Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

Why do guys leave their girlfriend after they have sex? shouldn't that guy shouldn't want to leave his girlfriend since he can have sex with her at least more than 1 time and plus the girlfriend will be depressed and heartbroken if he did leave her. I am 30 years old and my girlfriend is 29 years old. She loves me so much. I still have feelings for her but I know it isn't love nor lust. I only like her. We been together for at least 6. We started making love since like 2 years ago, and I never left her. I knew if I left her right after, I wouldn't have someone to make love with and she would be sad and will be suing me if she had a baby. Thank god she didn't have a baby. I hope I don't fall in love with her. I told her "I love you" lots of times and didn't mean it and I know I didn't mean it.

2007-02-27 10:54:56 · 13 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Heres the story: My girl friend asked me out about a week ago. for a few days the only talking that went on between us was saying hi when we passed by eachother. today i finally asked her why she wont talk to me, she said "i hardly even know you" and walked away. than at lunch she came and huged me and said hi which felt good but confusing. than after lunch she said " i like you alot, but i hardly know anything about you, so could we just be friends and get to know each other first, then maby we can go out"

so my questions are:

1. what dose this mean to you?

2. what would you do?

3. i thought that you go out to get to know eachother, is this correct?

thank you for taking the time to read this and help me

2007-02-27 10:54:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But the other day I saw my mate in the department store buying womens panties. I thought, 'the bastard' he is just buying them so he looks like a big man and slept with the most girls but then I followed him back to his house and burst inside and he was walking around with a pair of black panties and high heels. I couldnt believe it, he ran into his room and locked the door. That was 2 days ago and he won't answer his phone or return my messages. is he a freak? I don't know if I want to be friends with him anymore. What could this mean?

2007-02-27 10:54:39 · 1 answers · asked by Jumpy 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't mind WHO he's going out with, but we broke up less than 10 days ago and he's already started to date, and he had a long relationship with me and he's always passing me looking so happy. He's being incredibly insensitive, as he still wants to be friends and has even asked me for dating advice! What can I do to ease the pain (& possibly get revenge?) about this?

2007-02-27 10:54:23 · 3 answers · asked by Red Lime 3 in Singles & Dating

Why do guys leave their girlfriend after they have sex? shouldn't that guy shouldn't want to leave his girlfriend since he can have sex with her at least more than 1 time and plus the girlfriend will be depressed and heartbroken if he did leave her. I am 30 years old and my girlfriend is 29 years old. She loves me so much. I still have feelings for her but I know it isn't love nor lust. I only like her. We been together for at least 6. We started making love since like 2 years ago, and I never left her. I knew if I left her right after, I wouldn't have someone to make love with and she would be sad and will be suing me if she had a baby. Thank god she didn't have a baby. I hope I don't fall in love with her. I told her "I love you" lots of times and didn't mean it and I know I didn't mean it.

2007-02-27 10:54:01 · 1 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 10:53:30 · 1 answers · asked by rasheen j 1 in Singles & Dating

I heard a rumour that this guy I know (and also like) cheated on his mean girlfriend. I talked to him about it and he said it was an awful rumour that has been ruining the school year for him. He was really upset about it and I beleive him that he didnt cheat. (the source of the rumour was not exactly trustworthy). but I guess the real advice I need is what can I do to get him to like me AFTER he is available.

2007-02-27 10:52:34 · 6 answers · asked by Chat Noir 3 in Singles & Dating

One of my good friends happens to be my school crush and he always talking to me now but didnt before,sitting next to me, proteting me and always trying to make me laugh. what are some signs that would show if a guy likes you

2007-02-27 10:52:06 · 18 answers · asked by *♥Loveable♥* 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it's ok to go to the club and stuff? Or should you cut that out after you've commited yourself to someone?

2007-02-27 10:52:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner thinks that this is fine but it is boring but I think she gets scared and it actually puts me off from havind sex.

2007-02-27 10:52:04 · 7 answers · asked by MAK 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a girl I like at work that may have liked me before, and may still but i'm not sure because she is a seeing a guy. Anyway we usually get along very well and laugh and she is around me alot, and she's laughs at alot of things I do or say. Today however I guess I didn't pay much attention to her, so towards the end of the day she made a minor negative comment about me to someone else at work, then she didn't even look in my direction for the rest of the day. As a result I paid her absolutely no attention back. She just became very quiet and kept to herself the rest of the day. She seemed a little down. I didn't attack her in anyway. What could this mean?

2007-02-27 10:51:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 10:51:35 · 1 answers · asked by mm m 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok one of my bridesmaids is epileptic and can not be around flasing lights at all....we have everything set up with the photographer so her pics are all taken during the day without flash...My DJ has agreed to no strobe lights and will keep the light show to a minimum...my question is...I am getting a H2 limo for the bridal party to ride to the ceremony and the reception...it does have neon lights on the inside...Is it wrong for me not to want the lights off??? As far as I know they do not flash, but I am already cutting out so much for her....is it selfish of me not to want the lights in the limo off???

2007-02-27 10:51:08 · 7 answers · asked by Soon2BMrsCarlson 3 in Weddings

My husband and i have been seperated since the new year... he moved out 1/1/07 we would just fight alot . we used to be best friends and got along great. He admitted to TALKING to another girl a week after we seprerated. He says they no longer talk ... i do still really love him ... and we just got married april,06 i dont know when to give up? he admitted to me yesterday he dose not know if he wants to be married anymore or " if he is ready?" im kinda thinkin its to late to ask that question!ghe still tells me he loves me and just dose not know what he wants and is asking me to wait for him to decide.. just need some help:) thanks

2007-02-27 10:51:03 · 13 answers · asked by heather c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just can`t get over my ex,i`ve tried and still am trying so hard but i`m still hurting like mad inside.We were together 6 years and have a 4 year old son,he was my first love,but after walking out for the 2nd time 7 weeks ago,i have found out he is seeing someone from his work who flirted with him in front of me,i do think he cheated on me with her but he said he didn`t and the reason he had to leave was because he knew he was going to,i know they had met up before he left as thet were seen and i`m guessing this is what they were talking about.

I just feel so rejected and angry and will be fine for a week or so then it all comes back and the tears start again,i feel like such a failure,i couldn`t even keep the one person who meant so much to me,though i don`t know why i feel like this as towards the end he did treat me like dirt,stay out without contact for days on end but i just can`t get over him,i don`t like being alone but can`t imagine being with anyone either,please help

2007-02-27 10:50:30 · 10 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Singles & Dating

I met him during my divorce. He has been a great friend during the process. However, I am scared to move forward. I like how things are...I am not sure if I am just scared of the same problems as before (in the previous marriage). Should I give in or stand firm in not having a relationship? I do like him alot.

2007-02-27 10:50:28 · 11 answers · asked by DJ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

To sum it all up in a nutshell...
My mother will not allow my sister who is 13 yrs. old to spend the night with me and my family or go places with us. This frustrates me, and this is the last issue that exploded in to this war between her and I. She constantly snaps at people whenever she wants, hangs up on them if she doesn't want to answer their questions or doesn't like what they're saying.(incl. me) She says whatever she wants to people and doesn't care, and then places the blame on the other party.(incl. me) I have a now 5 year old daughter, who she never wants to do anything with, and asking her to watch her overnight or anytime is like pulling teeth. Most grandmothers take their grandchildren places, have them spend the night or the weekend, they would love to watch their grandchildren.. Well, not my mother.. Anythime I would start a job, she would agree to watch my daughter and them back out a few weeks after I started. She has called me names (her own daughter)...etc..

2007-02-27 10:48:54 · 35 answers · asked by What is wrong w/ppl these days! 1 in Family

2007-02-27 10:48:16 · 10 answers · asked by ~*Princesa_Mexicana*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 10:48:13 · 3 answers · asked by Mizz.D 2 in Friends

my 21 year old (baby) sister is getting married, and im so excited!!!! i have always wanted to throw a party like this for someone, thing is im not sure where to find all those fun "party accsesories". i really need help with finding these, i would really appreciate any suggested sites!

2007-02-27 10:47:59 · 8 answers · asked by p@nKiss 3 in Weddings

2007-02-27 10:47:56 · 10 answers · asked by SHAKIRA M 1 in Singles & Dating

ok.this is the problem.i have a boyfriend and i luv him soooooo much. well i talked to one of my ex-boyfriends (which i have seen or talked to in almost 3years)and we talked for like a hour on the fone about how we had changed and he told me that he still liked me alot.i told my boyfriend and he didnt wrry about it.so i know he trust me.the problem i have is that my ex plays baseball at the same school i play softball at and we see each other ALOT now. i'm scared that he might make a move(like kiss me or something like that).so wat should i do about this?plz help me

2007-02-27 10:47:54 · 10 answers · asked by rock chic3 2 in Singles & Dating

i told him i liked him he said he wanted to be friends untill we got to noe eachother well its been 8-9 months and im getting nervous and i feel really weird around him and i have strange dreams like were dating or were together and i think he doesn't like me cause of what i look like what sould i do to tell him im more then what i look like?(i'm 12 and weigh 125 pounds and he is a jock)

2007-02-27 10:47:35 · 6 answers · asked by Saber 2 in Singles & Dating

ok there is this kid in one of my classes and he always always has something to say about everything i say. me and him constanly argue like play fight. my teacher said it sounds like were married. at random times he tries to help me like giving me something for a project and one day i took a wrench as a pass and then got a call to go to the office and my teacher said are u sure u didnt hurt anyone and i go yeah and he took the wrench and wiped it on his clothes gettin grease on them and said well now the evidence is on me so she wont get in trouble joking around. i mean it sounds like he does but i dunno so i tried one day to get him to take a picture with me and he wouldnt hes like hell no no way. ok u seen this 1 today i gave him a note saying we should get to know each other better and he looked laughed gave it to his friend then to another one and then back to him then he through it again and then his friend threw it out and he grabbed outta the trash and kept it what is up wid dat

2007-02-27 10:47:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am moving back home in 10 days because I need to get my life together and improve my physical, mental and emotional health. I am very close with my parents and have been on my own for 3 years. I have been very depressed without having my family around (I'm an only child) and my health has suffered drastically. I am always stressed about money and I can never get ahead. I am very happy to be moving home but I am so heartbroken. I've had my cat ever since she was a kitten I rescued her she was abused. My cat is now 3 and means everything to me. I love her so much I was going to and trying to rent an apartment on my own in order to keep her and the only reason I cannot do that is simply I cannot afford it. I have a lot of debt I need to pay off and I need to turn my life around for the positive. I can't give her away I feel like I am dying inside. She is not declawed or spayed and my parents have such a nice house I know they are afraid she's going to ruin it. PLEASE HELP I can't stop crying I don't want to loose my baby (my cat) she is my shadow and brings me soooo much happiness Please help me. I am 21 Ill be 22 in July.

2007-02-27 10:46:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im usually pretty smart when it comes to school but lately ive been thinking of this guy...alot. wat do i do? do i work on studying or go for my guy?

2007-02-27 10:46:21 · 10 answers · asked by trouble_baby889 1 in Singles & Dating

after 13 yrs of marriage and i child he leaves me on april 1st 5 yrs ago he wanted to live with a family member who is old and because me and the his mum never got along he chose to take care of her this was his decision but why has it taken over 4 yrs for him to sign the divorce papers he kept putting it off..... he eventually did but now its like all our dreams r finished......we r finished even though i have known this for awhile its like now that i got the papers it is hitting me.......does anyone else feel like this .... my daughter who is 15 says she is ok with it all but i do worry about what effect this will have on her..... we r both there for her.... and she sees me and her dad as being good friends... we have both moved on in a sense ....its just abit too final i guess.....

2007-02-27 10:45:49 · 12 answers · asked by vonn_11 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 16 and i haven't kissed a boy yet. my boyfriend of 3 weeks tried to kiss me last night but i didn't let him. he has had many other girlfriends and kissed all of them, but i still haven't had my first kiss! i know that he is going to kiss me this weekend, but i don't know what to do.

should i tell him that i've never kissed a guy? should i make i short and sweet or last long? how do you even kiss a guy? (the more details, the better)

thanks!

2007-02-27 10:45:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 10:44:57 · 9 answers · asked by Kelli J 2 in Friends

2007-02-27 10:44:46 · 3 answers · asked by dorky child 1 in Other - Family & Relationships