ok i know this guy for about 4 months now....and he really seems to like me...he flirts with me a lot...n he tells me everything abt his life..he really trusts me as a friend...yesterday he called me up in the night and told me that he had a breakup with his gf..he also said that i dont need a gf anymore all i need is a loving friend like you...what does this mean?????? i really love him and i want to ask him out..but i feel this will affect our friendship what should i do???????
2007-02-27 20:35:53 · 8 answers · asked by cool girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out with him maybe you can be friends and much more then just friends at the same time.
2007-02-27 20:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This looks really positive, but i wouldn't ask him out just yet if he had a recent breakup. Anyway he will probably ask you out soon enough lol. If he already trusts you and loves like a friend.... why not just wait and see where the next level takes you?
2007-02-28 04:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by Abz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky one... you are in love with your "almost the perfect bestfriend"... honestly, if you take this friendship to the next level, it will affect your relationship it could be good or bad, you will never know unless you tell him.
BUT I suggest you tell him what you feel as early as now before you fall in love with him more its much harder to accept if he turns out not interested when you're so much in love with him.
BUT then, taking your time may also be good... strategize then eventually confess your feelings when you feel you have caught him in the right moment... like looking at you with googly-eyes... good luck!
2007-02-28 04:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by TOTALLY CONFUSED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well oh my this is weird for me to read...because the same thing happened to me! hehe...well..He means he needs you because you are so loving and he needs a friend that will talk to him because he probly going through alot now since he doesnt have a gf...Well just wait he will probly ask you out before you do! Because thats what my guy best friend did ^_^...Good luck..I hope what i have said helps
2007-02-28 04:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is heartbroken at this point of tym..
so, just be his friend as u were and even are. he already said that he needs no gf..after few dayz, when he finds u affectionate enough as u helped him in his worst moments of lyf, he will himself approach u!
dont worry, boyz take a little tym and galz need to be patient!
all the best!
2007-02-28 04:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual tension unresolved can ruin a friendship just as easily as having sex. Stop overthinking this. You love him... but don't want to ruin a friendship by becoming romantically (read sexually) involved with him.... hmmm.. doesnt make much sense. If you dig the man, as he seems to dig you... then just do it.... of course he is wary of a relationship... so play it smart... otherwise... bone him already. It may release alot of tension between the two of you.
2007-02-28 04:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by Samos 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ha you missed your perfect oprotunity to ask him you shoulda said a loving friend like me but what if I wanted to date you. Then if he said no you coulda played it off as you were joking and trying to make him feel better.
But maybe just try spending a little bit of time with him and warming up to him and ask him how he really feels.
2007-02-28 04:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ask him out yet, you will be a re-bound if he says yes, he wants you as a girl-mate who will give him hugs, make him feel better when you compliment him, go round to his with a dvd and a pizza and a few beers and have a good night been a good mate to him
2007-02-28 04:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by pinklinz@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋