OK well me and my best friend who is a guy (that I have liked since 5th grade *im in 8th grade*) likes me and I like him. Recently, we had highschool cheerleading tryouts. I had to do a cheer all by myself infront of the whole school and the cheer ended with a split. I was really nervous at the time and I kind of stumbled to the side but still accomplished the split. The immature jerks of guys in my school started up this nasty rumor that I farted when I when down into the split. (the guy I like was absent that day) and so when he came back to school the next day all of those boys told him this and I guess he beleved them because he wont even talk to me. When I try to talk to him he quickly looks away and talks to my best friend. What is going on? It was a stupid immature rumor and I dont know if he will ever talk to me again! I REALLY like him!!! PLEASE HELP!!!
2007-02-27 11:20:19 · 7 answers · asked by Kaycee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, take a deep breath. This will go away. It doesn't feel like it right now but it will. The best thing you can do is leave it alone. I know that it's hard to do but it will. When guys spread something stupid like fart jokes, you make it even more pleasurable for them to do it by overreacting.
But since it's hard to not do anything, here's a suggestion: Since the guy you like is talking to your best friend (and I assume that your best friend knows the truth and that you trust him), have your best friend talk to him without your being there. Man to man. And then let it go. He probably needs to hear it from another guy that everything is cool. I hope this helps.
2007-02-27 11:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by ladylee1230 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up confidently and say how come your not talking to me anymore? is it because of that gay rumor that i farted in the splits, puh-lease say its not that would be so immature. Or just walk up to him and start a conversation, if he doesn't answer ask: Is something wrong? Trust me I'm in 8th grade too, and a cheerleader!=] Good luck!
2007-02-27 11:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by Emmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it achieveable that possibly she wasn't on IM once you messaged her? Or if she became into on line then possibly she wasn't at her laptop. you rather can no longer believe information superhighway conversations, so do no longer examine into it. yet do no longer forget approximately her in school, because of the fact if she nonetheless acts involved after 2 years, do no longer danger it by utilising performing like a jerk and ignoring her. Plus, possibly she is in simple terms too apprehensive to respond to you returned in case she says something stupid. besides, stable success along with her!
2016-10-02 02:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately sounds like your poor best friend, the guy you are talking to, caught the same case of immaturaty. All you can do is tell your side of the story, and if he choses to not believe you, then you need to find a better friend. He should have been a better friend to you. You can do better.
2007-02-27 11:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Chris H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just send him a txt or e-mail sayin that it was a rumor and what really happened. it's hard 2 ignore those types of things. or u could just ask him if u could talk 2 him 4 a min.
2007-02-27 11:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by jbgoldengun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a dope, forget about him. You deserve better, too bad for him.
2007-02-27 11:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by sity.cent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha, that's funny!!!!!! Okay, sorry for laughing. anyways, just go talk to him and see how he responds.
2007-02-27 11:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by cyberduelist2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋