Why does it seem to always happen like this?

Question

I swear when it comes down to it if it weren't for bad luck sometimes i don't think i would have any luck at all. Now i've talked about this guy i liked and dated before we had broken up and got back together and come to find out he was full of the same ole crap. Now i'm finally at the point where i am afraid to date anybody because a broken heart is not fun at all. But i have this one guy whom has been after me for 5yrs or longer who just won't give up. He's a really nice guy but he's just not my type. I just can't get into him period. Why is it the person we really don't want to be with is the most polite and seemingly the better man and the man that we usually choose to want to love is the one we should have dumped long time ago? I don't even want to date this guy because he takes it beyond what it really is but at the same time he's a good friend and has given me good advice on alot of things but he always goes to the subject of us getting together. I've already told him. what now?

Oh and he sent me something to my job on valentine's day which really freaked me out because he's telling me how much he loves me on the card.

Answer 1

Tell him again and explain that you have made your mind up and you can only be friends..and make it clear if he continues to push for the two of you to be together it is going to affect your relationship as friends.. hopefully he smartens up

Answer 2

No, it appears like a preteen novel that's attempting to be a teenager novel. except you hinted at some extensive plot twist i'd've placed that down in the previous ending the precis. so some distance as your precis is going attempt to cut back out a number of the stuff on the subject of the youngsters at college and extra on the subject of the teachers ex-boyfriend. Your sort of writing is incredibly straight forward that's good thinking a super sort of authors now *coughstepheniemeyercough* use extremely flowery grammar which makes it imprecise and in basic terms poor.