MY FRIEND AND I WERE DATING ABOUT 6 MONTHS BEFORE HE GOT DEPLOYED. HE KEEPS BREAKING UP WITH ME SAYING HE IS ON A EMOTIONAL ROLLCOASTER. HE DID IT AGAIN YESTERDAY AND I WAS NATURAL HURT. HE SAYS HE DOESNT WANT TO DISCUSS IT AND HE DOESNT WANT TO LEAD ME ON. HE COMES HOME SOON AND IM JUST AT A LOSE FOR WORDS. I REALLY LOVE HIM AND I WANT THINGS TO WORK OUT BUT HE BECAME A DIFFERENT PERSON. HOW DO I KEEP MY RELATIONSHIP CAUSE I DONT WANT TO LOSE HIM?
2007-02-25 04:37:23 · 3 answers · asked by SOLIDERGIRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is naturally gonna change, because he has been away for so long. The military does change you, and he may not realize it. He probably just gets sick of not seeing you like he use to. He is always happy to see you, but everytime he leaves, he gets upset because he dont know if he will ever be able to see you again. I think that explains the "emotional roller coaster." To be honest with you, you may not be able to save the relationship, but just be there for him. He is having a hard time out in the desert. Maybe he will realize that you are supporting him no matter what and he will know that you are the girl for him. I know how he is feeling, i am in the same predicament as him.
2007-02-25 05:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by traveling_soldier6784 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it looks like u already lost him long time ago....it seems like this i s a natural thing for ur bf (breakin up wit u den getting baq n den breakin up again)...just think about it, is this how u want it all ur life, well if u stay wit him den diz is how it will always b. if u move on then u might find someone u fall head over heels in love with n he wont do the same things as ur bf is doing now.
2007-02-25 12:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by annawuvzchris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already lost him. Do yourself a favor and move on. His behavior speaks volumes.
2007-02-25 12:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋