Family & Relationships - 25 February 2007

Any suggestions on what flowers to use on the ROM day? Other than roses. Roses have become way too common...

2007-02-25 04:38:07 · 4 answers · asked by i am who i am 2 in Weddings

I'm in a huge dilemma right now. I'm a 20 year old male virgin, who stayed abstinent for moral reasons and never been in a real relationship because of other commitments (studies and work).

I'm feeling really lonely and I reckon I'm a good catch; I'm well educated, fairly handsome (I use to be a model, no kidding), I'm understanding and considerate (I wouldn't ever laugh or frown at anyone's misfortunes), and I would never take a girl for granted because I know how great they are as human beings.

My problem is that I read an article in a paper that stated 70% of women would NOT date a guy who's not had sex in 12 months. I've never had any. This means I've got very little chance of being dated.

I feel really undesirable and my self-esteem is in pieces. I've been losing sleep this week over this and I'm considering hiring a working woman to teach me bedroom skills. Yes, I'm actually considering a prostitute. Before I do this though, I want some opinions. Should I?

2007-02-25 04:37:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY FRIEND AND I WERE DATING ABOUT 6 MONTHS BEFORE HE GOT DEPLOYED. HE KEEPS BREAKING UP WITH ME SAYING HE IS ON A EMOTIONAL ROLLCOASTER. HE DID IT AGAIN YESTERDAY AND I WAS NATURAL HURT. HE SAYS HE DOESNT WANT TO DISCUSS IT AND HE DOESNT WANT TO LEAD ME ON. HE COMES HOME SOON AND IM JUST AT A LOSE FOR WORDS. I REALLY LOVE HIM AND I WANT THINGS TO WORK OUT BUT HE BECAME A DIFFERENT PERSON. HOW DO I KEEP MY RELATIONSHIP CAUSE I DONT WANT TO LOSE HIM?

2007-02-25 04:37:23 · 3 answers · asked by SOLIDERGIRL 1 in Singles & Dating

We live in Ga. She is taking him to California for a week at the begining of April to a family reunion and nobody asked me to go. I am upset. Does this sound weird or am I just crazy?

2007-02-25 04:36:56 · 19 answers · asked by coan2007 4 in Family

Home with her for sex. My Girlfriend found out
and she quit me. How can I get my girl back after this mistake??

2007-02-25 04:36:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got my first boyfriend 2 weeks ago, he has had many girlfriends in the past and is very experienced while i am not. On our first day going out he tried to go to second base i told him to stop. it has made me really uncomfortable around him. He understands that im not like that. I really like him alot but i dont know if ill be ready for that anytime soon, how can i avoid him trying something like that again?

2007-02-25 04:36:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i waited till all the sisters were asleep and entered his chambers. The room was in total darkness...i approached carefully and he said wiht a thick voice "Come here sister, there's something i have to show you". I am supposed to follow my superior's orders, so that's what i did. I sat on the bed, while he kept saying "move closer, i don't bite". I sat real close, my heart racing, He says again, "i want to show you something really nice, but it only works whe it's dark", feeling his breath on my neck...
Finally he said "Here, look at this", and showed me his glow-in-the dark dial on his new watch. Am i in deathly sin now, fellas?

2007-02-25 04:36:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im just curious to what people regret the most in their lives.

2007-02-25 04:36:18 · 6 answers · asked by miami_girl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was thinking girls slumber party! What activites should I do?

2007-02-25 04:35:50 · 6 answers · asked by allycat 2 in Friends

2007-02-25 04:34:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went over to my friends house to help him remove a family of squrriels in his attic.I go up into the attic with a potato bag and start catching them. After i catch them all i start walking back and as i was walking across a wooden beam the bat that lives up there swoops down, this isnt a normal bat its huge we nicknamed it mothra because its so big. I slip and fall and land the wrong way on the beam i drop the bag of squrriels and well. A part of me swelled up so bad it hurts to walk lol. I hope you got a laugh. Remember to love all gods beast.

2007-02-25 04:34:30 · 8 answers · asked by beastman the CEO and president of CRAZY 1 in Friends

2007-02-25 04:34:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I spend 25 hours a week together because of his work. Sunday is our only day. She doesn't care. She's here now. I've asked him to at least have her call first , he won't. Am I being petty?

2007-02-25 04:33:34 · 19 answers · asked by SusiQ 4 in Family

i loved one guy. but i dont want to continue the rest with himbecause he is not good to look. but that guy is still loving me. he is really good and wants to live with me only. the problem his i started loving him only through phone but i dont like his appearance but i like his charecter. please help to take a descision

2007-02-25 04:32:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After 31 yrs of marrage my husband walked out. We have a disabled 28 yr. old son and my bed-ridden mother who lives with us.
My husband has been 'PRETENDING' to have Alzheimers so he could retire, not work and force me to get a job. For months he has been PRETENDING he couldnt drive, take his medications or do anything for himself.
I know he has been faking because in the back ground he has been planning his move to Florida to live with a friend. The day he left he had sense enough to pack some items, drive around and try to sell some guns (for money), buy a bus ticket, catch the bus on time and make his way down south.
What do I do now...he said when he was walking out that he would be back to get his things. How do I keep him from being able to walk back in and take whatever he wants.
I would love to get a divorce but every attorney I have talked to this week wants from $500 - $750. I barely have money to live on.
I would love any suggestions...thank you.

2007-02-25 04:32:31 · 9 answers · asked by ldw745 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she asked me out 4 days ago but she dosent talk to me much, it feels like she is afraid of me but i know she likes me alot. what should i do?

2007-02-25 04:31:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 04:31:21 · 14 answers · asked by crazyabs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend lives 3 hours away and I find myself getting jealous, which is unlike me, that guys she works with get to spend more time with her than I do. What do you think?

2007-02-25 04:31:19 · 11 answers · asked by Chris B 2 in Singles & Dating

how do you know if a teenage boy likes you??? if there is someone that you like, how would you find out???

2007-02-25 04:31:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 04:30:47 · 9 answers · asked by akk 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 04:30:45 · 6 answers · asked by crazyabs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a single mom of two who owns a home but on a tight budget. The boyfriend also has two kids that stay at my house every other weekend as well. My utils have skyrocketed the past year as well as groceries, etc.....We seem to disagree on what is fair. He has his own place (with roommates) and I have been sending him home more often. I think he should be covering the discrepancy in my utils and contributing towards groceries at the very least....I can't afford them!

2007-02-25 04:30:13 · 10 answers · asked by Susan T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I promise... not to bite...

2007-02-25 04:29:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

person? place? thing? joke? incident? anything.... it instantly cheers you up even in the worst of times?
For me it has to be.... chocolate ice-cream (aaaah)
and the memory of my holiday in Lanzarote back 2 years ago.... it was just the greatest ever!
I know that's two but couldn't choose between them.

2007-02-25 04:29:10 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thanks for ur answers

2007-02-25 04:28:11 · 14 answers · asked by skatman_982 1 in Friends

I'm a soldier in the military and am not home very much. We try to go out and eat as a family and have movie nights, but my wife and I never get a night for just us because we are new to this duty station and we dont know anyone here to babysit. We are both very protective of our only little girl. What should i do to get a little one on one time again with my wife.

2007-02-25 04:27:51 · 10 answers · asked by oneshotonekill 1 in Marriage & Divorce

To make a long story short, before me and my boyfriend Matt started dating, he liked this girl named Ella. I liked her as a friend and then I was suddenly the bad guy. Anyways, my bf is still friends with her but she seems like a gf to him. They go out, he picks her up, buys her stuff...I feel like we're both his gf. I asked him if I was gonna lose him to her. He said no but I still don't like the situation. I don't want to break up with him. So far, I know he hasn't cheated. What do I do?

2007-02-25 04:26:57 · 8 answers · asked by Lucy 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf plays this game online and he has a gf on there and he told her he loved her is he cheating on me or am i just a worrier

2007-02-25 04:26:40 · 22 answers · asked by Kourtney r 1 in Singles & Dating

im a 25 yr m and a virgin and i know all my friends have had sex and it just seems hard for me to deal with the fact that i can relate with all of them on the same level but in comparison, are views on faith are cmpletely diffrnt. does not anyone think about morals now adays?? now adays everyone thinks sex is ok just because you 'think' you love someone then it never works out anyways...thats not love because you obviously couldnt get around your differences to make things work and if you truly love someone, you will let nothing get in the way to endanger your relationship with them. all anyone thinks about is getting in the sack..i dont want to sound sexist or anything, but id like to think females contribute to all of this by wearing such revealing clothing...even though i think its really cool and really hot, its just too hard to keep focused on values and morals when your looking at short skirts and cleaveage all day..id like to wait til marriage but it just dont that will happen.

2007-02-25 04:26:20 · 14 answers · asked by ginafisher 2 in Singles & Dating

Yea I know i'm young and I have my whole life ahead of me. Im just looking for more. Im tired of the young immature boys in school that dont care about their future. I want to be with someone who has a future ahead of them. Right now I'm pretty busy with work and school so it's hard for me to do alot. I love to travel and am willing to go the distance. I just need to find someone to do the same. If there is anyone out there who feels the same (guys) please feel free to email me at plastksweetie07@yahoo.com I would love to talk and get to know you. Im 18 and from Virginia. Is this too much to ask for?

2007-02-25 04:26:12 · 3 answers · asked by plastksweetie07 1 in Singles & Dating