My hubby and I don't hide anything in terms of online chatting and web accounts but when I checked on his I noticed that he has newly added girls who kinda looked flirty that suddenly bothered me. Is this something that I just have to ignore or should I call a one on one for this? I do take care of myself and not for anything but I do get a lot of cat calls even though I'm married already, so whats up with those women?
2007-02-26 04:50:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont have plans of cheating, and I didnt go to his account, he is one of my friends list on my account also and I have the option to see his friends list so thats why I know.
2007-02-26 05:20:10 · update #1
this seems to be normal for a man .
just ignore it and put good looking guys on yours.
then u both can joke about it all.
these women are out to steal your hubby if u dont watch it.
keep the hubby happy and give them no reason to.
just laugh it off , its in a mans nature to do this.
2007-02-26 04:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have gone off in a bunch of directions in your question here. First off, why were you going through his personal affects? You should not be snooping through HIS things. Secondly, OK, you found "Flirty Girl". Unless they are making face to face dates, I would not worry about it. Third, you say you get cat calls on the street - so what? All women do. It is a bit disturbing you bring that up because it is very unladylike to even give notice to those calls. And in bringing them up, what are you trying to say? That you'd be willing to cheat on your husband with a loser that whistles to you in the street? Are you crazy? I think you sound insecure and need to work on your insecurities before you do something stupid to YOURSELF.
2007-02-26 05:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by lanibear55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be straight up with your husband and let him know how you are feeling. It might be totally innocent and he be able to quickly put your mind at ease. Or it might be something the two of you need to discuss before anything goes too far.
Speaking from experience, online relationships that grow too flirty can only lead down a dark path. One such relationship led my husband and I to divorce (we later worked it out and remarried, but not until there had been a lot of hurt and pain). I would strongly suggest that your husband and yourself stay away from relationships with the opposite sex that grow too flirtatious.
2007-02-26 04:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Raising6Ducklings! 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your husband shouldn't be chatting online with anyone. It's not healthy in a marriage or any relationship. You two need to talk about this. If you're chatting with men online too, then you need to stop. What are you saying to these men that you can't say to your husband & vice versa?
2007-02-26 05:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it brothers you, then yes do ask him about it. But don't assuming he's doing anything behind your back; if you trust him like you do. But being honest is the best policy. The question will be asked of you why were you checking? Maybe just for reassurance or just browsing just to see what he's been up to if ya'll don't do it together.
2007-02-26 04:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you have an open relationship with NO secrets... then you need to trust that he will be open and honest with you, and not do anything to jeopardize your relationship. A another woman can be as flirty as she wants to be, but if your husband is true to you, then you have NOTHING to worry about...
2007-02-26 04:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by ***Girlie Girl*** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your tripping because the friends on his page look smutty? My 18 year old son has many friends on his webpage but he doesnt know them and I agree some of the pictures these people put out of themselves is ridiculous. My son's girlfriend laughs it off because her picture is on his page stating who she is and what chance any of them have regarding my son. Its just an attention getter for most of these smutty woman. I wouldnt worry about it unless / until my hubby gave me reason to worry.
2007-02-26 04:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you have the one-on-one. In the meantime, if you don't hide anything, what were you doing checking on him? Be prepared to answer this question.
2007-02-26 04:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it bother you. The pictures of them might even be fake. I'm sure he doesnt mind if you flirt with guys on-line.
2007-02-26 10:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by dwnaz1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him. Me and my baby both have Myspace and when random girls that I dont know ask to be his friends I ask who they are and if I dont want him being friends with them then he earses them. THATS LOVE...lol!
2007-02-26 04:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal F 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋