I just got my first boyfriend 2 weeks ago, he has had many girlfriends in the past and is very experienced while i am not. On our first day going out he tried to go to second base i told him to stop. it has made me really uncomfortable around him. He understands that im not like that. I really like him alot but i dont know if ill be ready for that anytime soon, how can i avoid him trying something like that again?
2007-02-25 04:36:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he already tried to go to second base wit u this soon then i m sure whatever u do he wont b able to stop, he wont b able to wait for u 2 b ready.
2007-02-25 04:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by annawuvzchris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he understands, then you're fine. Make sure that he really understands, so that he doesn't try anything like that again until you are ready. I don't think that he would try anything like that to you in public, so when you hang out, go somewhere where everyone can see you so that you two aren't totally alone. Get to know him more and be ready for him to try it again.
2007-02-25 12:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by (: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he understands that you aren't ready, he should lay off trying that.
Your best bet is to talk about it properly, and explain that when you're ready you'll make sure he knows.
2007-02-25 12:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by gothpunkfreak86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him how you feel. If he respects you he will understand & carry out your requests on this matter. If not move on & find someone that is mature enough to respect your wishes/desires on this.
2007-02-25 17:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything you dont want to.come right out and tell him how you feel.if he loves you and wants to be with you he will respect your wishes if not hes not the one for you.alot of fish in the sea.
2007-02-25 12:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by snowman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he tries it again put it to a stop -he obviously is not respecting you and your decisions!
2007-02-25 12:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by Bridget d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if hes worhty then you talk to him about it he will surely understand, its not right to be un sure around him i think a chat should help you two.
2007-02-25 12:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by Precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you aint ready 4 that
2007-02-25 12:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by blockzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats second base?.....and i agree he should slow downa little
2007-02-25 12:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by ~ Lillie ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and if he is really worth it he will understand
2007-02-25 12:41:04 · answer #10 · answered by Lil_B4ByLV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋