Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

on a first date should i do what i want (the guy) or should i do what the girl wants?

2007-02-27 11:25:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is a "update" i asked a question a few months ago and i kinda 4got 2 update it, anyways my mom n this guy r still 2gether but he agreed 2 do consuling and crap, we didn't wanna go bk home but we did late august, last year, our grandparents said we can come bk anytime but we haven't came back i stay far away 4rm him now and so does my brother most of the time i lock myself in my room or go with my friends my brother does the same my mom feels so hurt cuz she thinks we shouldn't act this way but i'm still afraid and i want 2 avoid anything 2 do with that man i mean its bad enough i have 2 stay there well anyways i hope this answered any1's questions and btw we did tell the cops but my mom made me not press charges.....

2007-02-27 11:24:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok today i saw my crush and he was walking down the road and i couldn't talk to him but one way and that was if i yelled. He looked back at me a lot because i was watching him. He said "watch ur a**". So i dont know what that means. What does that mean? he has a gf so .........and i know he doesn't like me because he told me. Well he knows i like him. So can u help me?

2007-02-27 11:24:35 · 12 answers · asked by Green With Envy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 11:24:32 · 9 answers · asked by anja 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it fair to the other person if you're not happy with your life? Should you wait until you feel more fulfilled as an individual before being with someone else?

2007-02-27 11:23:46 · 17 answers · asked by Ummm.....yeah 2 in Singles & Dating

ok der is dis kid in 1 of my classes that alwayz has sumtin to say to w/e i say. me n him constanly argue. datz the only time we ever speak to each other.my teacher said its like were married.at random times he will be nice and help me like wid my project or like 1 day day i took a wrench as a pass and then got a call to go to the office and my teacher said are u sure u didnt hurt anyone and i go yeah and he took the wrench and wiped it on his clothes gettin grease on them and said well now the evidence is on me so she wont get in trouble joking around. ok yall have seen dat one well today i gave him a note sayin we should get to kno each other better n my # he looked laughed showed his friends they laughed and were tossin it around n then one threw it out and he took it outta the trash can. if he liked me y would he be so mean with the note i gave him????

2007-02-27 11:23:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

posing provactivley on her myspace account, poses in her underwear and bra, in santa lingirie?!, and also has pics of her 2 yr old daughter on her myspace page(in good taste). What man or anyone would think of this girl?

BTW- I know everyone is entitled to live as they please, I am just asking your opinion. thanks.

2007-02-27 11:21:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is what she told me in a recent email:


"i am so glad that i met you, you always make me feel so good when i talk to you and you are so easy to talk to. i mean if you think about it a lot of people that are dating don't have this kind of relationship for several years. and i practically glow when i talk about you to my friends. i kind of wish that you liked them more so they could see how good you are. and as for other problems i don't seem to remeber them anymore"


i never thought i would have found someone like this girl......

2007-02-27 11:21:26 · 14 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok this girl I talk to she likes me and I like her. we are 15 and 16 and the problem is that we live 5 stats apart and I really do like her and I do want to be with her but she dose not wont to hook up b/c the firkin 5 states
What can I do or say or something help me

2007-02-27 11:20:50 · 9 answers · asked by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 in Singles & Dating

friends and i guess im trying to say i want to get in touch with him but how! i really want to say hi to him!

2007-02-27 11:20:19 · 2 answers · asked by hockeylova#1 3 in Singles & Dating

OK well me and my best friend who is a guy (that I have liked since 5th grade *im in 8th grade*) likes me and I like him. Recently, we had highschool cheerleading tryouts. I had to do a cheer all by myself infront of the whole school and the cheer ended with a split. I was really nervous at the time and I kind of stumbled to the side but still accomplished the split. The immature jerks of guys in my school started up this nasty rumor that I farted when I when down into the split. (the guy I like was absent that day) and so when he came back to school the next day all of those boys told him this and I guess he beleved them because he wont even talk to me. When I try to talk to him he quickly looks away and talks to my best friend. What is going on? It was a stupid immature rumor and I dont know if he will ever talk to me again! I REALLY like him!!! PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-02-27 11:20:19 · 7 answers · asked by Kaycee 1 in Singles & Dating

darkened skies, baby blue eyes, a beautiful smile that lasted only a wile laughs and games never could cover the shames, cries and tears endless fears looks of shame never trying to share the blame never knowing who you left behind, always knowing that love is blind, happyness by day all the people you played sadness by night not enough strength to fight black as in shadows red as in rage trying to find resones to distribute the pain your friends they love you, you dont believe its true, but the only thing i can say is how much i love you just like a dream you came and you went but not enough time was spent the happiness is gone sorry it took so long to bring out my feelings toward you now all i can say is how much i love you

2007-02-27 11:20:15 · 6 answers · asked by vallan1015 2 in Friends

2007-02-27 11:19:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had 2 best friends in my whole world; we were always together no matter what like everybody thought that we were sister or cuz. But suddenly one of them didn't trust me and quit our friendship; I assume that her dad didn't like me. And the problem is I don't want to lose my other friend. Because since I quit w/ my other friend, they hang out w/ each other and having fun together without me. I talked to my friend and she said that she wants to be w/ both of us but when she sees her friend (my ex friend) she totally 4got me. She pisses me off and I don't know should I quit w/ her too or not. I don't know what to do; I don't want to be alone in school, in my classes and especially in lunch time. I have some friends in school beside them but I don't what to hang out w/ them all the times. And I’m starting hate school and all those classes that i have w/ them. So what should I do??? Or if u were me then wut would u do???

2007-02-27 11:19:26 · 1 answers · asked by Girl 1 in Friends

Ive met this guy who I get on really well with. Im comfortable with him I feel safe with him... 1 time there was this freaky guy that followed me from the bus stop 2 where I was going somehow I managed 2 lose track of him & I ran straight to the guy who Ive become really close with he works in astore that I usually shopped in b4 he took over and i asked him if i could hide instore 4 while cause i told him the reason y & he was like yeah sure. & over time we've developed quite a close bond & Ive developed some feelings 2wrds him
Ive been feeling like dis 4 quite sometime now & everytime I go in there I hide my feelings 4 him Sometimes I ignore him 2 c if he'll try n grab my attention like he always does but that didnt work 2day he pretty much did the same thing 2 me so I sed hi 2 him 1st insted of him saying hi 2 me 1st & it was only small talk today usually we really hit it off but 2day I just think he cudnt b bothered or he was just givin me the taste of my own medicine which sucked

2007-02-27 11:18:43 · 2 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

Me husband and I have been married for two years.
We have two children now, but before we married we used to have sex about 8 times a week. Now I am lucky since to have had sex more than once a month if that.
Is it unusual for a man to loose interest in his wife so quickly?

-I am twenty
-I lost most of the baby fat (although I still am a size 6 I used to be a 0)
-He is now 34

2007-02-27 11:17:59 · 9 answers · asked by marymouse26 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so today my friend introduced me and this boy that i think is really really cute but i was so shy and i said hi but i dont think that any words came out of my mouth. he smiled and waved but i dont think that he is interested. I think that i turned him off because i was so shy. my friend introduced and we walked away. i was afraid that i didnt do the right thing and stay and try to make conversation with him. he is really cute so girls are always in his face. i dont want to do that because i think that that would turn him off. now im thinking that he isn't the least bit interested because 1. i din't say anything really when we met and 2.i have a big forehead and he might have thought that i was ugly. everything is pretty about me but my forehead which is big but not superbig. if i had more self esteem i think that i would be more easy going about this. So does anyone think that he might be the least bit interested. i need all the answers i can get.

2007-02-27 11:17:47 · 6 answers · asked by smfan 1 in Singles & Dating

I have only been on a date with him 2 times but i feel as if ive know him for years. He is so handsome and sexy and I just want a kiss but I dont want to outright say " kiss me you hunk " so how do I hint to him.Let me know fast bc I am going out with him again in like a week.

2007-02-27 11:17:27 · 34 answers · asked by Christy 1 in Singles & Dating

He's a great guy - mid 30's successful, family man - but hopeless at maintaining friendships and nervous about establishing new ones. Typically he thinks people won't be interested in him. So he judges old friends from that perspective - doesn't keep in contact - and prevents new friendships by assuming the same. The thing is he IS awkward in some social situations. He's very intelligent, not prone to social pretences, but so desperate for friends thta it leaves him really quite depressed at times. Seems he's always been like this. He just doesn't know how to do the friends thing. I'm quite comfortable socially. But have toned down myself a little so he can't make comparisons or feel threatened....
Can anyone help?

2007-02-27 11:16:39 · 1 answers · asked by leelee37 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-27 11:16:38 · 4 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Singles & Dating

i just need to know

2007-02-27 11:16:12 · 18 answers · asked by lopez_oneyda 1 in Family

hey there...
well i have this friend who everytime
that her parents get mad at her
she cuts herself
i´ve tried to help her
but she doesn´t seem to understand
althought she has told that she wants to stop cutting herself
she can´t because it´s something she can´t control

i don´t know what to do anymore


thanx in advance =)

2007-02-27 11:15:59 · 20 answers · asked by ashlee 2 in Friends

2007-02-27 11:15:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 11:15:22 · 26 answers · asked by bori 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 11:15:17 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So im friends with this boy. Usully id tell im i liked him without getting the info if he liked me or not, but this time he carpools and were really close friends. Im afriad if i tell him and he dosent like me i will jeperdize our friendship. How do i get who he likes out of him? He dosent tell me just to annoy me and says he dosent like anyone i say. Help!

2007-02-27 11:13:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 11:12:54 · 10 answers · asked by youngBERT 1 in Singles & Dating

I heard of one where the guy took the role of the wife and the woman took the role of the traditional husband. He took her last name, he promised to love, honor and obey her. I mean was this for real?

2007-02-27 11:12:35 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

Two girls discover
the secret of life
in a sudden line of
poetry.

I who don't know the
secret wrote
the line. They
told me

(through a third person)
they had found it
but not what it was
not even

what line it was. No doubt
by now, more than a week
later, they have forgotten
the secret,

the line, the name of
the poem. I love them
for finding what
I can't find,

and for loving me
for the line I wrote,
and for forgetting it
so that

a thousand times, till death
finds them, they may
discover it again, in other
lines

in other
happenings. And for
wanting to know it,
for

assuming there is
such a secret, yes,
for that
most of all

2007-02-27 11:12:22 · 14 answers · asked by harryn 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I split in May but spent most of the year spending time together. Around December, we decided to go ahead and divorce and filed papers. Not long after she asked me if I was dating and I told her yes (though I wasnt). She seemed a little hurt. Our anniversary came at the end of the month and I sent flowers. We went to lunch and she started telling me about the new guy she was dating, and asking me about my dates. The last couple of weeks she is telling me this guy is the love of her life and were done. I've told her I still love her and am willing to fight for our marriage. Her friends feel she is fooling herself. I sent her an email telling her I am moving on but thanking her for showing me the changes I need to make to be better next time. She returned an email saying first she is glad I am willing to change, then how this guy loves her better than me, finally turning angry saying she doesnt care what I change. Sounds like a rebound to me and she is still hurt. Any thoughts

2007-02-27 11:12:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce