my first kiss... PLEASE help?

Question

i am 16 and i haven't kissed a boy yet. my boyfriend of 3 weeks tried to kiss me last night but i didn't let him. he has had many other girlfriends and kissed all of them, but i still haven't had my first kiss! i know that he is going to kiss me this weekend, but i don't know what to do.

should i tell him that i've never kissed a guy? should i make i short and sweet or last long? how do you even kiss a guy? (the more details, the better)

thanks!

Answer 1

Kiss him, you might enjoy it! Don't be afraid of it. Just let him kiss you and let him control the pace for the first one. Just don't let him grab any of the other things.

Answer 2

*How to kiss:

When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.

What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands,
and looking in his eyes.

On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...

**French kissing
(or Frenching)

French kisses are kisses in which you also use your
tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.

Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!)
or until your annoying little brother starts taping you
with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents. LOLOLOL

***Kissing with glasses or braces

If either of you wears glasses, just take them off
before kissing.

If either has braces, the important thing not
to press too hard agains this lips. Otherwise the
braces will dig themselves into the inside of
his mouth. Ouch!

If you both have braces, don't worry! During
normal kissing your braces won't touch, so they
can't get tangled up with each other!

****Kissing do's and dont's

A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad
breath. Carry around some mints or gum, and
have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer
him one too. Avoid spicy foods, garlic and
onions just before. Or at least make sure
you're both eating spicy food, so neither will
notice.
Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's
as gross as kissing an ashtray!
You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or
after you kiss. The other person won't understand
it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were
laughing at him!

Need anyting else just email me @ [e-mail]

*Much LOve* **God Bless**

Answer 3

Be honest. If he starts laughing and doesn't respect your decision, he's not a true boyfriend. I know that might sound harsh and you might be thinking "He's the best boyfriend anyone could ever have" but, the best boyfriend is one that cares about your feelings and respects you as a girlfriend. If you feel ready to do it, just go ahead. The one thing that I've found out over the past couple years is that kissing just comes. You don't have to practice and there's no "right way" to do it. When you kiss someone, you know it's for real ,so it kind of just happens .It's hard to explain, but it's the truth. Who cares about how old you are and how many of your friends kissed a guy, it matters what you think, and if you respect yourself that much to not kiss someone, props to you.

Answer 4

Dont feel bad..I used to be exactly the same way..I was 14 and never kissed a guy..and I felt like such a loser, because all of my friends and everyone around me already had..and the majority of them had boyfriends, and I didn't..but then I started goin out with this guy and after 2 weeks he kissed me..then a week later we like made out..I was really nervous, but believe it or not, it all came really natural.. My point being, don't stress over it..just do it..you really can't mess it up, and even if you do..the guy probably won't even notice:]..

Good luck..and I wish you two the best! :D

Answer 5

If you tell him that you never kissed a guy before he will understand and be cool about it but if he laughs at you and tells everybody even your friends and laugh at you he just wants to kiss you for the heck of it and not for true like so he is not your boyfriend

Answer 6

Don't worry abou it. Honestly it'll come naturally to you. If you are really nervous about it though, let him lead you with the lip dance. The worse that could happen is that you screw up your kiss, you'll have many more. He won't judge you on one kiss and kissing gets better the more you do....so practice with him :-)

Answer 7

Control your saliva! No man likes to really be drooled on. Keep your lips in good shape. Rough, dry, chapped lips are no fun to kiss. Break out the lip balm and use it. You hear it every day but I’ll say it again, the fresher your breath the better.
The correct lip tension for kissing is quite an art. Too loose and you feel lazy and uninterested, too tight and you feel mean and tense.
Don’t surprise a new man with a kiss of overwhelming force and passion. It works in the movies because it’s in the script, for you at home it may come across as attempted date rape. It usually leaves the man longing for the closest exit. Yes, you may be burning with desire for him but you’ve got to slowly and carefully get his libido up to the same speed as yours.
Kissing isn’t just for the lips. Anywhere a man is particularly sensitive he likes to be kissed. When was the last time you kissed the nape of his neck, his wrist, his ears, his stomach.
Don’t try and figure out how sensitive his gag reflex is with your tongue while French kissing! The goal is to enjoy yourselves, not see how far down the back of her throat you can get your tongue.
Mix it up. Kissing in the same way for prolonged periods of time can get really boring. This isn’t a marathon for how long you can keep your tongue in her mouth. Mix up the long deep kisses with short soft ones on his forehead, his cheek, and her neck…and of course back to his lips.
Learn from the acting pros and don’t forget your hands. Ever wonder why women still swoon at the mention of Richard Gere’s name? The man is an ace kisser, he puts his whole body into it, and he uses his hands to coddle and caress a woman’s face, he run his hands through her hair, and leans into her with his hips. Ever watched Bull Durham? Check out Kevin Costner’s lip action (no, you don’t have to tell anyone, do your own private research man). In last year’s Cold Mountain Jude Law gives Nicole Kidman such a dazzling kiss as he runs off to war that she literally goes weak in the knees. That’s the kind of kissing action I’m talking about.
Don’t work too hard. Kissing is for fun and pleasure, if you’re breaking a sweat from effort (not from chemistry) you’re working too hard. Sit back, relax and let him come to you at times…don’t always be chasing him with your tongue and your hands. Learn to give and take. See what he can teach you.
Don’t go frenching his ears unless you know for a fact she loves it. Some women adore big wet kisses in their soundboards, but too many others HATE it. Don’t ruin a great mood by doing something that will gross her out.
Do tug gently on his earlobes with your teeth (again gently) when you kiss his neck and while you’re at it why not whisper a compliment or wicked suggestion?
Be brave enough to ask for pointers when getting to know a new man. Remember kissing is a matter of personal taste, what one man likes isn’t going to always work for another, but if you hear a particular suggestion more than once you know it’s something you’ve got to work on.
Leave him wanting more. Don’t kiss him so much that her lips are raw and his face aches – leave him wanting more of you, not less (especially in the beginning). Hope this helps you out.

Answer 8

you cant ever really teach someone how to kiss.kissing is an innocent way of physically communicating your feelings.hold him close as he does to you,put your lips on his and let him kiss you then you slowly speak with your lips not your mouth,put your arms around him and concentrate on the movement of your lips and mouth touch his face a little bit and just float in the moment

Answer 9

so its your first kiss i remember how nervus i was on mine! so heres what you do..Since its your fisrt kiss you should make it short and sweet. don't tell the guy its your first kiss only if he asks ok. but if he tries a french kiss then well uhh keep your tounge moving! if you have anyother questions email me at [e-mail]

Answer 10

do NOT stress about this!! You will kiss him when YOU are ready! If you have a good boy he will wait until you are ready and YOU will know..and the kiss will happen NO INSTRUCTION necessary