Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

I met my boyfriend over a year and a half ago and we now live together and are very much in love.

At first, we "courted" for about four weeks, spending quite a lot of time together (three or four nights a week) and then he went on holiday to Spain with a friend. When he came back, I asked him to be my boyfriend officially and he agreed. Five or six months later, we were having a light-hearted chat and it came up that while he was on holiday during the first month, he had drukenly kissed somebody else in a club in Spain. He was not ashamed or apologetic in any way - he just said that's how dating goes. While he was very upfront about it we hadn't been together very long when it happened, I've felt betrayed ever since. He says he would never ever have done it had we been further into the relationship and never even looks at anybody else. However, was he wrong to kiss somebody else at that stage in our relationship? Did he do anything wrong?

2007-02-23 01:04:44 · 10 answers · asked by kevinos_1982 1 in Singles & Dating

steven is 25 julia is 22 born in germany last known in new massen there date of births are 22/12/1982 @6/6/1984 there father was in the british army

2007-02-23 01:04:09 · 4 answers · asked by MARIE G 1 in Friends

I've read a lot of questions/answers concerning a cheating partner being given another chance, and things being "better."

2007-02-23 01:04:01 · 10 answers · asked by nunya 3 in Singles & Dating

if you and you boyfriend been going out for a year and he got a baby with another chick. i having not see the baby. is that bad and 17 and his 20.he still leave with his motherand i guss he dont his mothe yo see me.i don;t have my driving linces yet and he hasn't even talk about me meeting his baby.

2007-02-23 01:03:41 · 8 answers · asked by v 3 in Singles & Dating

i dont know my brother said girls that put make up are ew.. but i didnt think so.. but maybe some girls do need to chill some lol i dont know anyway tell me how u think be honest! =]]

2007-02-23 01:01:45 · 13 answers · asked by hate the sand ~ love the castle 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 01:01:29 · 8 answers · asked by xXxiaomeiXx 1 in Singles & Dating

i still love my ex-boyfriend but i haven't talked to him in three months and i ran into him this past weekend and he wants to get back together and i'm in love with me close guy friend but he has a girlfriend... i would just date my ex but he broke up with me cauz he thought that hfe loved me friend

2007-02-23 00:59:59 · 8 answers · asked by whitt 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 00:59:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-23 00:58:53 · 5 answers · asked by bobby james c 1 in Friends

My father died three years ago, and I'm getting married on 07-07-07. My uncle, on my mother's side, is walking me down the aisle, and I am going to dance with him at the reception. What song do I pick? Any Suggestions? (Please no Wind Beneath My Wings, It's played too much and I want something other than that) I thank everyone for their suggestions. Have a Great Day !! :)

2007-02-23 00:58:00 · 12 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Weddings

please help me.
huge problem.
ok here it goes.
1st guy, let's call him Heinrich. this guy really likes me. and i think i'm also liking him because he's really kind, sweet, funny and smart.. but/
there's this other guy, let's call him, Rave, i had a crush on him, 4 years ago and it has come back. he's smart, and cute. but kinda rude. he's my seat mate and he always makes me laugh. its fun to be with him but sometimes it's also irritating..
and then there's this 3rd guy, let's call him, Gambit. He had been my bestfriend for 4 years. it's great hanging out with him. and i always seem to smile when i remember him or i'm with him.. he's cute, funny, smart, sensitive,.... and more..

but i dont know who's the one i really like.
and one person said that, "You have crushes but still he's the one you love".. he was pointing out Gambit.... well we have known each other well in those 4 years and we treat each other like we're siblings... PLEASE HEEELP!

2007-02-23 00:57:16 · 3 answers · asked by mikan_heart_natsume 1 in Friends

2007-02-23 00:55:43 · 1 answers · asked by icecreamheadache420 2 in Singles & Dating

Weve been dating over 2 months...hes been nothing but sweet, sensitive, and honest with me. He ended up moving in bc his roomate kicked him out...i didnt want him here, i said wed end up being friends, but we are trying it. He went to central america 2 weeks for his job...he came back and i saw condoms in his little see-through travel bag...i confronted him, he said they were old and he hadnt taken them out, and did not sleep with anyone...they are old once i got to looking at them...he was also very busy on the trip his friends said and didnt even go out...anyway...i started asking about his past, the question popped into my mind and i asked, "did you ever sleep with prostitutes?" he said yes in high school and college, but it was meaningless sex...he is 34 and mexican...should i be angry/ worried? Is it more acceptable there? I thought i was an open-minded person, but man. I apologized last night for the way i have been acting and he almost cried, he said lets forget.

2007-02-23 00:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Will radiocarbon marriage be next?

2007-02-23 00:54:04 · 4 answers · asked by jeanie_in_a_beer_bottle 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I have been with this guy for almost a year now- April is our 1 year together.. I have never cheated on him.. I found out he was on the chatline- first his ad which he did not record-- was in intimate encounter now it's in dating... he goes on there and he contacts other women.. he does not have a permanate ad for fear probably I would hear it.. like i did a few months ago and he told me that was an ad he had before we met-I only want to be with you-LIAR- foregave him now he is back on again.-I love him so much- I am so there for him- I cook, I clean, the wash, walk the dog, take care of him when he was sick, looking for another job for him-he says he's not happy at his now job, I sit up and record Monday night raw WWE and ECW for him and if I miss the show he gets upset so then I have to go online to a torrent site and download it and burn it. he's a DJ so I even download and burn music he doesn't have and burn it...

2007-02-23 00:53:25 · 11 answers · asked by dimeinga1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here's mine:

I was sixteen, and I was visiting a friend's house. His mother had left for the day, so it was just us. We got hungry, so we went to the freezer and found a pack of hot dogs. We cooked entirely too many though, and ended up with over a dozen left over.

One of us started tossing a hotdog up at the ceiling fan, and when the fan finally hit it, the hotdog got slung across the room. In what seemed like no time at all, he and I have gone to opposite ends of the room and were churking hotdogs at each other. (We had barricaded ourselves behind overturned tables)

The phone rang, and my friend told me "time out". I didn't hear him say "time out", though, and I threw another weenie at him. It hit him smack in the face just as he was saying "hello...OWW!"

It turned out to be his mother on the phone, and when she asked what was wrong, he said what I think to be the funniest line I've ever heard in my life:

"I just got hit in the eye by a stray weenie going 100 miles an hour!"

2007-02-23 00:52:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-23 00:51:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend is still legally married. We've been together almost 4 years and it's upsets me it doesn't bother him enough to make it a priority to get rid of her. I got divorced right away. I just don't like the idea that he still has a wife. This is one of our repeated arguments and I feel hurt by his lack of concern or interest in my feelings. Why do you think he hangs on? Would any other women out there feel this way? I even suggested moving out for 6 months so he could evaluate how he really feels about me. That didn't seem to bother him. I want to be his wife but if he doesn't respect my wishes, maybe I should just move on. When he first moved in with me, he told me I was his wife then. I feel like I was cheated out of all the things he did for his wife and not me. Why did he marry her? I just feel hurt.

2007-02-23 00:51:18 · 25 answers · asked by meganzopf 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Her name was Tanya she had a son named zander (Who I named) This guy named David was the father but he walked out on her that's when I got with her I know the whole internet dating this is tacky but I loved her she had a cusin named angel who lived in FL i think then one day tanya started talking about jail then both her and angel just vanished I searched everywhere I'm a fool I know but I'd just like some answers

2007-02-23 00:48:24 · 3 answers · asked by timesbleed 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 00:48:23 · 36 answers · asked by black_dahlia 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Mother tells a lot to daughter. Should father tell anything or he should keep quiet and enjoy the wedding as guest? Is it his duty to say anything? Saying / telling / teaching is right or wrong?

2007-02-23 00:48:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how can I burn a cd to my laptop!!!!!?
what is the easier I can do so that I can burn a cd!!!!!!!?

pls......help!!!!!!!!

2007-02-23 00:47:45 · 3 answers · asked by cute girl 2 in Friends

My fiance and I were going to get married in August with the money we recieved from our tax returns. My aunt and uncle offerrd us their beautiful home to have the wedding at. We went over the costs last night (right down to the glasses for wine) and we still have money left over. But then we thought about the things that we need done on this new little cottage house that we bought. If we didn't get married this year (and pushed it out a year) we could get these things done and even have money left over to pay off some debt. My inner turmoil is that my family knows about the wedding and I wonder how disappointed they would be if we told them that our home is in need of repairs and the wedding would need to be next year. Any comments?

2007-02-23 00:47:24 · 17 answers · asked by Sarah C 2 in Weddings

2007-02-23 00:46:49 · 8 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-23 00:46:36 · 1 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

be honest please

2007-02-23 00:45:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now he wants to sue me. Does he stand a chance?

2007-02-23 00:44:46 · 32 answers · asked by victor 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Did it give you a kick or something?Peer-pressure?Do you give someone a hard time if you consider them weak, a loser, or inferior to you somehow?

2007-02-23 00:44:19 · 3 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last year, my boy and I were split up. The most problem is I can’t forget him. I really love him but he was dumping me. I can’t and never stop thinking of him. He said that love me too but the reason he was leave me is I’m too kind, good…. So he thinks he is not fair if we are together. He thinking that he’s too bad and unkind. But for me he’s make me complete. he's my superboy.

2007-02-23 00:44:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always hear that the girls want a sensitive guy but that hardly seems true.
What do you really want?

2007-02-23 00:43:13 · 12 answers · asked by Lynx 2 in Singles & Dating