okay my b/f and i recently spent some "quality" time together, we had some good moments and some bad ones! wound up hainvg a huge issue disscussion, left it on a fairly good note agreed we weren't breaking up, then he sent an e-mail saying talk to you next week, i thought he needed space so i didn't talk to him until tonight, and the converstion was different the tone wasn't like it usually is, i mean it wasn't the worst conversation we have ever had but it was not the best etiher, and then i was talking to him about the next time we get together and he said if there is a next time and i coulnd't tell if he was joking or not so i just played it off like he was joking! and then when the conversation ended he was like gotta go and talk to you next week ! now a couple weeks or so ago i had been calling him one time a week, and he told me to call him more than once a week and now its like he wants it back to once a week! i am so confused, to me it seems like he is pulling a way ?
2007-02-27 19:53:39 · 7 answers · asked by Babygirl20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and that kinda worrys me! i love the guy with all of my heart and soul! i'm a grown woman not a teen but i don't have lots of experiance with guys! in fact he is my first serious relationship. i just need to figure out what to do. should i just ignore him for a while so he will get the idea of what it feels like when he does this to me? or should i just go ahead and call him next week? i am so not sure what to do!
2007-02-27 19:56:38 · update #1
we have talked for hours at a time before that is the thing that has changed i think he dont wanna talk to me that much! in fact he told me i talked to much at times! and he is going thru some stress over his health at the moment! not feeling to good! so i don't know if that has anything to do with it, he told me that sometimes he needs space, and so i don't know if this is one of those times or not! and i am kinda afraid to ask him if something is mega wrong and rock the boat! he is the one that has cut down our comunitcation and i do not want to push him for fear he will dump me. or for fear that i may be reading too much into this and he will think i am nutso or something!
2007-02-27 20:06:57 · update #2
.... Communication is key to all problems. How come I have the feeling you guys dont talk enough ???
2007-02-27 19:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is why are you asking us, we don't know you or your boyfriend. If you want to learn about him and how he is feeling, ASK! Tell him you don't understand and what is going on with him. Open the lines of communication or you are doomed as a couple.
2007-03-07 20:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as their is a readied supply of sex and a common disinterest for love the male species will fall everytime and be your slave to the grip of love.
2007-02-28 03:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by matthew m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look talk to him more if not hes may think hes way out off the relationship
2007-02-28 04:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lone Wolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In fact easy
2007-03-07 22:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch a few episodes of Doctor Phil
2007-03-08 03:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by rihannsu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try to talk to him more don't give him as much room
2007-03-08 02:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋