i live in nashville, i met her in puerto rico while i was playing basketball 1 year ago, and she left her job and moved back to tennessee for me while i was at work she found a txt message to another girl that said "i miss u" and another that said "why wont u kiss me" but it was just a joke to the girl and i wasnt serious and she didnt believe me, and thought i was cheating and bought a ticket and went to her sisters house in Orlando. We have been together for a year, this is the FIRST fight we have ever had..She said she was never coming back and could never trust me again. She left some things in my house, but said that she wanted me to "mail" them to her. this is the second time she found a message like this, I have never cheated on her...im am just a flirt. I am lost without her, how do i get her back? I now know i was wrong and am finished with flirting. I am thinking about giving her about 10 days and driving there and saying im sorry. Is that a good idea? what should i do?
2007-02-28 12:25:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mannnnnnnnnnn i hate to hear you are done with the flirting than go fro it you wont know until u try. good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i will pray for U
2007-02-28 12:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by lil mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man i know guys like u! the flirts. its hard for a girl to deal with because usually the guys cannot be trusted because they DO cheat. but if u say u are not cheating then yes, i thinks its a good idea to go show her you really care by driving out there. tell her it was all a misundertanding, tell her you will do anything to make her believe you. just dont give up. some girls are scared off easily. maybe shes been hurt in the past. she may have overreacted a little bit but u have to be understanding and try to convince her to stay.
2007-02-28 12:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by SweetDarlin' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's definitely the jealous type, and getting her to trust you again, regardless of what YOU do, is going to be really hard.
Some people don't get that you can be flirty without cheating. Find a way that she can trust you - that you can show her what you're doing is harmless. If that means driving there and showing her how much you care about her - then that says a lot right there. Don't be forceful. Be real. Good luck.
2007-02-28 12:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by trailangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude thats why you have to always be true to the ones you llove. Its not a game. Give her time don't be a fool and mess things up even more. If she says mail the stuff then mail it. Send a note in the stuff and don't date anyone else. If she does not respond then one month later send another letter. If she don't respond then move on and be a man
2007-02-28 12:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by betrue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad for you, fer shameeeee.....
What you need to do is reflect on what you did wrong first.
Try to reason it out, if it won't work, try expensive flattary. If ya not too rich, you can try some corny old methods of winning women's heart like singing by the window.
Well, trust is not easy to build, but very easy to destroy.
Good luck,.
2007-02-28 12:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by IIDX Chem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 07:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, the things the world has come to...... leaving over a text message..... i'm sorry for what happend but .... move on with your life. think of what you could do with out somone else to care for!
2007-02-28 12:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by `~White Fang~` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there a way you can contact the sister in Orlando?
if so get her to have you gf read this post
you should be covered
2007-02-28 12:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by seven_ms_man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She left everything she knew as her life behind for you & you should do the same for her!!! Personally, I would have left you too.
2007-02-28 12:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, text her!
2007-02-28 12:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋