time together. I've been through therapy, anti-anxiety drugs, self help books and groups, blaa, blaa, blaa. I keep destroying what I want by stupid behaviors based on insecurities and fear. I've went in and out of horrible relationships...can ANYONE relate? I want it to stop!

2007-02-28 12:32:22 · 4 answers · asked by peacegypsy@sbcglobal.net 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for almost 19 years. My husband is a very good man and he has always provided for our family and he has never been abusive in any way. The problem is that he doesn't share his feelings with me, yea he will tell me all the time that he loves me but that is all there is to it. When we have sex 95% of the time it is for him only. What I mean by that is he doesn't put forth to touch anything besides my breast and then he's ready and in less than 3 minutes it is over with. He says that it just feels to good. I have talked and talked to him about not being satisfied but he just doesn't get the picture. I have toys and I use them at times but I perfer the real man. He has used the toys on me but that might happen about once in 4 months or so. I don't feel like after 19 years I should have to keep saying hey bud don't forget about me. Should I just leave or should I just have a discreet affair since everything else is so great.

2007-02-28 12:32:20 · 13 answers · asked by Linda I 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are in agreement with everything concerning visitation with children.

2007-02-28 12:31:41 · 11 answers · asked by twigs886 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends say that my boy-friend want to break up wit me but i dont belive them. what should i say?He is always nice and is an A+ student and he never lies.

2007-02-28 12:31:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well he likes me but we just dont talk i tryed every thing iam just to afraid to go to him and tell him how i really feel. but he knows that i like him and i want to know what he thinks but i dont know how to ask him. i want to know wutt he thinks. so wutt should do?

2007-02-28 12:30:51 · 11 answers · asked by mz smilie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 12:30:39 · 21 answers · asked by Frankly 2 in Singles & Dating

Its not like I cant get a bf because I can. But I have just recently recovered from having my heart broken and I havent been in the dating field lately. I'm over my ex now and Im ready to move on. But I just cant seem to get a new boyfriend.

2007-02-28 12:30:18 · 2 answers · asked by tabby-bonay 2 in Singles & Dating

my best freind died awhile ago from a heart problem i dont get it i neeed help please send me some comforting news please i need it i havent left the house for a week

2007-02-28 12:30:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Everybody has flirted be them in a relationship or married.So why does everyone act like it's such a bid thing I mean i love my wife to death do us part but sometimes that attention from another person makes you feel good.What I'm really asking is "What makes the person who got caught so bad? You do it to you just didn't get caught.

2007-02-28 12:29:22 · 45 answers · asked by real_bro 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like a guy who has no idea who i am. we've never spoken in person and he's more popular than i am. should i give up hope and just forget about him or should i keep trying?

2007-02-28 12:29:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl..... but i don't know if she likes me..... i read a bunch of questions and answers and some of them say she likes me but she tells me that she has a boy friend...... she touches me and stuff and during class when i try to sit by her she moves away but when i don't sit by her she comes to me and i really need some help......will you tell me your opinion....

2007-02-28 12:28:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(i mean i dont want to hang up on him)

2007-02-28 12:27:46 · 12 answers · asked by bucktoothbuddy 1 in Singles & Dating

i write alot of sad and deppressing poems about heartbreak and death. is it normal??? and alot of ppl think i am going to take my life just b/c i tried once after my sister and niece died but i AM NOT. is it normal???

2007-02-28 12:27:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend just started cutting her wrists because everything in her life was going wrong. Her parents got divorced, her boyfriend broke up with her, and her aunt died. Im afraid that if she continues to cut, she will get servely hurt and im scared for her. How can i help her?

2007-02-28 12:27:09 · 12 answers · asked by roro 1 in Friends

2007-02-28 12:26:38 · 6 answers · asked by maggie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the problem is that we are in the same class but he doesn't even notice me.Well I am not that sure,sometimes he turns around to look at me,but.
The problem is that he is always with his "group" .I am really shai.
Another problem is that I am learning english(like you might see) so...yeah..
PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2007-02-28 12:26:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have no idea what it mean he says he only wants to be friends but idk HELP ME!!!

2007-02-28 12:26:36 · 2 answers · asked by AMANDA S. 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl in my class that I think is pretty attractive and the type of girl that Id like to talk to.. but Idk how to approach her.. any suggestions?????? any help matters!! thanks.

2007-02-28 12:26:00 · 3 answers · asked by Prisma9000 2 in Singles & Dating

i live in nashville, i met her in puerto rico while i was playing basketball 1 year ago, and she left her job and moved back to tennessee for me while i was at work she found a txt message to another girl that said "i miss u" and another that said "why wont u kiss me" but it was just a joke to the girl and i wasnt serious and she didnt believe me, and thought i was cheating and bought a ticket and went to her sisters house in Orlando. We have been together for a year, this is the FIRST fight we have ever had..She said she was never coming back and could never trust me again. She left some things in my house, but said that she wanted me to "mail" them to her. this is the second time she found a message like this, I have never cheated on her...im am just a flirt. I am lost without her, how do i get her back? I now know i was wrong and am finished with flirting. I am thinking about giving her about 10 days and driving there and saying im sorry. Is that a good idea? what should i do?

2007-02-28 12:25:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think someone is annoying, has no common sense, is shady, ugly and mean. Yet all of a sudden i keep on seeing her and thinking shes cute, beauitiful, nice and fun. There are plenty of pretty girls at our school so I dunno whats wrong with me

2007-02-28 12:25:17 · 11 answers · asked by siwwmilk 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I get married first?

2007-02-28 12:24:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in the mood for a good laugh!

2007-02-28 12:24:13 · 6 answers · asked by Hi!! 2 in Singles & Dating

I like these
3 boys. One is tall dark and hansome ( is a Twin).
The other is tall light and hot. And the other one is my height and cute. Who should I pick and how do I know they like me? Two are in my class and one I hang with all the time he's in the 8th grade Im in the 6th. Note I'm allowed to date.

2007-02-28 12:23:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I Dont realy understand why...i mean yeah you become a nonvirgin and its supposed to have this big meaning,...but dont you think that we build it up to be such a big deal? i mean its just sex.

2007-02-28 12:23:01 · 17 answers · asked by Ally 2 in Singles & Dating

I know sex is not the most important thing in a relationship, but it is an important part. How much importance do you place on it? Can it be a deal breaker for you? Or do you feel a so-so sex life is something you can just learn to live with?

2007-02-28 12:22:52 · 14 answers · asked by DEENIE 3 in Singles & Dating