ok.this is the problem.i have a boyfriend and i luv him soooooo much. well i talked to one of my ex-boyfriends (which i have seen or talked to in almost 3years)and we talked for like a hour on the fone about how we had changed and he told me that he still liked me alot.i told my boyfriend and he didnt wrry about it.so i know he trust me.the problem i have is that my ex plays baseball at the same school i play softball at and we see each other ALOT now. i'm scared that he might make a move(like kiss me or something like that).so wat should i do about this?plz help me
2007-02-27 10:47:54 · 10 answers · asked by rock chic3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really (luv) you bf you would'nt let him even come 3 feet among you first of all. And secondly, He should respect you enough to know you have a bf in the place. Did you tell him? (dont have to answer). Tell him you love your boyfriend and you would do nothing to jeperdize the relationship...so back off. But this is only my opinion you have to decide whether you'll let him kiss you or not...not whether he'll kiss you or not. And if you two do start kissing behind you bf's back TRUST ME HE WILL SURELY FIND OUT!!! so dont take the chance. Take this info in follow it.
2007-02-27 10:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Sophia L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that I would be scared about that especially if you are not leading him on. Just make sure that he knows what your intentions are and that you are committed to your current boyfriend. That shows a lot of character in your current boyfriend that he trusts you so much to not care that your ex still likes you. Just remember who your heart lies with. As long as you are honest then you shouldn't have any problems.
2007-02-27 18:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by hasgr8boyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it all depends on if he knows you have a boyfriend. I mean if he knows that then if he respects other people, he wont make a move on you. If he doesn't respect other people, then he just might make a move. If he decides to, then you either let him or don't let him. If you lett him, there is a 99.99% chance your bf will break up with you but i f you jerk away then he will leave you alone, but your relationship may be ruined for a while if not forever. Now it is up to you to decide.
2007-02-27 18:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you actually want him to do something. If you love your dude so much maybe you should tell your ex that your happy without him. Distance yourself from you ex and show your boyfriend how much you love him; this will make you love your b-friend more and keep the ex away.
2007-02-27 18:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u already have a bf and how u luv your bf so much, he might get the hint that u don't want to get back together with him, if he does make a move, just pull back and tell him to stop.
2007-02-27 18:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by JJbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to spend as little time alone with him as possible. Try to stay with some other friends on the team when around him.
2007-02-27 18:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myself i would try to stay away from the guy as much as you can be thankful that your bf trusts you enough not to worry about this guy.
2007-02-27 18:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by Tessa N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u like ur ex u have to tell him and ur bf but if u just want to be friends tell him that and if he does try something and ur bf finds out tell him he made the move and tell ur ex to tell ur bf that he did
2007-02-27 18:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by Brooke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it if you like him. If you don't tell your boyfriend to beat him up. Tell him your taken.
Or just tell someone he's a stalker and get him sent to jail.
2007-02-27 18:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by some_dude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STAY FAITHFUL TO YOUR MAN, DONT LET THE "X" GET YOU TO DO SOMETHING YOU MIGHT REGRET!!!!!!
2007-02-27 18:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by Myke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋