i have been thinking bad thoughts like suicide. i dont know if it is because my boyfriend hates me now that i got mad at him for some small reason or that i fel as if my mom hates me . my mom has been being really mean like calling me rude and disrespectful . i dont know what to do!!!
p.s. im only 13
2007-02-25 09:10:11 · 15 answers · asked by Vikki[Rawhr] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
omg i have thought this same thing... but after i have thought about i think about all that can happen!!! in the future you could get married and have a family and be blessed by many things... im almost fifteen and i have thought about it in the past two years but dont pleese!!! i have been to the point where i put sciccors up to my throught... now does that sound bad to u??? but hey, since i dont think about it anymore i have so many more friends and guys that actually like me now!!! so consider the things i have said babe... ttyl!!! and i hope i helped... xoxoxoxoxoxo
2007-02-25 09:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello I LUV PEEPLE.
Forget the suicide .
You will come through this.
It is hormonal and natural at your age.
You just have to ride it through for a year or two it will not last forever and you will go into the next phase of your life.
In the meantime try to focus on the things which you enjoy .
Resting in the knowledge that God loves you just as you are.
And family is important they will always be there for you no matter what. .
There are "friends as boys", enjoy the friendship and when you are older the time will be right to enjoy a "boyfriend"' who you will look forward to marrying.
Life is given on a daily basis you awake each morning to a brand new day learn from yesterday and look for something new today it will be there if you look.
A good idea is to have a little journal and before going to bed write down 5 things which made your day pleasant ,if you think back over your day you will find there were moments where a fresh breeze blew on your face!!
Take care!
2007-02-25 09:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 23:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not end your life because of a boy or you feeling like your mom hates you. I don't know of any mother hating their own child. Have you tried sitting down with your mother and talking to her. Are you being mean and disrespectful to your mother? It is tough being a teenager but you need to surround yourself with positive people and postive things. Are you involved in any sports or activities at school or after school? It is a great way for you to meet new friends and establish relationships with other people. Ending your life is not the way to go. You have a whole life ahead of you and I am absolutely sure that your family and friends would be devastated if you ended your life. You must be going through some serious depression for you to attempt suicide. Please get some help!
2007-02-25 09:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by Michael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me some time from now you wont care about this problem or your boyfriend cos you'll have a new and nicer one. Your mum doesn't hate you, your just at that age where everything seems to last for ever - including the bad stuff which is never really that bad. PS if you didn't go through this stuff you wouldn't grow emotionally youd just stay a little kid. So however painful this is for you - see it as a good thing. It'll teach you something. Your growing up, Good for you i say...
2007-02-25 09:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by nitenurse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The key word is age. You are young don't take things so hard. Let your boyfriend get over it or not, there are allot of fishys in the sea. Find someone that understands your ups and downs. As far as your mom goes, talk to her. Tell your mom how you are feeling. Ask her about her day, maybe she was having a bad day. We all have bad days don't we? Love life girl it is short and we need to enjoy every moment we can.
2007-02-25 09:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by Alone again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if you talk to your boyfriend and tell him that your sorry i'm sure everything will workout, as for your mom when i was your age me and my mom argued all the time and i felt like she hated me too. At 13 parental arguements are normal, your at the age where your discovering what its like to be a teenager. My advice is for you talk to a guidance counselor about how your feeling, and remember suicide is never the awnser.
2007-02-25 09:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Lady B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello ILUV PEEPL HOO H8 PEEPL,
The first thing you need to do is tell your mom how you feel and that you have been having thoughts of hurting yourself. Your dad should know about this also. Both of your parents love you in thier own way. Not all parents are able to show one's love.
Your mom may seem like she is being mean and may be, but on the other hand she may be trying to tell you in her own way that you are acting this way. Try to take a good look at how you have been acting and see if there is any truth to this.
Your too young at any age to harm yourself. It sounds to me like you are going through the changes of life (becoming a woman) and maybe don't know how to deal with it. By all means talk with her. Things will get better. I'm not a professional counciler but am going to start studying to become one soon. If you need someone to talk with you can e-mail me if you like. I remember what it was like feeling lost at your age, it was no fun. I have 3 girls and am 40. My e-mail is d_heyman1@yahoo.com. Please write me letting me know that you talked with your mom. Life is meant for living not for suffering.
Your feeling this way because your life is completely upside down and out of control. There is a direct connection between how much control we have and our lifes and how we feel. If your feeling suicidale (which is not good) then you feel like you do not have any control over your life. Where as if you feel happy you don't feel suicideale. Kind of make sence?
Hang in there things will get better. Tell your mom you would like to see someone (professionally) to help you deal with this.
Sincerely signed by one caring parent,
Buster
2007-02-25 09:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by Buster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, I don't think it's totally smart to express your inner feelings like this online, and secondly, you should talk to friends, family, anyone close to you that can be a good positive reinforcement or encouragement. Everyone goes through tough times, just keep a smile and try to deal with things the best you can. Suicide is NOT the answer, trust me.
2007-02-25 09:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by wolfpack girl 08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you are describing is nothing to end your life over. Just because your mom is telling you that, take it with a grain of salt. Parents go through phases, too. Besides, your boyfriend issue will work out. Whatever you do, do not commit suicide.
2007-02-25 09:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋