so I was kind of "talking" to this guy and we ended up just hanging out for like 2 and a half three months. during this time he was trying to kiss me but i wouldn't let him i wanted to hold out until he asked me out. Well I couldn't wait that long so we ended up making out twice near the end of the time we were hanging out. After making out with him the second time, I guess you could say I blue balled him and he just got really turned off and stoped pursuing me in a way. I was just starting to move on (about 2 weeks later) when he starts flirting with me again. what's his deal?
It was kind of like oh he likes me so now I like him but now he doesn't like me so I'm over him but now that i'm over him he likes me sort of thing. and i really don't get it.
So can you tell me what his deal is please??
2007-02-26 04:48:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it took me 3 months to kiss him and I told him I'm not having sex until I'm in love so if he just wants to get in my pant's as you guys can tell he's going to have a hard time. lol
2007-02-26 04:54:28 · update #1
He realizes that you are WAY too much hassle than what its worth, BUT he still needs to accomplish his mission, so he is still intrigued for the time being, however he WILL loose interest soon.
2007-02-26 04:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess is you're dealing with what I would term a 'player in the making' or a 'player wantabe'. So show him some moves of your own! You were right to hold off until he started asking you out. So you goofed and made out anyway--I can tell the temptation was too hard to resist. But that doesn't mean you can't still have the same objective--you want the guy to ask you out. The next time he expresses interest in your (i. e. flirts) ask him point blank what he hasn't asked you out yet. If he's dating other girls and still trying to 'just hang out' with you, you know you've got a problem. And don't worry about his blue ball problem, he's probably pouting about that and trying to use that as leverage. Lots of players act all offended by such things. Laugh at him and move on if he doesn't get his act together soon. Tell him you know you're a catch and deserve good treatment. Don't let him play you girlfriend--you seem wise enough.
2007-02-26 12:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women will never truly be able to understand men and Men will never truly be able to understand women. Why? Because we are all different. It's not the gender that differs us, it's our personalities. I think you shouldn't over analyze every move a man makes b/c you'll just end up with a head ache. Just be yourself and look into what YOU want and don't worry about what he wants. If he's man enough, he'll let you know!
2007-02-26 12:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is he wants to get in your pants. You can always confront him about the situation, you know ask him what his deal is. And if you are over him and not interested in him, it's his lost. I like to flaunt some of my assets just to show the guy "you could of had this but you lost your chance." But that is just me.
2007-02-26 12:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by B.J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i actually understood this
when you want him he dosent want you and when you dont want him he wants you
he playing a game with you,you shouldnt trust guys like that
theyre just trying to have a little fun then laugh at you in the end and make you look like an idiot
so yeah try to get him off your back and dont let a guy fool you like this again pleaseâ¥
2007-02-26 12:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this deal of yours has got no big deal. dis guy cant control himself it took him 2 weeks n blue balls hurt very badly.I think he liked it n wants more
2007-02-26 12:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by KoOlJAy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In fact he likes you and not only flirting but in real .
2007-02-26 12:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by pinku_gulu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he messing around with your mind. He might just trying to make you crazy..
2007-02-26 12:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by xcrazyx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants an easy lay
2007-02-26 12:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he wants to sleep with you and thats about it
2007-02-26 12:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋