I'm 6 hrs away my family since I'm married to my husband. At first things got crazy, my husband didn't care about my feeling. Kept telling me to do this do that otherwise his parents won't happy. I told him to move out he said never. He wants to live with his family forever. Until I took a break and went to my mom's place. He realized he couldn't live without his 5 months old daughter. He said "come back and we'll move out but give me sometimes or we'll move and live close to your family in 2 more years" I really miss my family so I accept his second offer eventhough I really want my own new family, my husband, 5 months daughter and I. It seems he already forgot what he promised. what can I do? hard to find our privacy living wit in laws eventhough they're nice to me.
thanks
2007-02-27 20:38:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yeah, you should definitely get a divorce and save up around $5000 and get yourself a pop-up camper and take an extended road trip across America.
Go see the Grand Canyon, Mount Rushmore, Niagara Falls, Yosemite, Death Valley, Organ Pipe Cactus National Park, White Sands, NM, Saguaro National Forest, the California Coastline, The Appalachian Chain, The Biltmore House and Gardens...
Take your kids when you can and give your husband about two years to grow up. If you can't get a camper, get yourself a motorcycle and take off! Biker's will take care of you.
Don't grow stagnant! You gotta do something! Life is too short to be miserable.
2007-02-27 20:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by The Burninator 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you, I would find a place for you and your daughter to move to. Find an apartment or house and if he truly loves and misses you he will move in. You shouldnt have to live with his parents and worry about keeping the in laws happy. You are the one who deserves to be happy! That is great they are nice to you, but it is time for your husband to grow up and move out and take care of his family! I would get your own place and dont budge if he wants you to move back in with his parents. It is nice they have a good relationship, but he is married now. You deserve your privacy and deserve to have your own family that you and he started. Stand tough, tell him how much you appreciate his parents being there for you, but now its time to take care of your own family. Good luck!
2007-02-28 06:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got suckered. You need to leave again and tell him you'll come back AFTER he gets you your own place to come home to.
2007-02-28 05:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋