I've been working together with my husband for 15yrs in a company and recently i've resigned from the company to take care of my 2 children. At that time we can only go home to be with our children 4days a month but i can be with my husband everyday. I decided to resign bcos my children really needs me. They are 7 and 5 yrs old. I'm 34,and because i decided to resign my husband have to work and join other company oversea in order to get better pay to support the family. Now my children and i can only meet my husband 2-3times a year. I really miss him very much and many of my frens said i shouldn't have resign & let him go oversea to work by his own. According to them men can't be trusted & will find new girl one day. I never worry about this cos I trust my husband but I really feel bored doing the house chores everyday. I have been wondering can I keep on with this being a fulltime housewife for the rest of my life? FYI my children now are much more happier compare to last time.
2007-02-27 20:49:52 · 4 answers · asked by KP 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel that you made the right decision in this case and that when the kids get older and more independant then maybe you can go back to work. I dont feel he will cheat on you if he really loves you though and is commited to you and to the marriage. Maybe sometimes you and the kids could travel with him while he is working and you can homeschool the kids. Just a thought and an idea. You also gotta make sure that you dont get too lonely and that you are tempted to cheat and be unfaithful as well. This can go both ways you know. You can go shopping alot and do fun things with the kids and take up a new hobbie to keep yourself occupied. Call or email him every day at least once a day just to hear his voice and you two could also have phone sex if you want as well. Just some ideas so that you both dont get so lonely.
You also can do some work from home if you would like. Some women do this and it is great. Your husband however could find just as good of a job around home somewhere if he takes the time to look and do research or one that is not overseas at least in the states so you can see him much more often then what you are.
2007-02-27 21:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one knows if your husband will cheat. That depends on many things, but mainly on the type of man that he is. If he’s a decent, honest man, then he won’t cheat on his wife.
But here’s another thing…in exchange for you staying home all the time (Yes, being able to be a stay-at-home Mom is a wonderful thing, but it’s not an absolute necessary thing. MANY children have grown up to be happy, healthy adults even if Mom worked their entire childhood), the kids now only get to see their father 2-3 times a year. Think that’s fair to the kids or to their father? I sure don’t.
2007-02-28 00:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I know that both of you have the right intentions, but as far as relationship goes - your marriage is being dominated by money demands & I don't know if it will survive the stress that is being put on it by your separation from each other. I've seen divorced people who spent more time together. I know it might be hard but try to get him to find a job in the U.S....Love is more important than money...bye ..good luck!
2007-02-28 08:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybee you will be the one who gets so bored and lonely that you will cheat on him. Yes eventually you will get bored of doing house work and taking care of kids by yourself.
2007-02-27 20:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋