To make a long story short, before me and my boyfriend Matt started dating, he liked this girl named Ella. I liked her as a friend and then I was suddenly the bad guy. Anyways, my bf is still friends with her but she seems like a gf to him. They go out, he picks her up, buys her stuff...I feel like we're both his gf. I asked him if I was gonna lose him to her. He said no but I still don't like the situation. I don't want to break up with him. So far, I know he hasn't cheated. What do I do?
2007-02-25 04:26:57 · 8 answers · asked by Lucy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-25 04:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, what else is new? If you can't figure this one out, I think it's time for you to consider something besides trying to be a girlfriend. Maybe pay more attention in school so that you can get into a good college. Join some clubs and groups or a sports team at school. Do something spectacular with your life so that losers like Matt will be proud to tell everyone, "Hey, that use to be one of my girlfriends.
2007-02-25 12:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your best to stay faithful. He might of already slept with her. Some women like to steal men away slowly without you noticing. Little by little she is probably taking him away from you. Some guys just are not all that faithful. I think she thinks that she is his girlfriend along with you. I also think that you should just do your best and if you feel this is gonna tear you and him apart. End it now on good terms. If you can help it. Do not let him be your enemy. Only if you want too. It is your choice.
2007-02-25 12:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you're friends with the girl, why don't you two talk about it? It will probably seem really awkward, but if you two get together on him, maybe he'll realize that he's being an ***
2007-02-25 12:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by maroula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him now. Don't let him treat you so disrespectfully. You don't want him laughing with his friends about how gullible you are (and he will).
I feel bad for you. This is a f*cked up situation. Don't let him make it any worse. Good luck.
2007-02-25 12:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by kim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not know if he has cheated. Have you talked to the girl, talk to her, and see where she is coming from, and if it just does not feel right, you have to leave him, who wants to be second fiddle to anyone, it is not right. and you do not have to put up with it.
2007-02-25 12:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him because guys only buy their girlfriend's stuff and pick them up. that's a little too much and since he won't stop, he's got to go.
2007-02-25 12:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by Clueless??? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's having the best of the both worlds..why would you want to let him treat you that way..only you can decide what you want..
2007-02-25 12:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by gaganjai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋