Family & Relationships - 25 February 2007

Okay, you're out with your "group" of friends. All of a sudden, everyone pairs up. You know, all of the daters in the group are all over each other. It gets annoying for those who aren't dating anyone because who are they supposed to be all over? Hello-you're single. That's how I feel. Anyone know what I mean? If so, how do you deal?

2007-02-25 09:26:00 · 8 answers · asked by wolfpack girl 08 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently decided not to let my little girl and boy stay at grandparnts overnight. This is due to many nightmares of m,y father abusing me. I am working with therapist, and still bring the kids over to visit nearly every week, but my step mom told me she is uneasy around me, like walkin on eggshells, cause it is clear I dont trust them with the kids. She knows already why I feel this wayand expects that a little talk my dad and I had cured my fears, but it did not.She made me feel like Lowly the worm, for making dad look like chester the molester, but I cannot go against my heart, and I hate hurting her, but she blames me for all this, for creating a problem where there shouldnt be one, ect, ect. Help!!!!!!

2007-02-25 09:25:19 · 13 answers · asked by wehweh 2 in Family

2007-02-25 09:24:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He will sometimes call me to go out with him and then I won't hear from him for several months at a time, and then he will call me back again to go out with him. He would sometimes call me and chat with me on certain occasions, but it would not be a weekly thing, but rather a haphazard kind of way. He has done so for several years now since I have known him. But he would meet up with me to celebrate on certain important occasions. He has given signals over the years to me, such as hinting going out to lunch with me etc., and going out to watch the movies with him. Even visiting one of his friends one weekend. He can sometimes be active in that we would meet up, and then I may not hear from him for several weeks and or months' at a time. Should I therefore be a bit more proactive, rather then let him make all the moves? It is driving me bonkers!!!! I just feel that I want to make some kind of move/action so that he might know how I feel about him!

2007-02-25 09:23:25 · 4 answers · asked by Braveheart 1 in Singles & Dating

im not close to my cousins at all. there my same age and we used to be closer when we were little but no wthings have changed, i get along with them but were not like freinds like all my friends are with there cousins i feel like im the blck sheep of the family this sux what should i do?

2007-02-25 09:22:27 · 4 answers · asked by sandyleesand 1 in Family

i met a guy for 3 times. he is nice and i think he likes me. he sometimes invited me for coffee or movie.
last week, when i called him, he let me know that he was on business in another city for 2 weeks and he would call me when he is back to the city.
what should i do now:
- just wait. if he doesnt call after 2 weeks, then leave him alone
- call him if he doesnt call

2007-02-25 09:22:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondered if there was any that maybe had a question like:

How often are you likely to get into moods if you dont get your own way?

OR

How many times have you been in trouble with the police?

I think it would be interesting to find out how many people answered those questions honestly!

2007-02-25 09:22:11 · 18 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 19 year old college student. Up until just a few months ago, I used to only want to date girls because I wanted someone to love me and be with me. But in the last month, my sex drive has gone from near zero to a raging beast and I've begun to really want to have sex with girls, in addition to wanting to be loved by them. Girls used to respect me because I didn't want them for sex, but now I'm worried that they'll think that I'm a pig for wanting it (I still want them for the other reason too, though) and they'll lose all respect for me. I feel so dirty and filthy because of these feelings. How can I make my sex drive go away?

2007-02-25 09:21:04 · 1 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my boyfriend. These past 3 days I know how he felt when I was with my friends and having fun. Well I just wish Ive never broke up with him. I'm trying to get us back together. I dont konw how to like talk to him about it and he sed lets start over n talk to eachother how we want to be treated. How should I start out on my part. What should I tell him?? I need help!! I cant eat, sleep, shake all the time and cry like every 10 minutes about not being with him. I Need Help!!!

2007-02-25 09:21:00 · 7 answers · asked by Brunette_Chic 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 09:20:28 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we have been together for 9 years, 4 kids. i love him very much but i always make allowences for his insecurities, hes very selfish and moody with me for no reason. i dont feel loved or specail. i do love him loads, hes the love of my life but why does it have to be so hard?

2007-02-25 09:20:28 · 24 answers · asked by soxpippa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay..So I am just gonna put my aboutme on here..k? okay dokay!!

I am a strong christian, I love the lord, I love having a good time, I love people, I love laughing, I hate drama, I am a vishouse fighter..I can't spell and I am the farthist thing from shy. I am the captain for the dance team at school and I love life!!! I hardly take any rood comment to heart and if I do...It had to be pretty darn harsh. Lol.. Mostly I just love to have fun!!! I love singing too!!! And acting..LOL..I want to be a race car driver..Which is really unexpected of me..Lol..I love racing go-carts and I am a total fashion freak. I love twisting new into old and old into new. I am CRAZY!! Haha..I have practicle dreams as well as HUGE ones..I love photography and musical theatre. I love it all!!
Haha..
XoXo
Sara Nicole

Hmmph..Thats just me!!

2007-02-25 09:19:58 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah Nicole O'Byrne 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

She's getting divorced, but might still be with her husband when my fiancee and I get married. Should she be the maid of honor or the matron of honor?

2007-02-25 09:19:34 · 17 answers · asked by GroovyGirl623 3 in Weddings

he's pretty cute, but not that popular. if i do ask him out, i don't want other people to think i'm a nerd!

2007-02-25 09:18:48 · 10 answers · asked by fab expert101 2 in Singles & Dating

Right now we do not live together. We will get married in May of 2008. We both live in the same big city. We've been dating for ~18 months. We are 25, no previous marriages or kids, college educated with good jobs. We will both be moving back to graduate school in fall of 2008.

2007-02-25 09:17:44 · 12 answers · asked by jaxson960 1 in Marriage & Divorce

At school/ life when you dont have any friends and when your family acts corny to you, when you go to work and you are alone, how can you prove people to like you or want to be with you?
Please answer seriously, because if you needed help I would help I would give good advice!

2007-02-25 09:17:39 · 19 answers · asked by Sonia2003 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 09:17:23 · 18 answers · asked by hello world 7 in Family

I keep hearing about first base, second base, and third base... Im not stupid, i just dont know what each r.... My friends have said ive been to third base with him or w.e. I cant remember what each include. Can someone help?

2007-02-25 09:17:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is 30 and we have been together for 7 months.... he wont initiate anything physical with me. He has said that he knows he has issues and apologizes. One time when we were beginning to move things forward he stopped me right in the middle of it.... since then nothing has happened. Is there anything I can do to help him feel more comfortable?

2007-02-25 09:16:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I have been divorced for alomost a year. I remarried a man with kids. When is the right time for my ex to introduce our 16 month old to his girlfriends? I say when it is a real commit to a relationship with one person. What do you think and how should we go about it? My new husbands ex made us wait 6months before I met his kids. Ages 11, 14 and 17 at the time? Please help. I want to do what is right for the children. Not myself.

2007-02-25 09:15:54 · 14 answers · asked by Wolf woman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

can it happen that you were not ready for a compromise while in the relationships and realize that maybe you could have after the relationship is over because of impossibility to make that compromise ...? especially sometimes when it's about religious belief? what do you think ?

2007-02-25 09:15:11 · 1 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in September... we are doing it as simple as possible but trying to stay as close to tradition as we can. I bought my dress, simple, staright line ivory dress and I plan on making my own invitations (to save money) but I have no clue as to what it is supposed to say... any ideas?

2007-02-25 09:15:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend and I are catholic. We've been dating a year and 9 months , but we had sex for the first time on friday. We both feel really guilty about it, and kind adepressed. He wants to forget it happened, because he said it could have been more special in the sense of, how it happened, not who it was with. But like i dont know what to say, i don't want to just forget it, and ir eally wanna know what he feels about it, and about me. I feel like i dissapointed him and myself, and i just am upset about it. We love each other, i know we do. But just help please?

Thankyou.

2007-02-25 09:14:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but why are we as wives to blame when you lose something?

2007-02-25 09:14:51 · 11 answers · asked by Thumbs down me now 6 in Marriage & Divorce

If your partner cheated.. would you take them back?

i've been cheated on 4 times, and about once a week, i feel totally miserable.. tonight, its one of them nights when i just feel like crying the fcuk outta me.. i've been working all day. i havn't seen my family and friends or gf all day, so basically, im all alone n i've begun to think..

my gf fcuking walks the hell over me and has even changed the way i look to suit HER needs. i feel like im the only one whose really into this relationship....i want to end it, but i love her.. right now, looking back, i know id be happy without her. all my life ive put peoples feelings ahead of mine, and im quite honestly sick to fcuk of people walking the walk over me

2007-02-25 09:14:09 · 2 answers · asked by 18/M/Scotland 3 in Singles & Dating

I saw him at my school dance. And asked him to dance. he said yes. And we were dancing but every once in a while he would just go start dancing with his friends. And then he came back and I turned around for a second and he grabbed my hips and his chest was rubbin against my back and stuff. Dont get me wrong I liked it. And then my best friend is a guy, and he came up to me and was like rubbin my legs and dancin with me just trying to make him jealous and he pushed him (kinda) and said "Hey." and then when we were slow dancing he kept putting his hands lower and lower. Does he REALLY like me? Did he really wana dance?

2007-02-25 09:13:52 · 9 answers · asked by santacruz_soccer_chik 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a Forty Seven year old divorced man who has been back in to dateing for a little over five years now and all I seem to find are women who think that it is all about them or they need space. I am very affectionate and like to hug and kiss, to feel loved and wanted. Yet I am told that that is wrong. If I am allowed to share a womans home that should be enough proof that she loves me. It seems to be all about them and not me. If you treat them like dirt they seem to not be able to get enough. Yet a guy that treats them like a Queen, who try's to spoil them and cater to them ends up being dumped on. I need to understand this somehow. Could someone please explain this to me.

2007-02-25 09:12:33 · 22 answers · asked by Billy Bayou 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy who I like alot, most of the credit goes to his charming personality but he is also very playerish

He goes out with 3 girls one after the other in a month.

I have liked him since forever and he has even said that I would make the perfect girlfriend for him.

should I tell him how I feel about him or no?

2007-02-25 09:12:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been thinking bad thoughts like suicide. i dont know if it is because my boyfriend hates me now that i got mad at him for some small reason or that i fel as if my mom hates me . my mom has been being really mean like calling me rude and disrespectful . i dont know what to do!!!

p.s. im only 13

2007-02-25 09:10:11 · 15 answers · asked by Vikki[Rawhr] 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

are happy less likey to live alone and never find anyone special

2007-02-25 09:10:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce