Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

Even though your husband is right next to you. For the past two weeks I am being feeling like I'm just so lonely, that I cry my self to sleep. Sometimes he doesn't even notice or just choose to ignore me. I don't know if all this mood changes are just because of my pregnancy or he is just not into me.

I feel like I'm drowning and he is just there watching me drown.

2007-02-26 04:52:02 · 16 answers · asked by hayde_kat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am really bitter about losing 8 years of my life to a bad marriage. It feels like those years just went in the garbage . do u think there is some usefullness to it, or not. and i know its a learning experinece or whatever so is there anythign ELSE u can think of?

2007-02-26 04:51:47 · 26 answers · asked by lady26 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 04:51:26 · 9 answers · asked by Grace 1 in Friends

She tol him that she wanted to screw him and she kissed him. But what she didnt know was that we had set it all up What should i do should i dump her or what should i do i love her very much.

2007-02-26 04:51:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a college gal with connections to high society where she will wear a cubic zirconia set claiming it is diamond and rub elbows with upper echelon matriarchs. I was trembling when I first met this gal since she was dripping with "diamonds" but then she took me aside and told me the truth. Also, she said she played the part to hunt for sugar daddies who were almost always older but enjoyed flaunting her as a trophy. However, she confessed she needed a Real McCoy like me for "reals" and didnt mind my take out chinese food and beat up jalopy. Should I trust this gal. Everything about her is fake, from fur to perfume to brand name bags. She will rent real bags for a big party or buy one from a high end store and then return it the next week. Once she spilled some gravy on an expensive Prada dress and we had to organize a collection drive to pay off the retailer. Even though I am in on the "truth" can I trust her with a relationship? Sometimes I wonder whether she is faking her ...

2007-02-26 04:51:17 · 7 answers · asked by Kaliyug Ka Plato 3 in Singles & Dating

Both need to be relatively inexpensive. I have 100 guests and 10 tables. I would like to do pink and silver for my colors but I also like pink and green. Please help.

2007-02-26 04:51:09 · 12 answers · asked by colorfulswanson 2 in Weddings

so...ive been goin out with this guy for some time now and he claims tht hes still a virgin....hes 20 yrs old so im really skeptical....he knos that im a virgin too....how do i kno if he really is a virgin or not? cuz i kno alot of guys out there r players and will say such things to make themeselves look all innocent and sweet so that they can get in some girls pants....i heard that if a guy cums really fast then hes a virgin...how fast? i dono....any tips on finding out?

2007-02-26 04:50:23 · 6 answers · asked by sally m 1 in Singles & Dating

My hubby and I don't hide anything in terms of online chatting and web accounts but when I checked on his I noticed that he has newly added girls who kinda looked flirty that suddenly bothered me. Is this something that I just have to ignore or should I call a one on one for this? I do take care of myself and not for anything but I do get a lot of cat calls even though I'm married already, so whats up with those women?

2007-02-26 04:50:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so I was kind of "talking" to this guy and we ended up just hanging out for like 2 and a half three months. during this time he was trying to kiss me but i wouldn't let him i wanted to hold out until he asked me out. Well I couldn't wait that long so we ended up making out twice near the end of the time we were hanging out. After making out with him the second time, I guess you could say I blue balled him and he just got really turned off and stoped pursuing me in a way. I was just starting to move on (about 2 weeks later) when he starts flirting with me again. what's his deal?

It was kind of like oh he likes me so now I like him but now he doesn't like me so I'm over him but now that i'm over him he likes me sort of thing. and i really don't get it.

So can you tell me what his deal is please??

2007-02-26 04:48:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I swear when it comes down to it if it weren't for bad luck sometimes i don't think i would have any luck at all. Now i've talked about this guy i liked and dated before we had broken up and got back together and come to find out he was full of the same ole crap. Now i'm finally at the point where i am afraid to date anybody because a broken heart is not fun at all. But i have this one guy whom has been after me for 5yrs or longer who just won't give up. He's a really nice guy but he's just not my type. I just can't get into him period. Why is it the person we really don't want to be with is the most polite and seemingly the better man and the man that we usually choose to want to love is the one we should have dumped long time ago? I don't even want to date this guy because he takes it beyond what it really is but at the same time he's a good friend and has given me good advice on alot of things but he always goes to the subject of us getting together. I've already told him. what now?

2007-02-26 04:48:32 · 2 answers · asked by 2sweet4u 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been going out with a girl for 8 months and I have had some of the best moments of my life with her but there is someone I'm beginning to have feelings for. However I'm best friends with my current girl friend and I can't imagine being with anyone else. Shall I leave her and go for this new exiting girl or stay and stick it out.

2007-02-26 04:48:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't you just love guys???

2007-02-26 04:48:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband have been friends with another couple for the last 2 years, It seems like we were inseperable. My husband & I had a baby back in 2005 not 4 months later she was pregnant and I had no problem at all with it. But right after she had the baby they started not coming around as much and not calling. I realize that having a baby leaves you with little freedom, but they have never been the type to call to see how things are going, My husband and I have always been the ones to do that. Finally I got sick of always having to be the one to call so I told myself that I was going to see how long it would take them to call, finally I called 2 months later after not hearing one word from them & everything seemed fine, she used the usual I have just been busy excuse. It has been 5 months since we have talked to them. Should I say the hell with it and go on with my life or should I call and see the reason why it seems they are blowing us off. I am kinda fed up with the whole thi

2007-02-26 04:47:54 · 4 answers · asked by sallymollyap 2 in Friends

2007-02-26 04:47:11 · 18 answers · asked by etto 1 in Singles & Dating

Fellas - I know I would. She's cheeky, funny, a little mucky -minded, sexy, saucy - I can't find a down side.

I know some of the less mature of you out there will say she's 'too heavy' - but you'll grow up eventually

2007-02-26 04:46:54 · 9 answers · asked by fact_hunt_1970 3 in Singles & Dating

so...ive been goin out with this guy for some time now and he claims tht hes still a virgin....hes 20 yrs old so im really skeptical....he knos that im a virgin too....how do i kno if he really is a virgin or not? cuz i kno alot of guys out there r players and will say such things to make themeselves look all innocent and sweet so that they can get in some girls pants....i heard that if a guy cums really fast then hes a virgin...how fast? i dono....any tips on finding out?

2007-02-26 04:46:36 · 7 answers · asked by sally m 1 in Singles & Dating

For the first three months that he left, I have the children most of the time. He is a high powered banker so travels alot, etc. I then said, why not give him the kids most of the time. For two months, he had them three weeks a month, I had them one.
He complained, complained that I DIDN'T HAVE THE KID ENOUGH. The last three months I have had them most of the time because he has gone on ski vacations and away with his girlfriend ( who he lets stay over when the kids are with him but that is for another day). Anyway, starting this month, he has them one week, I have them the next, etc, etc, Monday to Monday. He now says that he doesn't like that schedule that I have the kids TOO MUCH and he is going to take me to court. Am I missing something?

2007-02-26 04:46:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What was the old way of making marrages in china??...(If a girl) Was it desided by a match-maker of some kind or by the father?? If it was a boy, would he be able to deside who he wanted to marry or was there an arranged marrage involved?

2007-02-26 04:45:56 · 2 answers · asked by Sahara 1 in Weddings

No matter what I do to try to resulve my emotional issues, I can't escape the pain. I have so many things to be greatful for (great wife, greate kids, great job, nice house, good church), but still I can't enjoy life and be a good father, husband, person in general because of this constant emotional hurt that has always been with me. I've been in therapy, but even that does not help.

2007-02-26 04:45:56 · 12 answers · asked by Scared 1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a very religious person. I pray everyday & go to church every Sunday. Last month I went to the Doc because of my frequent periods. I've never had frequent periods before. Doc gave me provera pills for 2 weeks. I got bad side effects. I got really scared of the devil. I thought I was possesed. I prayed everytime I got scared. I couldn't sleep at night, I had irrational thought & couldn't eat all day. I lost weight. I was already skinny to begin with. I am getting married & mom said if I don't eat I'll look an ugly bride. She was affraid I was going to ruin my wedding or there won't be a wedding. I was depressed & unhappy. I've never been depressed in my entire life. I was very active & happy with my fiance. Then I went to the doc again. They gave me xanax & provera to get rid of my side effects. I am back to normal again but still have irrational thoughts every day. But not alot. And have mood swings every now & then. I still pray & I love my fiance with all my heart.

2007-02-26 04:45:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

For around a long time,my boyfriend and i had been really happy together.However,during that time we ended up going on a break,and he started this girl.The break ended and we were back together because we missed eachother and he stopped seeing her.We were really happy again for a long time,but then he hurt me by taking something out on me one night,shouting and swearing and broke something.I ended up splitting up with him.He promised he was going to get help to sort himself out for him and for me.So that night after out talk,i sat and cried while he went to a party.The girl he was seeing on our break was there,they got steaming drunk together,then they slept in the same bed.He said nothing happened,but she was scared to be left on her own and didnt want him to go.He said he was really sorry,and that he was phoning the anger management place that day and that he loved me etc.I feel totally betrayed.Do i have the right to?What do you think?

2007-02-26 04:45:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That you're girlfriend gets along with you're friends?
I don't like my bf friends...they have disrespected me (telling him that they can sleep with me if they wanted to) and him by telling him this to his face and he doesn't seem to care much. He says he knows his friends are jerks but you take in good with the bad...

I really don't like his friends...but, would that be a problem?

2007-02-26 04:45:06 · 5 answers · asked by lotsofluv007 4 in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal. My girlfriend of a yr just broke up with me yesterday, after we had an argument (we had been experiencing different problems each not in our relationship). I was devastated, and she said could we meet the next day, so that she could 'explain', I said that there wasn't much point, as it wouldn't help either of us, she didn't want to be with me anymore. I said that I loved her, and that if she did want to take me back, I would be waiting for her at the place she said she wanted to meet me to explain. If she didn't turn up, I would assume that she didn't want to get back together and work through these problems together.

She didn't turn up. I go to get a bus home, she's standing there with two of her friends who are comforting her. We both get on the bus, she sits in the seat furthest away...i midway through the journey go up and say can't we just sort all this out....she says that she wanted to explain, but i said 'whats the point'?, then she started crying & told me2go

2007-02-26 04:44:50 · 7 answers · asked by dafadf a 1 in Singles & Dating

Guy I crush on is hot. But is also my exboyfriend who I still like. We decided to remain friends untill we know each other better

2007-02-26 04:44:43 · 4 answers · asked by Cherry 2 in Singles & Dating

everytime i was up there he would grab my sides or chase me and stuff and he would always ask me friend if he was the one i liked idk?

2007-02-26 04:44:42 · 2 answers · asked by ♥kristie♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 04:44:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am shocked and upset and i don't think i'll be the same again.. i caught our local woodsman in his shed sawing himself off a piece.. how can i tell his wife?

2007-02-26 04:43:58 · 3 answers · asked by lion of judah 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems like relationships seem to loose their fizzle if the element of charm and romance is lost. Even if it's the first date. So my question to the ladies is....would you rather be in a lovestory or would you rather just have a guy who is crazy about you?

2007-02-26 04:43:26 · 5 answers · asked by giovanni g 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that I have been friends with since middle school. We have a history together. We are both bi. I have feelings for him even though I know things can never be. He is engaged He talks to me about girls he sees around and I dont get mad. But he mentions a guy looking at him or hitting on him,i feel angry and hurt. Its like I tell him, everytime we are together and/or do special things i worry that it could be the last, that he will replace me. i tell him i can never replace him. he knows how i feel and doesnt mind just as long as i accept that we can be no more than friends. we talked about it a long time ago. i said i was find and that there were no feelings. scared i would push him away. so i ask if he knew then what he knows now would we not be the way we are? he says no, but hes glad he didnt. he claims i wont be replaced and he's not tired of me. just weird feeling and wondering what i should do, think, or say to him. dont know if being immature or annoying.

2007-02-26 04:43:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I thought she was a munter before but now she appears more interesting - or is it just me ?

2007-02-26 04:42:56 · 15 answers · asked by fact_hunt_1970 3 in Singles & Dating