At school/ life when you dont have any friends and when your family acts corny to you, when you go to work and you are alone, how can you prove people to like you or want to be with you?
Please answer seriously, because if you needed help I would help I would give good advice!
2007-02-25 09:17:39 · 19 answers · asked by Sonia2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Join something, anything, that doesn't involve school, family or work. Look in the paper to see if there are any clubs or groups doing anything you might find interesting. Don't let shyness keep you down, you don't have to be the life of the party to be a person of value. Also, volunteer your time to help others...it's a real pick-me-up when others depend on what you have to offer. Remember that people like people who like people.
2007-02-25 09:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by nin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I feel alone or anything. I go on a walk by myself. It really helps me because I think about everything. Sometimes I cry, but it helps me to forget about it. If I can't go on a walk at the time I just tell myself that it will be okay and that everything will work out. Some people think I have a great life. I do I guess. I have good friends. I have parents. I have lots of sibligns and i live in a house on the beach. I'm not rich i just live on the beach. My friends are great, except sometimes I'm afraid to tell them stuff. Like I havn't told them I got my period or anything. I havn't even told my stepsister that because she will make fun of me because I am younger than her and i am taller, have bigger boobs and weigh more...(but i am not fat I am perfect) but sometimes those things are a good thing to hide, eventually I will tell. But back to the question. Just tell yourself some good things. Do something that you love. Or just take a walk like me.
Hope I helped.
2007-02-25 09:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't give up! A lot of people believe in going about their daily work/life's goals and let personal relationship's happen on their own. Other advice is--get involved in things that you really like-you'll find people that have that (whatever it is) in common with you. Also, keep your eyes open for others that you want to talk to that are looking for someone to talk to. You can also learn from what others are doing.
Social intereaction/relationships are a life-long learning experience!
Your sincerity to help others (as you stated) is certainly a trait your friends with like in you, too.
2007-02-25 09:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must first realize that you are unique! God did not make mistakes, it's up to us to search out and choose the enlightened path to goodness with the faculties He gave us! That is a daily motivation. So find people who's lives reflect those good attributes and you will find people of like charactor, that honor,faith,hope, mercy, patiance,long suffering, self control, love. So if you Love God, you love His word and will follow it and be rewarded by seeking His wisdom and joining other "Pilgrims"in this world doing the same. If you don't have faith, than there is nothing to base your hopes in and depression filled with self loathing will ensue.
2007-02-25 09:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by Faerie loue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I act as if I am happy (even if I'm not), and treat everyone like a friend. If I have complaints, I keep them to myself. I smile a lot, and make a point of saying hello first and not waiting for someone to say hi to me. This seems to work pretty well. I stay out of the dramatics at work, and get along with everyone!
2007-02-25 09:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to cut your shot at psychology, slick, but if you think that people wake up everyday so they can get people to like them, or to work towards being socially accepted without a factual reason, you're on the wrong side of the tracks.
2007-02-25 09:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by guicho79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be great at motivating myself now i'm no longer able to be stricken , says me sitting on the laptop in a a million/2 embellished room and a very messy abode as each little thing yet me a chair and the lap spectacular are interior the corridor , going to run away .
2016-09-29 21:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personally i think of what if it was worst eg:when I'm hungry and not home i think of people in Africa who goes with out food for days that makes my suffering less
i always try and find good in the **** happening around me
we so focused on the bad things happening around us we tend not to see what we can gain out of or bad situations u know
bad patches come and go but good memories stay 4ever
so make ur life worth living for u and others löl
2007-02-25 09:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by sniper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy to have a brain, two eyes, ears, arms and legs. A mouth that you can speak with and the ability to understand that you are alive and you have freedom! And no matter how bad things seem, they could be worse! life sucks sometimes, but we have to be grateful for the things we have and the people we have in our life!
2007-02-25 09:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by Dawneen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not about getting people to like you or want to be with you. It is about listening to your inner wisdom and truth and believing in yourself from within, not from external nods or judgments-you will always find people who want to squash your vital energy. Honor who you are and learn to enjoy your own company and then the kinds of people worth having in your life will be drawn to you. You have to really believe in yourself first.
2007-02-25 09:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by Salsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋