i loved one guy. but i dont want to continue the rest with himbecause he is not good to look. but that guy is still loving me. he is really good and wants to live with me only. the problem his i started loving him only through phone but i dont like his appearance but i like his charecter. please help to take a descision
2007-02-25 04:32:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actually our parents don't want us to marry coz my parents think he is not looking good they only started this problem. secondly his mom dont lkie me coz i look some what modern but his mom need a pakka south indian girl.
2007-02-25 19:10:59 · update #1
you cant base love just on looks. and u cant just stop loving someone its not that easy. it shouldnt matter how he looks bacause if you do love him thats all that should matter
if you dont on the other hand and he still does love you....just be honest wit him and let him down easy. its not gonna be 1 2 3 he stops loving u. it will take time.
hope this helps!!
2007-02-25 04:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by sarah t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ashlene is right. You gotta be compatible in all three aspects - Mental, Emotional and Physical. But nobody's perfect.
Secondly, how the hell did you decide that you were in love. What made you feel that you love him before you met him. I don't think that was love. Else you wouldn't have cared for his looks. Probably it was a wrong conclusion from your side.
If you don't think you can get along with him, just let him know. And tell him that you are sorry. You mistook that fair personality impression for love. That would hurt him. But it's better than to carry on and enburden both of your lives.
End next time, before ending up with any guy, think twice. Be sure that you are completely compatible with him.
All da best...
:-)
2007-02-25 14:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with human beings is that we want both worlds. The world of physical beauty and the world of beautiful souls.
You should make up your mind whether you need someone who would make you feel happy, fulfilled. A person who will respect you as a woman. A person whom you'll trust. A person who when they say they love you, you know deep inside of you that they mean it. A person who is prepared to make you their princess.
Or you need a hunk person. A person who makes your knees turn jelly - but is less interested in making you important in their lives. A person who makes women drool - and enjoys breaking their hearts and deceive them.
Get me right - I don't imply that you get an ugly guy (in your eyes - still remembering that beauty is in the eye of the beholder). I just say be careful not to lose someone who would make you the happiest person ever - only because his looks are not what you dream of. Looks play second fiddle to personality!!! Good luck!!!!!
2007-02-25 12:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.. i think physical attraction is really important to make a relationship work initially.. u dont wanna find urself in situations where u dont wanna kiss ur guy but are checkin out every other hottie that crosses by..
i think there are 3 things that make a relationship work.. mental, emotional and physical compatibility. Every individual has different needs. You've got to decide for urself whats more important for u. Nothing bad in wanting a good looking guy cos if thats whats important for u, thats what'll make u want a guy emotionally and mentally too. So chk with urself what ur first preference is.. and then decide :) :) good luck!
PS: I think my order is - Mental - Physical - Emotional ;)
2007-02-25 12:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by Brown eyes Ashlene 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't make the mistake and become a center of self-pity for the rest of your life. Many unhappy marriages are built on the foundation of mismatch--after all his is the first face you are going to see every morning for the rest of your life. Would he accept you if you had a large blemish on your face?
That is why attractive girls are much favoured.
The option of remaining friends still remains if you do not want to displease him.
2007-02-25 14:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by mcmohan40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love means look into heart n not face or appearance. But sometimes appearance and looks does matters bcoz u have to live with him/her for ur life........ n sometime somewhere u feel abt that. So ask urself do u really love him........even if he doesnt look good.
Do you knw..its really good to get person who loves you..dat you love dat person.....bcz if he loves u means he will keep u happy for whole ur life.
Bst luck.
have a nice life.
2007-02-25 12:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that u dont really love him let me tell u that from experience when u really love someone u forget theire physical apperance because their inner beauty overcomes everything. think about wen u see a good looking guy with a ugly girl or a good looking girl with a ugly guy why do u think that????? I think the answer is u might not really love him
2007-02-25 12:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by mima 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks aint everything..Ask yourself this would you rather have a good looking guy who treats you bad or a bad looking girl that treats you good..Me I would want someone who thinks the moon rises and falls with me...
2007-02-25 12:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by SOLIDERGIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him! Hes your type of guy, but if you don't like his appearance take him shopping to the mall, give him a makeover!
2007-02-25 12:42:45 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Vargas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok listen , i don't care if there r so many hot guys , beter lookin, and all but is doesn't matter whats on the outside all it matter is whats on the inside.
2007-02-25 22:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋