Hi, I have been with this guy for almost a year now- April is our 1 year together.. I have never cheated on him.. I found out he was on the chatline- first his ad which he did not record-- was in intimate encounter now it's in dating... he goes on there and he contacts other women.. he does not have a permanate ad for fear probably I would hear it.. like i did a few months ago and he told me that was an ad he had before we met-I only want to be with you-LIAR- foregave him now he is back on again.-I love him so much- I am so there for him- I cook, I clean, the wash, walk the dog, take care of him when he was sick, looking for another job for him-he says he's not happy at his now job, I sit up and record Monday night raw WWE and ECW for him and if I miss the show he gets upset so then I have to go online to a torrent site and download it and burn it. he's a DJ so I even download and burn music he doesn't have and burn it...
2007-02-23 00:53:25 · 11 answers · asked by dimeinga1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he was suppose to call me last night but no... he was on the phoneline anyway,I had my sister on the chatline last night and she sent him a message and he replied back 3 times... what a jerk-off!! i saved his responses. I am so so depressed sad and I feel used, I don't want to lose him but... what do i do. we are together every weekend... me, him, his mother... can someone talk with me please dimeinga1@yahoo.com
2007-02-23 00:57:15 · update #1
How do I break up with him?? I don't want to,, my love for him is so great, and sex, when I am there we are very intimate... I just don't get it
2007-02-23 01:08:33 · update #2
OK, it sounds like this guy is a combo of a slave driver and a womanizer, my suggestion? You might want to take a look at your own role in this relationship, and ask if it's worth salvaging or not. If you decide it's not, figure out a way to work up the courage to tell this dude it's over. I'm hoping you'll make the right decision.
2007-02-23 01:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sun Quan 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are such a good girlfriend to him and you are doing so much for him he no longer has any challenges and the sense of self worth he gets from achieving his objectives. Many men like to have challenges in their life, the chase followed by the sense of victory.
He seems to be missing this sense of achievement in his life and in sense you have taken over much of this over and left him with lots of free time. Perhaps this can be replaced by sports, games, building a life together, plannng a holiday, study or building a career. Tell him you are busy give him back some of the tasks you were doing, even ask him to do some jobs for you and compliment him sincerely if he does that well. You can also play hard to get but desirable, let him turn his wooing attentions back on to you and reward him when he is putting an effort in.
2007-02-23 01:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Chris C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-08 01:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i know what you are going through!!! i dated a dj 2 years ago at first everyone was like "you never know about them dj's" and blah blah blah the same talk ALL the time... and i always thought "nah he is different" but then i just caught him in so many lies, the smallest ones too it was crazy i knew he would never change. but anyways, this guy you are with sounds like such a jerk... he doesn't appreciate a thing you do! He does not deserve you. I'd just get up and leave him and say i'm tired of this.
2007-02-23 01:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I read your entire question. The one thing that rang a bell for me is that you do all this stuff for him, but it seems like the intimacy between the two of you is lagging. Go above and beyond to make your sex life incredible. Make it so he doesn't even think about another woman. Do less of the mundane every day things for him, rock his world instead! They take for granted all those little things you do for him. Make sure he's getting enough sex at home. That's the most important thing to a man. They think differently than we do.
2007-02-23 01:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you nevertheless there? he's telling you which you haven't any longer any destiny as a pair. This clown would not even think of in any respect. Are you that undesirable off which you're able to slot in with this repulsive difficulty? And cheating? Puh-leeze.
2016-11-25 01:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run Forrest, Run!! He's such a loser, part of being a couple is feeling secure and as though you matter.Clearly you don't. There is someone out there who will make you feel good, someone who will appreciate all you do and return the favour. This guy is dead weight, and soon enough, you will get sick of dragging it along.
2007-02-23 01:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there there is no easy way , it will hurt for a while but it better than latter when find out he been sleeping with diffrent woman, and he brings home stds, in your heart you thin he is not cheating, then you better think twice all the red flags are there ?
2007-02-23 01:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by Dove4ever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him an ultimatum n tell him if he dont stop u will leave him,chatlines r addictive just like ebay!!ha,or failing that tell him you just landed yourself a part time job on a sexline,u need to curb this addiction otherwise it will tear ur relationship apart,good luck.x
2007-02-23 01:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by shaz1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't deserve you.......you are an easy life for him.....to put it in better terms YOU ARE A DOOR MAT. You deserve to have the same love and respect that you give him....stop being played as a fool. good luck and keep your head up;)
2007-02-23 01:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋