i've got a friend in school who can get the worst out of me. the other day, when we were about to talk about a heated topic, which involves a huge part of her, i adviced her in advance that if at all we talk about it, i will automatically be extremely shrude and sarcastic and that will definitely affect our friendship. so, i told her that we should not talk about it. despite me avoiding the topic, she insists that we should talk about it. she challenges me. i, being an egoistic person, of course accept the challenge after telling her that we HAVE TO forget about it as soon as it is over.
the conversation begins. we talk and talk till it our temperature increases. then, i immediately stop, not wanting to go on any further. instantly, i tell her that we have to forget about it immediately. and then she says, "how do you expect me to forget about it after you've said things like that?"
how do i control my temper towards her?
2007-02-27 19:55:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Turn around and walk away. Do not let her get you into a convo that you know will turn out bad. This person is not a friend if she will not forget and forgive when agreed upon. She is using what happened to back away from you--let her go
2007-02-27 20:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kismitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for anger management. heated conversations should never get to the stage were you waht to slap someone. it seems you're only happy when the conversations going your way.whatever issue it is you have with your friend pretending it doesnt exist wont make it disappear. if you cant talk without getting angry,why not write it all down in a letter explaining why she makes you so mad.if it cant be resolved you're going to have to decide whether or not you can stay friends with this person.
2007-02-28 04:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by kazzy3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get into it with a friend if you can't keep it in the form of debating, point and counterpoint, if it goes beyond that it will only get personal, and there is no need in ditching a friend or getting pissed off because of someone's opinion
2007-02-28 04:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Brad S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-control your anger
2-remember the things that make her your friend
3-stick to your guns when you insist on not discussing topics together.
2007-02-28 03:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋