so...ive been goin out with this guy for some time now and he claims tht hes still a virgin....hes 20 yrs old so im really skeptical....he knos that im a virgin too....how do i kno if he really is a virgin or not? cuz i kno alot of guys out there r players and will say such things to make themeselves look all innocent and sweet so that they can get in some girls pants....i heard that if a guy cums really fast then hes a virgin...how fast? i dono....any tips on finding out?
2007-02-26 04:46:36 · 7 answers · asked by sally m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll just have to trust his word I think. Don't rush into things whatever you do. Guys like to rush things, whether sexually active or at the age when they want to lose their virginity.
My boyfriend fibbed when I first met him about how many partners he had but came clean without being asked when we were together for a bit. If he respects you and sees a future with you, he'll be honest with you.
Trust your intuition, you'll be able to tell by his behavior and in the way he says it to you. Explain in a non-accusing way how you feel and how you are fine with it if he isn't a virgin (if it's true) and would just prefer if he was honest with you.
I hope he's not a player babe! You deserve better.
2007-02-26 05:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that too that yet ask yourself is this the guy you really want to lose your virginity too regardless if he is a virgin or not?
2007-02-26 13:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by efwisocap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this guy serious with you? That totally changes the situation. If I were you i just wouldn't mess around with that what so ever. If you don't trust him then its not going to go on well. If he'd wait that the dedication you'd need. *thumbs up*
2007-02-26 12:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just pay attention to him and his friends casual conversations, someone is bound to give hints. or of course you could just ask him for the truth and tell him that it doesn't matter to you one way or the other you were just curious.
2007-02-26 12:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should have some more faith in him...if he says he is a virgin and have no reason not to believe him than just go with it
2007-02-26 12:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by kf17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask his friends.
2007-02-26 12:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by ingham_elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust........
2007-02-26 12:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋