I broke up with my boyfriend. These past 3 days I know how he felt when I was with my friends and having fun. Well I just wish Ive never broke up with him. I'm trying to get us back together. I dont konw how to like talk to him about it and he sed lets start over n talk to eachother how we want to be treated. How should I start out on my part. What should I tell him?? I need help!! I cant eat, sleep, shake all the time and cry like every 10 minutes about not being with him. I Need Help!!!
2007-02-25 09:21:00 · 7 answers · asked by Brunette_Chic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him how u feel he should understand
2007-02-25 09:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by blossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy. You need to give it time. He is probably afraid that the break will happen again, so for him its like walking on eggshells. It sounds like you broke up with him and now you want him back. This is kinda sketchy, you don't want him to think you are going to always be bouncing back and forth like this.
So just clam down, give it time. You can tell him why you broke up in the first place and now you think it was a mistake, but that he is right about talking and taking time before you decide again.
It is actually the best thing for both of you to do.
If you can't stand it then being in a relationship is not for you, because a relationship requires patience.
2007-02-25 17:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by lor3d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you really care about this guy. First off, you should go see him face to face and talk. Start off by saying you're sorry and you made a mistake but ask for him to forgive you and to give you another chance. Then you can ask how you both would like to be treated and explain to him that you will do what it takes to treat him like he wants and you hope he will treat you like you want. But most importantly lay it out there how you feel about him. Tell him what you love about him and be true with your feelings, but know that being true and laying yourself out there you risk all. But if you don't risk at all you risk nothing. I know myself that risking all and failing is much better than risking nothing and losing.
2007-02-25 17:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by PJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide if you're going to cry every 10 minutes or spend 5 minutes telling him you are sorry and need him
2007-02-25 17:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
my guidline always was that if you broke up with them it was for a reason, and it will be hard at first but there are much better guys out there....
you have to be positive, and know you deserve more.
2007-02-25 17:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him. If he doesnt want you back tell him you were kidding and it was a prank. But if he does want you back....be happy.
2007-02-25 17:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kristy :P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly what you put here. maybe he'll understand.
2007-02-25 17:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by Choconilla♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋