Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

Advice on this girl?

Met this girl on a dating site and we talked on messenger for like an hour. She said our weird and cool it is that we live so close (a block away) and she said "well now you're on my buddy list" and at the end she's like, "Night cutie."

I think I should've gave her my #...I wanted to, but I didn't wanna move too fast. I think she was even hinting she wants to meet.

What do y'all think?

2007-02-27 20:56:58 · 3 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i ask a girl out on a date, been texting her and she said whenever your free which is fine. but i was wondering should i txt her and ask her out or should i pick up the phone and call her?
which one would you pick and why??

2007-02-27 20:56:10 · 11 answers · asked by scott h 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months, we met each other at work (my old job). We had not been on a proper date, just the two of us, until last night, we went to the cinema and for a meal. I had to pay for this which did'nt bother me as he had no money till he got paid and said he will take me out when he does.

He smokes a lot of cannabis and this makes him lazy and he never wants to go anywhere or do anything . He also has a 5 year old daughter and takes her 3 days a week which limits the time I get with him.

He didnt even thank me last night for the meal and said the film was rubbish! This made me feel as if all my efforts to get him to go out were for nothing!

Despite all this he is a lovely guy and I do love him, should I put up with this or dump him? Or give him a chance? I get the feeling I could do better.

Any advice would be welcome!

Thanks xxxxxxx

2007-02-27 20:56:05 · 26 answers · asked by Lolly 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems like it has become "American culture" for young people to go out, dirty dancing and get intoxicated or high.

2007-02-27 20:55:30 · 5 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Singles & Dating

My ex-girlfriend keeps playing around…putting my head in certain places… is she playing around in a s e x u a l manner or is this something that girls do?

2007-02-27 20:54:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends from my last school have been in the same highschool now for a couple years, two of them are Junior's like me and one of my other friends is a Senior. A girl that's been sitting at our table likes him and has been flirting with him etc. for a while, it's evident she likes him. When he's not here, she's always asking my friends and I why he doesn't make a move or something, and just a few days ago he showed up at the table with his new girlfriend... the other girl was crushed.

The other girl has been in at least one of my classes ever since I was a Freshman, and I've always noticed how amazing she looks and how nice her smile is, every little thing like that. The thing is, though, I have a hard time talking... with girls especially, and I always know what to say, I just can't say it. I always stutter or something. I don't know what to do, though... I'm not the best-looking guy in school, and I don't have the best smile or anything like that. Any suggestions?

2007-02-27 20:52:54 · 8 answers · asked by David J 1 in Singles & Dating

or do you think it's becuase they cant get anything better
ex. they're fat them self

I've noticed most people with fat females tend to be ugly/ fat..

Be honest here; don't give me that "its whats on the inside that counts"

2007-02-27 20:50:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been working together with my husband for 15yrs in a company and recently i've resigned from the company to take care of my 2 children. At that time we can only go home to be with our children 4days a month but i can be with my husband everyday. I decided to resign bcos my children really needs me. They are 7 and 5 yrs old. I'm 34,and because i decided to resign my husband have to work and join other company oversea in order to get better pay to support the family. Now my children and i can only meet my husband 2-3times a year. I really miss him very much and many of my frens said i shouldn't have resign & let him go oversea to work by his own. According to them men can't be trusted & will find new girl one day. I never worry about this cos I trust my husband but I really feel bored doing the house chores everyday. I have been wondering can I keep on with this being a fulltime housewife for the rest of my life? FYI my children now are much more happier compare to last time.

2007-02-27 20:49:52 · 4 answers · asked by KP 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when you walk down the steet and see a nice girl or guy walk passed you do you think to yourself if they turn around and look at you that means they fancy you.

2007-02-27 20:48:54 · 7 answers · asked by Trev23 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 20:46:23 · 13 answers · asked by david e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I graduated from high school, and went college as everyone had told me and expected me to do! Two years into college I become sick of it! I mean literally sick, I was always at the doctors office for something. Then I just couldn't get back into being in college. I didn't know what I wanted to do, or if the degree I obtained would help in the real world! So I decided to take a break from school and maybe get a job or try community college. During that time I was seeing a lot about the war in Iraq and decided I wanted to join the Air Force, I did a lot of research and joined, then I ended up in the hospital, because of that I have the opportunity to drop out of the Delayed Enlistment Program or change the date I'm scheduled to leave. I don't know whether I should go or stay and finish school. i really like all the Air Force has to offer, but i'm afraid to leave my family and friends, and don't know if i should get my degree first or if i'll regret not enlisting!!! advice please!

2007-02-27 20:45:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this wonderful woman 6 months ago, and everything went well from day one. i had feelings for her and she also made it clear that she needs someone to fill her emotional gap and show a real interest and take a good care of her, which encouraged me to go further with my feelings and i fell in love with her, and am trying my best to make her happy.

Now am deeply in love with her, but she is always busy( work & college), and always confused about her feelings that i started to feel am giving her more attention than she can handle, and am afraid that this will have a negative effect on the relation. seriously am feeling that am expressing my love more than i should, and that am loosing my image or respect.

This is against my nature, but what should i do? Should i stop calling her or stop showing how much i care, am really confusing

Sorry for the long explanation

2007-02-27 20:43:36 · 12 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Singles & Dating

I kindda like this guy but don't know how to tell him i miss him. he says he is intrested in me but i'm asshamed. i don't know why i'm so embarassed to tell but he keep on joking wether i miss him or not

2007-02-27 20:41:38 · 18 answers · asked by CuTe BaBy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 20:41:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my husband to play with my breast and he does when he is in mood but how can i show him up when im in mood? not communication any signs?? please dont delete it!

2007-02-27 20:40:43 · 23 answers · asked by Classy 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a woman for about two weeks. We talked Sunday, I think. We talked about maybe going out Friday night. She said she'd call me on Tuesday, she didn't. I wound up calling her and she wasn't home. I didn't leave a message.

Any ladies care to opine on the situation?

2007-02-27 20:40:13 · 9 answers · asked by Wisdom Guru 3 in Singles & Dating

I mean, have females lost all respect for themself?
i'm 22, and I can tell you girls have become A LOT more whorish even since ive been in high school
Do girls not understand that if you sleep with a guys fast, or if you sleep with him before 6 months of dating that he thinks youre a whore and nothing more? not date worthy.. and we know if you slept with us you've slept with every other guy you've known for 3 days...
What happened to a lil chase, its not even fun anymore..it's actually kind of disgusting

2007-02-27 20:39:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am marrying my man later in the year and don't want a big wedding. Don't have many friends and don't want to invite 100 people and all the relatives and spend £10,000 on a day that I don't want in the first place. I know it sounds odd but don't really like most of my family and don't want to have to get 100 people that I am not that keen on dinner and drinks just because that is what is expected. Was considering just going to a registry office with immediate family and friends (having a smart lunch or dinner afterwards) and then getting a blessing on a beach in the carribean on our own - has anyone else done it this way?

2007-02-27 20:39:53 · 17 answers · asked by its_me 1 in Weddings

I'm 6 hrs away my family since I'm married to my husband. At first things got crazy, my husband didn't care about my feeling. Kept telling me to do this do that otherwise his parents won't happy. I told him to move out he said never. He wants to live with his family forever. Until I took a break and went to my mom's place. He realized he couldn't live without his 5 months old daughter. He said "come back and we'll move out but give me sometimes or we'll move and live close to your family in 2 more years" I really miss my family so I accept his second offer eventhough I really want my own new family, my husband, 5 months daughter and I. It seems he already forgot what he promised. what can I do? hard to find our privacy living wit in laws eventhough they're nice to me.
thanks

2007-02-27 20:38:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my ex ended it with me stared seeing someone else, however now where trying to rekindle what we had, he's trying so hard to prove its me that he wants and he made a big mistake, emailing and txting everyday, sent me flowers to work, takes me out, he even called this girl and ended it infront of me (not horribly but just so i know he had definatly done it) saying he wanted to retry things with me. however im just so scared he's lyin to me, i know there is going to be lack of trust and hes been really good about it but how long till you started to trust again??

2007-02-27 20:37:21 · 7 answers · asked by sweetness 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 20:36:30 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok i know this guy for about 4 months now....and he really seems to like me...he flirts with me a lot...n he tells me everything abt his life..he really trusts me as a friend...yesterday he called me up in the night and told me that he had a breakup with his gf..he also said that i dont need a gf anymore all i need is a loving friend like you...what does this mean?????? i really love him and i want to ask him out..but i feel this will affect our friendship what should i do???????

2007-02-27 20:35:53 · 8 answers · asked by cool girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 20:35:36 · 16 answers · asked by sachin t 1 in Weddings

If you haven't yet slept with a black men women I tell you DO IT!! You will love it. I have my own drama with it but dont hesitate!!

2007-02-27 20:35:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean on dates
basically you're paying for her time
isn't that what an escort does?

2007-02-27 20:33:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 20:33:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was with her in the hosp for 4 days with an 8 months pregnancy. the same day i went home leaving her with her elder sisy whohad recently come from the village, i just got i telephone call that she is no more. i couldnt attend everything coz the labour started. up to now i cant get over it. i dont believe that she is gone. am married and i wasnt living with her . please i need your humble help . (REST IN PEACE MAMA IF IT IS TRUE THAT YOU ARE NO MORE) people from the village has been forcing me to go and see her burial place but it seems i sont have that courage

2007-02-27 20:32:29 · 11 answers · asked by anita 2 in Family

We are having just us, the 2 children and 2 witnesses who are friends at our wedding (register office). There has been a lot of surprise in our family about this - just wondering how many people have done it this way?

2007-02-27 20:32:05 · 27 answers · asked by JoJi 4 in Weddings

Would a 3some bring a smile to your face? I'm talking 2 chicks 1 dude.

Would you do it if your woman wanted it and there would be no reprecussions?

I would do it at least once in my life. That's on my to do list before I die.

2007-02-27 20:31:47 · 13 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-27 20:30:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating