Last year, my boy and I were split up. The most problem is I can’t forget him. I really love him but he was dumping me. I can’t and never stop thinking of him. He said that love me too but the reason he was leave me is I’m too kind, good…. So he thinks he is not fair if we are together. He thinking that he’s too bad and unkind. But for me he’s make me complete. he's my superboy.
2007-02-23 00:44:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you need to rethink this,, why would you love someone who dumps you? he may really like you, but if he truely loved you deeply, he wouldnt dump you,, and to be honest, telling you that you are too good for him, is a polite way of telling you he doesnt want to be with you,,,
perhaps if you sit down, and list the things you really like and love about him,,, specific things,,, then list the things you dont like (number one would be he dumped you) you could get a better perspective on this,,, also consider what about this person is good for you, benefits you.
love needs to be, as you mature,,, not just a general feeling that doesnt look clearly at reality,,
2007-02-23 00:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by dlin333 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, I have had that problem and i am sure that alot of us have, its hard as hell and even harder when others you date don't compare. My situation was similiar and to this day 5 years later I still think of him. I have moved on and gotten married to a really great guy but first loves are hard to forget. Don't forget but you have to move on. Once we broke up I tried and tried to get him back...it didn't work. My mom always said if it was meant to be then it will be...
good luck girl
2007-02-23 00:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by r_fazenbaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to him...he's basically telling you that he will not be faithful and he doesn't want to 'corrupt' a good sould as yourself. He broke up with you, and just leave it as that. Find another guy with a kind soul like yours and just try to move on.
2007-02-23 00:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's just leading you on. He doesn't want you anymore but doesn't know how to let you down easy. Plain and simple truth. It hurts, but like I'm sure you've heard hundreds of times, there is someone out there for everyone. He is NOT it.
2007-02-23 00:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that sounds like a problem worth ignoring. Definetly.
2007-02-23 00:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by ThisAin'tASceneIt'sAnArm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a new superboy ... theres many out there
wide selction to think about and meet
2007-02-23 00:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by pj_pillow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is lying.. its just a lame excuse lady.. if ur bad u wud always want someone good..
Ignore it.. u deserve better
2007-02-23 00:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Referring to your black mate as "boy" may be your first problem
"boy" is something you whip or make shine your shoes
2007-02-23 00:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by Brad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he might have cheated on you , if he said he was bad nd stuff move on , life goes on .
2007-02-23 00:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be young.....and these feelings are natural..........it is hard to let go of emotion...........but hang in there.......there is a lot of love yet to come............and believe me......if he says that....it probably is a mask.......maybe he's saying , you're not wild enough for him..........you may have higher moarls........and that is good..........summer is coming....spring is in the air.............new love abounds............SMILE!
2007-02-23 00:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by bandit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋