Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

i have this female friend of mine and i have deep feelings for her. However, she is married and has a 20month old boy. Recently i spent time with her and i noticed something was wrong so i implored her to tell me.She finally did and she let me know more than i ever wanted, which in return made my feelings stronger for her. The morality issue comes in because she is married. However, her husband cheated on her two weeks after being married and again three additional times. One was even her best friend. I told her she should try to talk it out with him and work things out for the babies sake. However, i stumbled on one of the letters he had written her and it was appalling. It was profanity laden and very cold. He even called her the C word. I know she has been faithful to him except for the night she fell asleep in my lap and that could hardly be called unfaithful compared to him.

So what does the YA community think i should do.

By the way i regret telling her to stay.

2007-02-27 19:57:53 · 14 answers · asked by roncho 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 19:57:21 · 10 answers · asked by exo 7 in Singles & Dating

and i cant sleep!! someone help!

2007-02-27 19:57:17 · 1 answers · asked by bobman 1 in Singles & Dating

This one girl who I know is a friend of mine. There’s one problem—Even though I see her at times… I don’t know how to verbally communicate effectively with her since she is deaf. I usually email her or we use the computer using messenger. But in person… do I write her what I want to talk to her about, create cards or hold flash cards to her? How do I communicate with her?

2007-02-27 19:56:32 · 6 answers · asked by Daniel W 1 in Friends

i've got a friend in school who can get the worst out of me. the other day, when we were about to talk about a heated topic, which involves a huge part of her, i adviced her in advance that if at all we talk about it, i will automatically be extremely shrude and sarcastic and that will definitely affect our friendship. so, i told her that we should not talk about it. despite me avoiding the topic, she insists that we should talk about it. she challenges me. i, being an egoistic person, of course accept the challenge after telling her that we HAVE TO forget about it as soon as it is over.
the conversation begins. we talk and talk till it our temperature increases. then, i immediately stop, not wanting to go on any further. instantly, i tell her that we have to forget about it immediately. and then she says, "how do you expect me to forget about it after you've said things like that?"
how do i control my temper towards her?

2007-02-27 19:55:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

this morning i threw a temper.its regarding my mother's non stop over control with me. i muttered non stop "i hate u.i hate u." and i really mean it, well that time. and now she no longer talk to me even after school. what should i do. (my mother dont accept apologies btw.) =[ im stressed up, but i ignored her too... =[ what should i do???

2007-02-27 19:54:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We are all caught up saying this phrase to our partner, but what exactly does "i love you" mean??

2007-02-27 19:54:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay my b/f and i recently spent some "quality" time together, we had some good moments and some bad ones! wound up hainvg a huge issue disscussion, left it on a fairly good note agreed we weren't breaking up, then he sent an e-mail saying talk to you next week, i thought he needed space so i didn't talk to him until tonight, and the converstion was different the tone wasn't like it usually is, i mean it wasn't the worst conversation we have ever had but it was not the best etiher, and then i was talking to him about the next time we get together and he said if there is a next time and i coulnd't tell if he was joking or not so i just played it off like he was joking! and then when the conversation ended he was like gotta go and talk to you next week ! now a couple weeks or so ago i had been calling him one time a week, and he told me to call him more than once a week and now its like he wants it back to once a week! i am so confused, to me it seems like he is pulling a way ?

2007-02-27 19:53:39 · 7 answers · asked by Babygirl20 1 in Singles & Dating

Which I do not remeber at all saying anything about my ex. And he told me I was the love of his life but then he said that had went away, It really hurts and I really liked him alot Please give some advice

2007-02-27 19:53:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 5'0 weigh 97 and im 17 years old and i feel like im not pretty enough well i get alot of guys but please tell me what guys are in my league? well category!Honestly is what i want ok! yes ihave low self esteem i tape my 34 b cup boobs i hate them i starve my self and over exercise!
Heres a pic of me!http://i68.photobucket.com/albums/i21/vanillaskydream/stillpicofme1.jpg
please no rude answers or i shall report u as an abuser!!!!!!

2007-02-27 19:51:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do people insist that this will make their life complete? Why are people so eager to own each other? And why do people say that it is sacred, death do us part, and all that mumbo jumbo?

The way people talk on here, they act like marriage is irreversible lke death. Also, I don't get why so many frown upon divorce. No deal should be so binding as marriage pretends to be.

2007-02-27 19:49:44 · 8 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so this is probably totally irrelevant, but this category will prolly giv my q the best attention. I'm 5'9" and about 138lbs. Would u reckon this is a good weight?? Just curious!

2007-02-27 19:47:30 · 4 answers · asked by Abz 2 in Singles & Dating

Does age different matter?

My best friend is 18 and she is getting married to a guy that's 42!
she also says that she is madly in love with him.

and he has 2 kids and she met them when she went on a vacation with his and the kids..and she is saying that she "loves them"

she is very mature and he is very fit. they look very good together and seem very happy and stuff.

But I'm so worried for her! I mean we grew up together ..she is like a sister to me.. and she is doing this.. I want her happiness but It's such a strange situation. I don't want her to be hurt and I don't want her to be unhapppy..

what do you guys think? I'm going crazy!

oh and her parents are totally ok with it.. they don't even care!

2007-02-27 19:46:01 · 7 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever done something in retaliation to a boyfriend/girlfiend husband/wife when finding out that did something horrible to you?

If you have,, what have you done to them?

2007-02-27 19:45:57 · 3 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have got the opportunity to have a threesome with two sexy women, one looks like marjorie from what about brian and the other looks like clare from heroes. They want me to do them at the same time but I feel like if I do then it wont go anywhere after that. But I seriously like the both of them, and I could see me ending up with one of them. I have this great chance to have the best sex in my life. What would you do?

2007-02-27 19:43:58 · 2 answers · asked by Jumpy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 19:43:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I have been married for 5 months but together 4 years, since we've married its like everything has changed.
It feels like we hardly do anything together, he is always on his computer sometimes all eve, or he is out & about, I have just found out recently he is still in touch with an ex (which he told me was a mates girlfriend for years) he will not speak to her with me around and says I am to blame as I have been jealous in the past!?!?
He is so secretive over his mobile phone and even takes it to the bathroom with him.
He gets so mad when I bring any of this up, he says im making it up in my head, I need to trust him, Im exagerating.He generally get mad a lot and blames me for everything even if the cat is sick in the house.
Any favours I ask him are massive chores and usually he gets mad about it. Last night he returned from a friends and admitted using drugs.
There are pics of naked women on his computer.
Is this emotional/varbal abuse? I feel like his mother not wife!

2007-02-27 19:41:55 · 18 answers · asked by shauna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Down web site
I just need to hear other peoples veiws ans opinions and how they coped with there break-ups

2007-02-27 19:40:43 · 5 answers · asked by live life 4 in Marriage & Divorce

plse tell me guys and girls i realy love her more than my life is that wrong i am 18 and she 33 she is a single

2007-02-27 19:40:15 · 3 answers · asked by black bull 0 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently "spied" or pretended to be someone to check if my guy is hitting on other girls. He found our about this and he's very pissed off... I deleted my myspace to prove I regretted what I did... He told me later on he forgive me but he's not 100% over it... after that I found out that he changed his status in his myspace as "SINGLE" and we didn't exactly had any conversation that we are officially over!!!!!!!!! Is he taking advantage of the fact that I deleted my "myspace" account and I won't be able to see he's doing what I was afraid of or he's testing me if I really deleted my account and has no access to it anymore? --- btw, I used my brother's myspace to check his page...

2007-02-27 19:39:35 · 3 answers · asked by TOTALLY CONFUSED 2 in Singles & Dating

and how long will it be?

2007-02-27 19:39:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its been a month since we broke up ....she is outta my ming ...but she keeps playing in my subconsious mind ....... actually she betrayed me so i have every reason to hate her ....nd i do ..... but then why do i dream of her ???

last night i dreamt that we are again back together in oue relationship as if nothing was wrong .....

how do i get her outta my head ....plzz help me

2007-02-27 19:36:57 · 3 answers · asked by Parjanya Roy 2 in Singles & Dating

that i've tryed to attemped suicdie[sp?] about almost 3 yrs ago?
i mean i don't think i'll try it again and i'm afraid they'll send me away.Even though i have thoughts about doing it again alot.And sometimes i even wish i actually did it 3 yrs ago.

what do i do? serious answers only please.

2007-02-27 19:36:17 · 15 answers · asked by chesse 2 in Family

It is a good feeling and all, but how do I tone them down when I look into his big sparkling blue eyes and see him smile etc? It is totally torture because he just wants to be friends. All I want are little things like holding his hand, kissing him on the cheak, giving him a hug and resting my head on his chest. (I LOVE that for some reason!) Just little things like that.

2007-02-27 19:35:32 · 5 answers · asked by teetalla 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my pal got me a complicated skirt,full of belts wires etc.i was in airport with another pal(boy),1 of wire loosened & skrt 1/2 fell off.v were alone,he grabbed skirt&SAVED me.(he didnt see stuff , i was facing him,so when he pulled it up,he was in huggin position).did u hav a similar x-p-rienc
&how do u feel 4 me & urself&4 the guys who r reading this what
would u have done?
he once asked me out but i said no.he still has feelings 4 me&now i do after this.he didnt tease/try sex.what do i do

2007-02-27 19:33:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend she got into a fight with her other friends so I thought I should help them but how

2007-02-27 19:33:47 · 3 answers · asked by louisemolines 1 in Friends

Im alone here in Qatar No Gilr Talk with me HUHU

2007-02-27 19:33:39 · 2 answers · asked by hidevaka 1 in Singles & Dating

Can someone live without any emotions and obsessions?

2007-02-27 19:33:38 · 11 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom is a good woman in every aspect , but i like to discuss her with my frens & other people & I also falsely tell them that she is not very nice in her character.....I make wrong stories about her being involved in affairs with other man.....so as to get the interest of my frens & people towards my talk about her........
I dont know whether I dont like her or is it that I like to talk dirty about her....
can someone tell what should be done.

i do discuss with people in what all positions i have saw her, with men, while sleeping....what she wears... & all possible s*x stuffs related to her

2007-02-27 19:32:03 · 9 answers · asked by natadam05 1 in Family

In this 21st Century, as the Technology is grown, there is no time to share the feelings between a husband and wife in this fast moving world because both were working. They have their own individuality. In India, we have the culture of saying for one husband one wife only. Nowadays there are many who divorce the other immediately because of misunderstanding. If they dont share their feeling how can they understand the other's feelings. Both are equally educated, then too they ask for seperation. so, what can be done to stop the divorce and to safeguard our culture?

2007-02-27 19:30:23 · 21 answers · asked by Raki 2 in Marriage & Divorce