Is my bf cheating on me with his internet gf?

Question

my bf plays this game online and he has a gf on there and he told her he loved her is he cheating on me or am i just a worrier

Answer 1

Yes, he's cheating. Why would he tell anyone but you that he loves her. It's either a game for him or he's not a committed type and either way it's wrong.

Answer 2

Now why the hell does he have both an internet girlfriend AND a real life one?! I'm sorry that's just a new concept for me, but if he's told her he loves her, then maybe the relationship isn't right between you and him. If you love him, let him know, and be sincere about it. Maybe he's not fully clear that you care for him a lot. This is kind of a sticky situation. But you have all the right in the world to be worried that some girl from the internet that you don't know has been "with" YOUR guy! I really hope my advice helps.

Answer 3

First of all, this guy is disrespecting you. Online relationships are not harmless when one or both parties involved are in a "real world" relationship as well. Even though they may not physically be together it's still cheating when the feelings are there to the point that they would consider someday getting together. If this guy is telling this girl that he loves her chances are he wouldn't think twice about cheating should the opportunity ever arise.

I say dump him, or give him a taste of what he's doing to you. I see nothing wrong with being vindictive. "What goes around, comes around." Isn't Karma a *****?

Answer 4

This is fairly simple, and I'm sure deep down you know this.

You have ONE girlfriend/boyfriend at a time. Thus, be it real or internet (And I'm sorry but that makes no difference), he is cheating.

For the love of god, dump this boy and move on. There are plenty of guys in the world that'd be happy to have you - and not need an "internet girlfriend" too.

Even if you didn't consider it cheating, who on earth strings a person on like this whilst telling someone else they love them?

Get out before you get hurt!

Answer 5

A little of both because if he told her that he loved her.That is a sign he is cheating maybe.But you are on the other hand worrying because its over the Internet so there isn't much he can do there that he can do with you.So just ask him"Are you cheating on me with this girl over th Internet?"And if he either gets really mad or is acting unusually then he might be cheating and you should leave him.

Answer 6

Doesn't matter if he's cheating.. the problem is that he's even talking to someone else. Talk about it... give him an ultimatum- it's either me or the internet women. Bail out if he persists as this shows lack of respect/commitment/ability for a real relationship with you.

Answer 7

If you are his girl friend and she is too, then what do you call that?

She is also his girlfriend too, so don't you think that he is behaving inappropriately of having you and her on the side?

Yes, he is. Hey may not see her, but he talks to her and she is a human being like you. Yes, you should worry about this type of behavior.

Answer 8

How did you find out? If he's trying to keep it a secret, then I'd say yes, he's cheating. If he shared it with you, it might just be part of the game to him. Also, it depends on the context.

Answer 9

He is a nerd for having an imaginary online gf. Dump him.

Answer 10

i could be fairly disappointed and your question is why I definitely have found out to no longer get too close to to any female in this internet site. there became one i presumed became particular and that i might prefer to think of she is, even nonetheless it sounds as though she is slightly too flirtacious for her own solid ...